March Army 2022

[satz123]

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I finally sent a reply to my sister yesterday evening -- got an email back first thing this morning saying she'd love to meet... and then -- a bit of a shocker -- her only daughter (same family as mine --3 boys 1 girl) -- aged 45 died in January from cancer.... herself and D were extremely close so have to say my heart went out to her -- so we've been talking since and I'm meeting up with her on Wednesday -- we'll see how it goes but it definitely put things in context....

How's things in the Satz household? Any word from YS?

Oh Molls how terribly sad. Yes I'd say you meeting your sister is happening just at the time that's right for you.
Your life is changing this year - this is just another change.
I hope it works out for you.

YS is back here - the place in Waterford doesn't want him back.
I had to make a drugs run to a friend in Dublin for 5 Librium in case he had a seizure.
His doctor up here didn't want to know / doctor in Waterford the same - they were too busy even to talk to him.
So I took things into my own hands and he will detox here.

MsGermany : I told her everything and she is beyond devastated and extremely angry with her Dad ( who gave him a black eye that night - did I tell you that ?)
The shit's already hitting the fan as she is now on the phone to him down there.
My head is melted with it all....

[JackieClaire]

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Morning,
It doesn't bear think about loosing your child no matter how old. Molls, glad you're going to reconnect with one of your sisters even though its tragic circumstances...........she needs you.

Clocks go forward tonight just in time for Mother's Day...........so that means my kids have an hour less to be nice to me.

I'd better get googling and have a look see at this Oughterard.

[mollyka]

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Oh Molls how terribly sad. Yes I'd say you meeting your sister is happening just at the time that's right for you.
Your life is changing this year - this is just another change.
I hope it works out for you.

YS is back here - the place in Waterford doesn't want him back.
I had to make a drugs run to a friend in Dublin for 5 Librium in case he had a seizure.
His doctor up here didn't want to know / doctor in Waterford the same - they were too busy even to talk to him.
So I took things into my own hands and he will detox here.

MsGermany : I told her everything and she is beyond devastated and extremely angry with her Dad ( who gave him a black eye that night - did I tell you that ?)
The shit's already hitting the fan as she is now on the phone to him down there.
My head is melted with it all....

Omg can she not just support you both instead of adding to it?

[JackieClaire]

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[MENTION=9094]satz123[/MENTION]............sorry cross-posted.
What the feck is up with doctors...............they've become very 'precious'. What ever happened to their Hippocratic Oath?
He is ill with something called alcoholism time they pull their fingers out of their arse and start doing what they're paid for.

Get your pup and go back to bed................let the rest of them get on with it.

[satz123]

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Evening all !
Well just spent 2 hours in the garden with Ms Germany. She's supportive but in a "right what can we do to fix this" type of way.
I know - let's rehash it over & over for 2 hours in the sun ..... FFS !
Sorry but it's so futile - he's off doing his thing.

Anyway I'll forgive her 'cos she got GORGOUS flowers delivered & brought a Jo Malone candle for me.
Me me me.

Meanwhile YS got up mumbled something about getting his phone fixed & left before she came. He is wracked with shame - can't face anyone - and is dealing with it the only way he knows - alcohol. Not sure where he'll end up .... but nothing I can do about it.

Hope yiz are all having a lully day in the sunshine here in Ireland & UK ................. it's to snow next week

Oh yes that's me spreading the joy :harhar:

[mollyka]

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Evening all !
Well just spent 2 hours in the garden with Ms Germany. She's supportive but in a "right what can we do to fix this" type of way.
I know - let's rehash it over & over for 2 hours in the sun ..... FFS !
Sorry but it's so futile - he's off doing his thing.

Anyway I'll forgive her 'cos she got GORGOUS flowers delivered & brought a Jo Malone candle for me.
Me me me.

Meanwhile YS got up mumbled something about getting his phone fixed & left before she came. He is wracked with shame - can't face anyone - and is dealing with it the only way he knows - alcohol. Not sure where he'll end up .... but nothing I can do about it.

Hope yiz are all having a lully day in the sunshine here in Ireland & UK ................. it's to snow next week

Oh yes that's me spreading the joy :harhar:

There you are... well you found him and he's safe -- that's a result! And yes -- she's supporting you in the way she knows how -- it's all you can hope for really -- and whereas it's re-hashing for you I s'pose it's all news to her - I presume she thought he was doing fine? you sound a bit brighter xx

Had a pisser of a day and came home to a pisser of an evening -- micro-manager at work -- niggle fucking niggle on and on and on and on.... my head is/was WRECKED ... Came home to Jill all touchy cos Joe made a joke about her being 'domesticated' -- like -- I didn't even get the joke never mind why she took offence... she stormed out of the house about 2 hours ago and haven't seen her since -- jaysus she has NO business having a go at Joe -- he is too good to her --- painting and fixing and doing the divil and all for her -- added in some childminding -- I'm very very cross with her... she can stew for the night --

Hope you're having a lovely time in Oughterard Rusters -- wish I was in Oughterard or Ohio or Oslo or sodding ANYWHERE -- going to bed now -- I'm so tired and so poxy fed up..... night folks -- hopefully will cheer up tomorrow -- apologies for the moan!

