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    #31
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    Welcome Luce- this is the best site with the best support. I am also married w/ one child. I have moderated since May and am on day 6 of no alcohol. I can honestly say I have changed my mindset and have a clearer conscious since I have had in years. Please read, read and read. Post as many questions as you need to. You have made the first important step! Great job!
    AF since 2/22/2012

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      #32
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      Oh man do I ever understand...this place saved my life...i looked like I had it all together on the outside too- great job beautiful family - but every night i could not stop drinking...well not any more....the topa has been life changing...and i was really resolved to do it this time...and i only think about it for the one day...not forever or it gets way too heavy....You gotta read the book..it is a super easy read...and will get you pumped up for the change...and then planning is important as everyone has said...sounds small but you have to fill the time that you were drinking....I am here for you...everyone here is...keep posting and just begin...it comes together bit by bit and before you know it you are doing it....i swear...i am living proof and if i can do it....ANYONE can...:welcome: Buckle:l

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        #33
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        Welcome Luce,

        Good you made it here - you have found an amazing place.

        Believe me - MWO DOES change lives - I have been successfully moderating for about six months - and am currently a week into a 30 day (minimum) period of abstinance - and feeling great - no cravings at all!

        Considering my history, if anyone had told me I could do that before I came here - I would have laughed out loud.

        But please consider what the others have said - don't go cold turkey - unless you do it under medical supervision.

        Hope to talk to you often.

        Good Luck

        Satori
        xxx
        "Though there are many paths at the foot of the mountain - all those who reach the top see the same moon - as any fule kno"

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          #34
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          I feel SO lost
          but am INHALING your responses...PLEASE dont stop

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            #35
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            We are here

            Luce,

            We ARE here!!

            Do not give up.

            It is hard. No doubt.

            If you need your doctor. Go. Get help. Get through detox.

            If not, if you can get through without, we are here regardless.

            We ALL CARE!!

            We will be here

            Cindi
            AF April 9, 2016

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              #36
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              Hey, Luce

              Just like Cindi says, we're here.

              Tell us what you're up to.

              magic xx :schmokin:
              ~Are you looking for the Holy One?
              I am in the next seat.
              My shoulder is against yours. ~Kabir

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                #37
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                Hi Luce

                Just wanted to add my Welcome ! Keep posting. Everyone here will keep supporting you as you begin this journey.
                Lilac

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                  #38
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                  Luce - I am sure God in his wisdom has led you to this site. Where you go from here is ultimately up to you, but you will get all the support, advice, and acceptance you could possible ever find here. Why don't you take the next step and plan how you would like to go through the detox process - whether to check into a facility, or order the books, meds, etc that a lot of people have used here. That would be one step, and then you can take a step after that, and again after that, and we'll be with you all the way. Welcome!
                  The furture lies before you like newly fallen snow - be careful how you tread it, for every step will show.

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                    #39
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                    curve ball.... It looks like I may be pregnant.... after struggling for 11 years with infertility I am shaking with such incredible mixed emotions! I dont want to lose this baby but I really am worried that I will... I am 9 weeks

                    I went to the doctor yesterday and we are planning a detox of some kind...
                    I am out the door to see my therapist....then off for blood work ... please pray
                    I really am trying!!!

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                      #40
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                      luce- clever name! welcome!

                      There is not much left for me to add except do read the book, read the research section, get some supplements, it is all in the book......

                      It will be 1000x better. This place has worked for many people here and it will work for you too.

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                        #41
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                        Luce,
                        I agree with Hannah, God has begun to answer your prayers by bringing you here. There is hope. Just 3 months ago I was right where you are. Now I know I'm going to be OK. Stay with us, get to a doctor.

                        Let us know how you are doing every day as many times as you want. Someone is always here.
                        If I ruin my body where will I live? :ranger

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                          #42
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                          Hey Luce ... *strong thoughts and vibes* to you and baby. Sounds like you're putting yourself on the right path ... with the doc and bloodwork, etc. Keep on posting, ok!?!

                          ~Catt
                          AF for two years. Slight relapse. Working on it at the moment.

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                            #43
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                            Hi Luce,

                            Congratulations! What a wonderful piece of news and it's great to know that you will have all the physical medical support from your doctors as well as emotional support from us here!

                            What better motivator than the health and safety of your unborn child to help keep you focused on the new life that you want for all of you??!!

                            Take care of yourself and good luck with all the blood tests etc. :l
                            :rays: Arial

                            Last first day - 15th April 2012
                            Goals:
                            Days 1-7 DONE
                            Days 8-14 DONE
                            Days 15-21 DONE
                            30 days DONE
                            60 days
                            100 days

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                              #44
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                              well, im no longer pregnant...lost it yesterday...
                              i know its all my fault.... not sure how to handle this.... im too angry right now to think straight... more later....just thought you should know

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                                #45
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                                Oh darling-Am so sorry for you.Just wanted to send you a big hug and say Hello.If you got pregnant once you CAN again.Get well in body and in mind then try again.Take care and stay close xx

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