i am tired and i need a change

[tlrgs]

sorry dont mean to being you down
have a great day everyone

[kaddy]

i am tired and i need a change

am sorry you are have a bad time,,, but keepoing you know you can do it,,,
l have read a lot of your post,,,and they have helped me
so please stay strong
sending all my lov hugs

[lukalee]

i am tired and i need a change

Sorry you are having a bad time. How do you want to live your life? Where is it you want to go? What do you want to change?

[greeneyes]

i am tired and i need a change

Whew! I'm not quite sure what to say. Big boy pants. Take care of yourself first. On the airplane they tell you when the oxygen masks drop down, PUT YOURS ON FIRST, then help others. If your oxygen mask means walking away for a bit, then so be it. It's your life.

[greeneyes]

i am tired and i need a change

When you say live your life the way you want, what is that way?

[tlrgs]

i am tired and i need a change

i want what i had before .when the kids were young .they loved me for who i was .i feel like am being taken for a ride. they take and take but nothing comes back.
even my girl friend there was nothing last year same thing deffrent day all the same we are back in this same f----king place . is it cry wolf. what the f---k am i doing wrong. but here i am tired of it all again tha same thing that push me over the eagh
and this time i think i want to jump head first and not come back fo second
sorry sorry no more cant do it again

[greeneyes]

i am tired and i need a change

Perhaps you should walk away for a bit. Get your own place for a while. Let your GF and kids take care of themselves.

[meditation mama]

i am tired and i need a change

Hi tlrgs.. you sound like shit today, sorry! Just trying to cheer you up..

We have these days and they feel so terrible. We are meant to have bad days and good days. These bad days are sent to test us out. To make us see inside us, to see what is important. To make us look deeper into ourselves. What do you see? Do you just see that you like the way things were when your kids were young, or last year with your girlfrined - then you need to look deeper. Those are memories, not what is INSIDE you. Time for you to take some time for yourself. Can you take the day to go somewhere to sit and contemplate, to be by yourself? The library, a bookstore, a park, walk through a museum? Anything like that? These are good placed for you to look around and to contemplate what is important to you. It is time for you to take the next step and you need to take the next step that is right for YOU! Like Green said, you have to put your oxygen mask on first.. you can't care for anyone until your head, heart and spirit are truly where they are at peace.. Are you meant to take on this burden with your girlfriend? Is this right for you? Is it too much for you? Please take some private time.

Is there anyone else that can care for your girlfriend? Where is her family?

Take care, my friend..

MM