Hi everyone,
One of my huge triggers is my spouse! I have been married a long time 23 years and we have been drinking together the whole time. He gave our 401k to a meth addicted ass hole to be a business partner we saw nothing for over a year. He ended up taking over the business which is a good thing but now he is going back to the guy I didn't like b-4. My son said when he was 10 "mom why don't you divorce dad and marry a nice man"
He doesn't want me getting my fingers in the business and he's being a little too secretive about how the business is doing. I am very smart and when I learn things I get very good at whatever I do! This is not acceptable to me and I'm tired of trying to hurt myself because I'm angry with him. My kids are almost getting ready to launch and right now I'm not working. I've always been dependant on him finacially and that is a trigger for me. I have always worked and / or gone to school. He lost his job about 8 yrs ago and finally realized he needed me and for the first time was humbled. Now he's back to acting like his family is a diseased appendage I HATE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You don't tell your wife things like either the dog goes or I do (no ultimatums please) I can get sex from someone else, or If I didn't have a family I could do WHATEVER I WANT! Well right now I feel like I'm being phased out. He doesn't have a family right now and he can do whatever he wants, Half of the business is mine too and I have a right to know exactly whats going on. My past indescresion was due to this shit, I was seeking a nice man a rescuer and I found a psycho. OOPS:nutso: sorry for ranting just angry
One of my huge triggers is my spouse! I have been married a long time 23 years and we have been drinking together the whole time. He gave our 401k to a meth addicted ass hole to be a business partner we saw nothing for over a year. He ended up taking over the business which is a good thing but now he is going back to the guy I didn't like b-4. My son said when he was 10 "mom why don't you divorce dad and marry a nice man"
He doesn't want me getting my fingers in the business and he's being a little too secretive about how the business is doing. I am very smart and when I learn things I get very good at whatever I do! This is not acceptable to me and I'm tired of trying to hurt myself because I'm angry with him. My kids are almost getting ready to launch and right now I'm not working. I've always been dependant on him finacially and that is a trigger for me. I have always worked and / or gone to school. He lost his job about 8 yrs ago and finally realized he needed me and for the first time was humbled. Now he's back to acting like his family is a diseased appendage I HATE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You don't tell your wife things like either the dog goes or I do (no ultimatums please) I can get sex from someone else, or If I didn't have a family I could do WHATEVER I WANT! Well right now I feel like I'm being phased out. He doesn't have a family right now and he can do whatever he wants, Half of the business is mine too and I have a right to know exactly whats going on. My past indescresion was due to this shit, I was seeking a nice man a rescuer and I found a psycho. OOPS:nutso: sorry for ranting just angry
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