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My man void story is pathetic! Married an abusive guy. Knew he was but we lost our first child to SIDS before we were married so

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Opps! See this work thing is not working! SOOOOOO

We got married and pregnant again me knowing he was a loser. After five years and two more children I left him for good. Two years later met Bum number 2. Kept him around for 5 years till he almost financial drained me. Finally dumped him for good two years ago and have been attempting to demagnatize (sp?) my bum magnet ever since.

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Hummmmmmm.
You know how they run your purchase over that thing at the stores so that it won't set of the alarm when you exit the store? Mybe you could hop up there and run your bum magnet over it? Of course you would then meet all kinds of nice security people and policemen maybe?:lol

Sorry........your story is so sad.... I cant even imagine losing a child. :c Got to be THE hardest thing in the world. How old was He-she? and what was her-his name? Only if you want to share.:d :d :d

I know it must be hard to meet good people . It does get lonely and kids are good but they grow up and leave(hopefully).
Living in the country for the past six years has shown me lots of things. The biggest thing I've learned is to be alone, and be still and just know in my spirit that I'm OK. I do have a hubby but he has his own thing going all day and goes to sleep as soon as dinner is over!
So....I'm really happy that I've found MWO and somebody to share with! :happy
Thanks for starting this thread. I think it will be good karma for everyone to "vent".

Nancy:h

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I'll post my story about men when I have more time, but now I have to get ready for work.

Hugs,
Kathy

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Thanks. She was a girl, Michelle. She was 8 weeks old. I now have two more beautiful girls and the three of us are very happy. Their Dad is a good father, best he knows how to be.....and he is in their lives.

I'm hoping I'll find that Mr. Right who will support me in my adventures through MWO and life in general. I know he is out there!

But the old saying you have to kiss a lot of toads is NOT a lie!:lol I just didn't know you had to kiss that many!

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Oh Thuzzy, Thuzzy, Thuzzy..... Like Kathy I wish I had more time this morning. My story is much different. To long to type. But as far as the man void I have had that for a super long time too. Long before a divorce. Lived through abuse....tho different then yours....but everyones is. The thing it all has in common is spiritual abuse. I really believe that when our spirit is beat down from any sort of abuse.....that if we dont heal it, love it, work thru the pain of it....I dont know somehow fix it, we only attract more of the same. My marriage was for 24 years. Have 3 son's. Been divorced now for about 1 yr. I know what you are talkin about the emptiness and that void inside your self. But its like I think of it as if I'm all banged up from battle and I'm in the body shop (ha...I wish) and I wanna get all straightened out and spiffed up so I can feel better about myself before I allow that void to be filled. Then you will automatically attract a more healthy, positive person and have the life that you want instead of the life you had. Sure.....you could get the void filled now it ya wanted to.....but without the body shop treatment like.....here MWO here is huge for me on self healing. Also the other things that will help heal your spirit like just simple self nuturing, honoring yourself and taking care of yourself in anyway that comes about. Then good will just come....I dont think you will have to look for it or wish for it anymore. It will just come.
Damm, I hope I am makin sence here and that topa dopa isnt in control. That is happening a bit since the 75mg. going back to re-read before this whole thing goes poof gone and I dont know what happened then and I know we dont have a ghost.
gabby

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whew....ok I guess that wasnt to bad. Anyway, I know this sounds preachy, I dont mean to, But I really believe for myself that By really takin a look at what behaviors, needs, desires of my own that brought me into my marriage that contributed to the not so great outcome so I can make sure I dont do it again. Before its to late and I already did it again....see what I mean. And we all know alcohol played its part. Here is a great place to start. Good Luck Thuzzy to us both. Gabby

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Actually Gabby, I think void is in all their (mens) heads! No matter what shape, color, etc.! I'm not really in a hurry, I'm enjoying raising my kids and trying to attain my personal goals. I think when the time is right another guy will come along and hopefully this one will have more good qualities than bad! But, in the meantime I'm happy without one! I just chuckle thinking about what some of us have had to deal with trying to find Mr. Right like ....:hat :smokin 8o :evil

All of the above!

But those bad one, especially the ones we all married made us realize what we don't want for the rest of our lives! But mine made beautiful kids!

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Man void - great thread

Hmmn, wondering why I just had to relog in as myself with password, etc.? Anyone else run into this at this time of day (5:50 EDT)?

Boy, I'd like to run with this one. Better post first, though, and see if I can.
Hugs
Cathy:d

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not married...never married. Engaged once a long time ago and happy that I ended it - it would not have worked out.
now I just tend to go for unavailable men----intimacy problems??? well, perhaps. too concerned about having a bad relationship to have one at all...
cats keep their comments and criticisms to a minimum:b

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Ok. So maybe I'm the only man reading this going "I hope I'm not like these men they are describing, what if I am?"

Now you'll have me wondering all day.

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Mag, so long as you keep working on yourself, and your marriage....everyday. Never take things for granted. When your in trouble is when you believe you are superior to women, you know everything and there in no need for you to look at yourself for personal growth anymore. The fact that you are here at MWO is awesome!
Thuzzy, I agree with you about the kids. There is still a lot of good that came from our hard relationships. : ) gabby