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    #76
    April Showers

    Good Morning--No April showers here--cold and snowy--yuck!!

    Thanks for the sticky BHOG. I am trying to become a better person in many ways, with lots of help and support. I will think of it as evolving---.
    _______________
    NF since June 1, 2008
    AF since September 28, 2008
    DrunkFree since June 1, 2008
    _____________
    :wings: In memory of MDbiker aka Bear.
    5/4/2010 In loving memory of MaryAnne. I pray you've found peace my friend.
    _______________
    The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.ray:

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      #77
      April Showers

      BHOG - you were in my head this morning! My parents sent me a photo of myself -- an old photo. It happened to be at a very low point in my life and it just sent me into old ways of feeling ......... the "I'm worthless" feelings. WOW - this post today is a keeper. copy and paste for me. Thank you. God is using you as an Instrument of his voice ........ just for me today!! Thank you Lord - thank you BHOG!!!!!!!!!!! No more "still" shots in my life ........... its a moving picture for me!!!! The video is rolling!! A New movie!

      Have a great day all
      Liv
      AF since Jan. 1, 2008 .... It all began right here


      Raise your hopeful voice, you have a choice, you made it now.


      (from the Movie "Once")

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        #78
        April Showers

        Very Good BHOG!
        I think my life movie would be titled, "How RN got her groove back". Whoops, I think thats taken, but no matter............we can share.
        I was just saying that I want to join a "boot camp". I need some stranger screaming in my ear at 6 am telling me buck up. Part of the transition I'm going through now. I want my body to reflect how I feel. The stamina I have, the happiness I feel. I want to label myself "babe"!

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          #79
          April Showers

          Thank you for all of your nice comments.

          I know for myself, (very personal here, ok?) that since deciding to quit drinking I have been on a very rapid whirlwind with all of the evolution and change in my life. Each day, i really feel like I am waking up to a new world.
          To actually stop drinking was a major step that I was not sure I could achieve. When I read over this site, and looked at the various posts from those who had been successful, or were being successful, I decided to give it a try. My mindset was, if this does not work, ii will go to my dr for drugs and or get admitted to a de-tox center. I was very frightened that I was losing control of my life, it was spinnning around me like a twister in Kansas.

          Now I don't feel that way at all! Being AF has opened up, or re-opened so many doors and windows I have an entire new outlook on life. Kind of like remodeling the kitchen, my mind has evolved and is now fresh, light and clean!

          Every day now, I see new beginnings..so much is changing so rapidly. I confided in a friend a few days ago about hitting the "now what" stage Chief has talked about. So, now what? Well, I am starting a new much more focused fitness program, I need to change some aspects of my body...maybe I need to enroll in RN's boot camp! But it will happen.

          To me, all of this is my evolution. There is a saying that all good things come to those who wait. I believe I have waited long enough! I am evolving into what I now see as my potential, rather than being the whipped little boy in the corner. I no longer am the child who was told "you will never amount to anything anyway." I am, and continue to be "amounting to a lot" for myself, and those around me.

          I am Evolving!

          Thank you for reading..hope I did not bore you too much.

          Enjoy Life! I am!
          BHOG
          War isn't working. Let's try Peace!

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            #80
            April Showers

            Thanks for sharing BHOG - It really helps those of us on this AF path to hear the thoughts coming out of the heads of other people who are on this journey. Thats why I keep logging on. I don't feel alone - and I find so many of the feelings others have are the same ones I have too. Thank you for sharing this
            Liv
            AF since Jan. 1, 2008 .... It all began right here


            Raise your hopeful voice, you have a choice, you made it now.


            (from the Movie "Once")

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              #81
              April Showers

              hugs, thanks, inspiration!

              BHOG, you are awesome!! I really enjoy having you as a friend, thanks for the inspiration!! This is why I keep coming back to this site and enjoy the MANY friendships I have had the good fortune of making here! You are one MOTIVATED, motivating guy! Keep on remodeling, you are doing wonderfully!!:goodjob:

              Yeah, the fitness stuff will always be there, you will stay/get into shape...........keep on biking!! You are very fortunate to have the beautiful "God's Country"(I like to call it) to hike and enjoy!

              Lots of hugs, love and thanks for your posts, and just beig YOU!!:l:h

              Mary Anne:h:h
              :rays:My happiness is my greatest gift to others:rays:eace:

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                #82
                April Showers

                BHOG,

                It is definitely uplifting to read your posts today. Several today have used the word Evolving and it gives all of us, especially the just starting out ones that are still on the "one foot in front of another" mindset a reminder of the joys ahead.

                I cannot wait until more doors and windows are opened for me and I feel as good about myself as you do.

                Many :l:l and thanks for sharing!!

                Love,
                Cindi
                XXV
                AF April 9, 2016

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                  #83
                  April Showers

                  BHOG,
                  I don't know what to say except, "isn't it great!". I have 30 days under my belt, hoping to achieve many more but as every day goes by and I feel clearer, I see the possibilities. There is nothing I can't do if I can conquer this. There is a sense of joy that is undescribable The last time I was AF ( 4 years ago ) I remember distinctly smiling to myself because of all the changes I had noticed. A big one for me was being able to make sound decisions without doubt involved. I remember looking at my son and thinking "Did you just grow?" because I had been so unaware. The difference this time and the reason I think I'll be successful is because of you all. There is something about having company and being able to compare notes that is magic. You ALL give me inspiration. Thats why I love this thread so much. I need more of this in my life.

