Hi all,
Still here at 5:02. About to get the dinner ready without my wine but with some self esteem and hope that I'll stay up through whatever movie the fam wants to watch tonight with out "falling asleep".
Patty, thanks for your insights and I really like the idea about the photos in strategic spots. I too am afraid of tomorrow and my failures yet to come but ODAT. So far so good today. I see myself in you, too.
Amelia,, I know you'll find the AF time you need. Thanks for saying I'm probably a good mum. Except for this, the wretched example I set, I truly am a good and loving mom. It is just so horrible to think that if my kids end up as alkies it will be my fault that I didn't do better and so then I think I am a selfish, and in this area I have been, mother who thought more of her own "pleasure" than of her children's future health. I don't mean to wallow at all. I'm trying to write it as it is. I can find lots of reasons for why I drank to excess, but when I got into the horrible mess - isn't it awful how you get there and you never even considered being there? - why didn't I get out sooner?
But the past is the past and I am here because of the future and I will try to let this go and not let it drive me into another night of drinking! I've done what I've done. As an late onset heavy drinker (didn't even have booze in the house much for me till I was 41, just was not an issue) I was so sure I could control it - so sure since I hadn't had a problem in youth that I really didn't have a problem. Ha!
Well enough about me for now. It feels so good to talk about it in this non judgemental way. Just trying to see things for what they are. Trying on the truth. I am going to be kind to myself. I am not drinking to night. I can't know about tomorrow so I better be prepared to forgive myself. I'm feeling so much better though as as much as I long for the bit of oblivion I so crave I am learning, with such non judgemental support I am finding here, to value this craving for health and lucidity more.
Dinner. Pellegrino!
Diane
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