[satz123]

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There you are... well you found him and he's safe -- that's a result!

He left at 12:30 today & not back yet.

Moan away Molls - you're distracting folk away from me moaning :haha:
It's really all so trivial isn't it ?
I'm sure a month ago the Ukrainian mammies had the same buggerances as us and then - puff - it all means nothing. All irrelevant.
So today I decided f*ck it !
Everything is so fleeting. There's no need to worry about YS having no future - because none of us are guaranteed a future either.




On that cheery note - I'll say nighty night :llama:

[IamMary]

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Omg.. so much happening here and wont ne much of a reply until i have a mothers day moment tomorrow.
[MENTION=9094]satz123[/MENTION], youll never not worry, but your right, time to move on and think about yourself now. He needs to get himself back on track now and if he does that, hes in with a shot. Sobriety is so fragile.

Molly, so sad to hear that about your niece :hug:

[rustop59]

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Good morning everyone

That is so true Mary and we should never forget it. Happy Mothers Day to all the Mothers.

Did a 17km hike yesterday and climbed to the top of a cairn. The weather and views were only amazing.

Having breakfast and then heading back. Was a lovely break.

[JackieClaire]

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Morning,
Happy Mothers Day and sympathy to the offspring that have to pay twice as much on flowers than they did last week.

Got Mr & Mrs JC (junior) and baby bump arriving at 10:30am..............they'll be late.

Got a grumpy head on because of loosing an hour...............I must be the only person in the world that gets jet lag because of it.

[MENTION=22411]IamMary[/MENTION]............love .......sobriety is fragile. Its the most important thing in my life.

Glorious weather today but snow is on its way.

[mollyka]

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Afternoon....happy mothers day...first swarm of sprogs been and gone...drawing breath before the next ones;-)

No news much here so yeah...might water the garden...delighted you enjoyed yourself Rusters...need a posh hotel break.....

[IamMary]

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Morning,
Happy Mothers Day and sympathy to the offspring that have to pay twice as much on flowers than they did last week.

Got Mr & Mrs JC (junior) and baby bump arriving at 10:30am..............they'll be late.

Got a grumpy head on because of loosing an hour...............I must be the only person in the world that gets jet lag because of it.

[MENTION=22411]IamMary[/MENTION]............love .......sobriety is fragile. Its the most important thing in my life.

Glorious weather today but snow is on its way.

The beautiful weather masked jetlag, we were all knackered tonight.
Was the bump and its parents late? We were (sisters).. but so was dinner. BIL is a fabulous cook, but always at least an hour behind schedule hunger is a great sauce though!

Rustop, your day sounds perfect!

Did you cook for them all Molly?

[IamMary]

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He left at 12:30 today & not back yet. :

Hear anything yet?

[mollyka]

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The beautiful weather masked jetlag, we were all knackered tonight.
Was the bump and its parents late? We were (sisters).. but so was dinner. BIL is a fabulous cook, but always at least an hour behind schedule hunger is a great sauce though!

Rustop, your day sounds perfect!

Did you cook for them all Molly?

Did not....it was Mothers Day...ate the chocolates they brought ;-)

[JackieClaire]

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Morning.
The junior Mr & Mrs JC arrived on time :egad: She's got a lovely round bump.................. they've found out she's got Pubis Dysfunction ( off you trot to google as I'm not explaining it here) other than that she's glowing. The S&H looks like he got the cream off the milk.
I'm being very good and kept my gob shut about the ups and downs of having a baby in the house. I was ready to have Jenny adopted when she had colic so I thought it was better to let them find out for themselves.
Their house was badly hit by the storms so they've got workmen all over the place...............all we had was a bit of drain blew off and the bloke next door put it back.

Once they'd gone we zoomed up to the in-laws. We had some fun looking through her hat collection.

Got a man that can coming tonight to measure up for the new bathroom. They've already got our measurements but this man is doing it properly.
Mikey and I will be spending a couple of days in a hotel while they bang about. We did it with Bess when they put the kitchen in.

After two gloriously warm days with many white legs on show we've gone back to Winter.