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    Coming out of my Lurking Closet...

    Hi everyone - I wanted to officially say 'Hello'.

    I joined the site and officially went AF on 1/18/2008 (intending to mod after 4 weeks), but was very leery about this 'sticking' so have not jumped in with 10 fingers to post. Have read a lot and am familiar with many of the names here.

    Well over 30 days later....Guess what? I think I'm here to stay...

    My life so far without AL has been awesome, awesome, awesome on most days. So odd and wonderful to have my life back. These awesome days are the ones when I am at home at night and have entirely stopped the 10-1am drinking habit I developed. I do have a very hard time becoming that new person who does not drink to excess in social situations, however. BTW, in the few posts I have made, I have been a big proponent of the Hypno CDs. They have literally changed my life in many ways. I think I need to keep giving that positive message to new people so they can see that it does help for some people and we can all use all the tricks available..

    I'm introducing myself today because I have a social event to go to tomorrow night and am very nervous. I'm loading up on my hypno sessions and supps today and tomorrow (good lord - I even had a thought last night that I could sneak into a restroom and quickly get a hypno fix if I needed it - that's how much it helps me ...maybe I should be more afraid that I will sneak into someone's backyard and lay in their hammock in lieu of drinking : ).

    Anyway - - I may need more help going forward so am going to post more to try to give support as well.

    Sorry for the long post but wanted to say "Thank you" to all of you for the vicarious support and humor that has gotten me through so far - you are all an unbelievable source of support to everyone - even us lurkers. Hope to be able to return the favor.

    #2
    Coming out of my Lurking Closet...

    Well done on your 30 days Happy4once,

    I started as a lurker myself, suddenly becomes part of life logging on but I have had soooo much more support since coming out of the closet!

    Look forward to seeing you around the threads.

    Eastx
    In life we can live out our dreams its true
    the one who decides,takes chances,makes choices is YOU.

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      #3
      Coming out of my Lurking Closet...

      Congratulations on your wonderful success.

      Keep up the good work :goodjob:

      Love Twit x

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        #4
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        Hi Happy,

        Congrats on your 30 days! Awesome Job! I am a lurker also....hopefully will start getting into the swing of the daily posters. I do think it will help.

        Anyway, I haven't tried the hypno's but think I will after your post! I have them, just haven't started them yet...lazy I guess.

        As for your big event. Just keep all of us with you on your shoulder and you will be strong! Pick something new and fun to drink tomorrow night that is Al free. Like fresca and orange juice or cranberry and 7-up. Something new like this might make you feel like you are celebrating too, then sit back and enjoy the show of others making fools of themselves while knowing you will wake up clear headed with your 30 days in tacked!

        Keep Posting!
        Take care, you will do Great!
        Bambi
        "When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable." -- Walt Disney

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          #5
          Coming out of my Lurking Closet...

          A big Hello to all the lurkers everywhere!!

          Whatever stage your all at you'll certainly find the help you are looking for here!!

          Love and Happiness
          Hippie
          xx
          "Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry, the philosophy which does not laugh and the greatness which does not bow before children." Kahlil Gibran
          Clean and sober 25th January 2009

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            #6
            Coming out of my Lurking Closet...

            Happy4once,

            ODAT ODAT

            You can do this and welcome!

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              #7
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              Welcome to all of you lurkers. Happy you sound very confident. Good job!!! Drink lots of water tomorrow and double up on the Kudzu!!
              I'm really easy to get along with once people learn to worship me

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                #8
                Coming out of my Lurking Closet...

                :welcome: happy4once and all other lurkers,

                Happy, :goodjob: on your AF spell, that is excellent .........

                Enjoy your evening tomorrow, one thing that I can promise you is that waking up without a hangover after a night out is an amazing feeling, and instead of dreading the phone ringing to answer it and be asked 'can you remember doing ??????' .... you can call the ones that got drunk and tell them what they did ...........

                All the best ........
                sigpicXXX

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                  #9
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                  Thank you all for the wonderful replies and support- I will definitely order the cranberry & 7up -- good idea. Sounds great right now : ).

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                    #10
                    Coming out of my Lurking Closet...

                    Welcome Happy! It sounds as though you are doing great. I think I will have to pull my CDs back out. I haven't used them in a while.

                    In social situations I find I do best if I either drink AF drinks or set a strict limit for myself. When I do the latter, I start with AF drinks and spend time chatting. Then I allow myself my limit and switch back. If I don't set a limit...well you know the answer to that.

                    Since you are nervous about the event I would be AF for sure.

                    Welcome again!

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                      #11
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                      Happy4Once,

                      First off a big CONGRATULATIONS on the AF time. WOW!!

                      Second, :welcome: to the boards.

                      Third, How very nice of you to share with us. Success helps all of us and you are doing so well. I love the idea of sneaking into someone's back yard to lie in a hammock and do the cd's.

                      You talked me into them!! Good on you.

                      I hope you enjoy your event and really look forward to getting to know you.

                      Again, :thanks: I hope you truly understand how much good your post has done for so many!!

                      Love,
                      Cindi
                      AF April 9, 2016

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                        #12
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                        Happy, so glad you have decided to post. I have read some of your advise to people and you have a lot of great things to say. Your input is very valuable.

                        Congrats on your 30+ days!!!! Wtg!!

                        Tomorrow just relax and don't forget to enjoy yourself! All you have to do is be aware of the danger signals and avoid them at all costs. Prepare some funny quips if someone has the nerve to ask why you are not drinking. This way you won't feel like you are put on the spot. Any juice mixed with club soda is delicious. I drink them a lot at home.

                        Glad you came out. Best of luck to you. I look forward to reading more from you.

                        Love, Me
                        :l
                        Alcohol is simply the device between success and failure.

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                          #13
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                          HI Everyone -- wanted to let you know...

                          I did GREAT at the event. I'm so proud of myself -- I set a goal of having 1 glass of wine at the cocktail -3 hour ordeal and 1 glass of wine at the 3 hour dinner. Egads. I did it though, and it really wasn't that hard this time.

                          Having the goal and thinking about it before hand really helped. Oh also - using my new favorite drink - cranberry and 7up (thank you Bambi!!) also helped.

                          And - the best part (other than no hangover the next day) was I drove home. Have never ever done that before. It was awesome : )

                          Thank you all!

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                            #14
                            Coming out of my Lurking Closet...

                            CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!! Glad to know someone can actually DO this.

                            I shudder in fear of having to be in a social situation! Especially being with my husband's family, most of which are raging drunks, although very nice.
                            Noelle sez "Do want you like, like what you do. Life is Good."

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                              #15
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                              me too

                              I fear all the get togethers w/ inlaws, they all drink like FISH..............

                              WELCOME Happy4 once!! :welcome: Sorry I missed this yesterday!

                              Glad you did well at the social, you can give us all some hope when we try to face them either AF or mod...........

                              Glad you are here!!

                              lots of love,:h

                              MA
                              :rays:My happiness is my greatest gift to others:rays:eace:

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