Im an irish girl based in London. 24.
its taken alot for me to get here. But i really need some help. i come from a long line of alcoholics and my father in particular is an extreme alcoholic, which contributed to the breakdown of my parents marriage.
anyway, my siblings and I really cannot handle alcohol very well. My brother who is 21 has actually stopped drinking completely.
unfortunately due to my lifestyle, I'm not sure if i can do that.
I'm a really social person, and involved in loads of activities, not just pub based ones.
My problem is this: i can go for a few weeks, go out, get tipsy, stop come home and its fine.
But then there are the nights when i get completely wasted and can't remember a single thing, how i get home, just wake in bed. And usually have to ring my best friend, who then recounts how we got home (usually him having to carry me into a taxi, after i've thrown a strop at him for no reason whatsoever).
So i embarked on a 'controlled drinking' experiment...ie. that i would limit myself to five bottles. this worked for a while. but then last night, i just got totally wasted. my friend who had already left had to come back to get me ( another friend felt that i was far too drunk) and then took him hours to get me home, cause i was so drunk that no cab would take us. BTW i don't rem any of this. he had to tell me.
I'm relatively successful in other ways. I hold down a good job, don't really drink during the week, but get periods where i binge drink myself into oblivion. its horrifically embarassing.
I suffer from quite bad depression and have had some fairly traumatic experiences, childhood, and relationship things to deal with. But i don't go out with the intention of getting drunk. And i've had quite extensive therapy, so i dont feel the drinking is related to that.
but jesus.
i'm just feeling so ashamed right now. what am i going to do?:new: :new:
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