Newbies in Need - ODAT - Tues. 1/1/08

[FinallyRN]

Newbies in Need - ODAT - Tues. 1/1/08

Thanks for starting the thread this morning Mary. Stay close we're counting on you as a "den mother".
I had a sober NY eve. Had a glass of champagne at midnight but that was it. I allowed myself that.
Its funny, I was feeling very anxious the last few days, the pressure of committing to being AF was getting to me but last night I had peace. And I have it this morning. It feels good.
Cindi, keep us informed.........I will be thinking of you.
Happy New Year

[retteacher]

Newbies in Need - ODAT - Tues. 1/1/08

FinallyRN: I can certainly be den mother...I actually was one many years ago when my now 38 year old son was 8 or so. I'm glad you feel calm & serene. Just remember, when thoughts in your head go haywire, AF or mod is only one day at a time. Sometimes, the whole future picture looks overwhelming. M

[charlee]

Newbies in Need - ODAT - Tues. 1/1/08

Happy New Year to all, and let me welcome all of you who have joined this thread. Whether your goal is to moderate or abstain, try to check in everyday. I know the committment can be scary, but by taking it ODAT you make no promises for tomorrow..just today...you will be amazed at how fast the "one days" can add up. I could go on and on about the mental and physical changes that have occurred over the past few months..it is just easier to say a big ditto to everything Mary has been talking about. This has been the best holiday season I can remember in ages. Looking at the big picture, for me, is to overwhelming, so I continue to take it ODAT. It works, if you work it!!

[universal]

Newbies in Need - ODAT - Tues. 1/1/08

Well folks today is my Day one - it has been an easy day one for me as I overdid it last night so I am feeling awful today - good way to start - remembering why I want to be sober!

Cindi, I am so sorry to hear about your daughter, you will be in my thoughts and my prayers - to everyone else, here is to an AF January and a Happy New Year!

Love you all,
Uni

[keeta]

Newbies in Need - ODAT - Tues. 1/1/08

Happy New Year everyone. I am also new here, and today is day one for me. I am scared, optimistic, and genuinely looking forward to getting to know you all. I have been reading the boards these past days, wanting to jump in, but too afraid of making the commitment and failing...nothing new. But I decided what better day to try to be clean and sober than the first day of a new year. Hopefully it can be the first day of my new life! Thank you all for making this seem like a safe place to be....I need to do this before it kills me.

[KAT20]

Newbies in Need - ODAT - Tues. 1/1/08

Universal, I'll join you and others for 30 days to start out a clean and healthy New Year I too over indulged last night and I started out optimistic that I would not. You are correct in saying what a great way, well maybe not great but a kick in the butt to remember why I choose to try this is the first place. I have never made it 30 days before, a few days maybe but this last time used the holidays as an excuse. I'm with all of you for support. Best to all

[lukalee]

Newbies in Need - ODAT - Tues. 1/1/08

Happy New Year Everyone!!!! I visited my sister for a few days. As she was pounding the beers away, I managed to stay sober. Today is day 8 AF for me, and I thank all of you for being here; even if it is just to read what others are saying.