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                    #84
                    April Showers

                    bald headed old guy;307227 wrote: Good Morning Everyone!

                    LVT25,
                    Thanks for the idea for the stick em for today!

                    PATIENCE!

                    Today's society is based upon instant gratification. We have come to expecct our food, package goods, even dry cleaning to be on on the spot-or even better, ready as soon as we walk in the door! 24 hours sports, news and entertainment channels are available. Of course, the internet has contributed to this very fast paced life.

                    We also know that the really good tings in life take time...roses, my favorite flower, take weeks of work to cultivate, prune, and shape into the beautiful bushes i enjoy in the summer evenings.

                    So it is, I believe, with this journey. We did not acquire our drinking habits overnight, they took time and money (energy) to develop. They also will take time and energy to remove! If you find yourself frustrated, as we all do, with the seemingly slow process of ridding yourself of AL or ALice, remember the wisdom of the unknown child, who told his mom:

                    "Be patient with me, God is not finished with me yet!"

                    Have a Wonderful Day!

                    BHOG
                    Nice thoughts BHOG!!

                    You know, I'm reading a book called "Freedom from Addiction", co-authored by Deepak Chopra about their treatment center and ways of doing things. First of all, they consider themselves an alternative to AA.. (which I like)..

                    But one of the first points in the book is about just that... Instant Gratification... Alcohol, or any other addictive substance.. gives us an instant high, but doesn't give lasting results. I think that's a great point because the truly wonderful things in life are usually not 'instant' but are enjoyed over time.. or cultivated over time...
                    P.S. You can't love if you don't love yourself... :heart:

                    As you wander through life, sister/brother, whatever be your goal, keep your eye upon the donut, and not upon the hole.
                    - Sign in the Mayflower Coffee Shop, Chicago

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                      #85
                      April Showers

                      Thank you for the daily pep talk!
                      ~Laura

                      Insanity                      : doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results................... Albert Einstein

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                        #86
                        April Showers

                        Sticky for April 11

                        Hello Everyone!

                        One of the great writers and thinkers of the past, and I do not recall which one, said:

                        "Know Thyself"

                        I think self-knowledge is important in our journey. We need to understand ourselves, what we currently have, our needs, and our expectations, as we set any plan or goal for our lives. This knowledge is a combination of our history, our own abilities, the tools available to us, and the dream or goal we have in mind.

                        History, ability, and tools will vary from person to person. Indivudually, we have our own history, our personal and varied abilities and talents, and a wide variety of tools from which to choose. (MWO, AA, close supportive friends, etc.)

                        Here on MWO we have a place where we can share as much or as little of ourselves as we wish, explore the various paths and roads taken by others, and develop the tools we need to enrich our knowledge of ourselves as we work to overcome the Beast.

                        But, there is more, much more. The same tools that we have and develop, as well as the confidence gained each time we put AL or ALice back in the rubbish, are also useful in the many parts and portions of our daily lives. As we learn, for example, to chart paths past our triggers that lead to the first drink, we also learn new ways to deal with the stress and pressure of our jobs, families, and other relationships. This newfound knowledge, almost accidental in its' discovery, can be applied in so many ways to our everyday lives!

                        Everyone have a wonderful Friday! Mrs. BHOG and I are taking some self-time and I will not be back on the boards until Monday. Our regular author, Livingfree, will be here to keep the thread going!
                        Until then, Peace!

                        Enjoy Life! I know I am!
                        BHOG
                        War isn't working. Let's try Peace!

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                          #87
                          April Showers

                          BHOG,

                          What an inspiring post. Wow, you have really come a long way baby!! (any who remember that, don't admit it, it says how old you are...)

                          Here is to you, BHOG and Mrs. BHOG. Have a wonderful, self-wrapped up weekend together and enjoy!!

                          Everyone else, may this April weekend shower all with peace, happiness and growth.

                          Love,
                          Cindi
                          XXVI
                          AF April 9, 2016

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                            #88
                            April Showers

                            Friday!!!

                            Thanks BHOG, hope you and Mrs. BHOG have a great trip out to the lake (??is that where you are going??) this weekend! Enjoy your alone time, it is precious!! We will miss you, although I don't get on on the weekends AT ALL!!!

                            So, talk to you all Monday! I will continue learning about myself, it helps!!

                            love :hand hugs :lto everyone, have an awesome day!!!

                            MA
                            :rays:My happiness is my greatest gift to others:rays:eace:

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                              #89
                              April Showers

                              Owww - Self discovery ....... this is a big one. I often wonder if I drank so I didn't have to spend time with myself ........... this I will ponder! Thank you BHOG for the very inspiring stickie note today. I hope you and Mrs. BHOG have a wonderful weekend. See you Monday

                              Liv
                              AF since Jan. 1, 2008 .... It all began right here


                              Raise your hopeful voice, you have a choice, you made it now.


                              (from the Movie "Once")

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                                #90
                                April Showers

                                Thanks BHOG--wishing you and everyone a great weekend!
                                _______________
                                NF since June 1, 2008
                                AF since September 28, 2008
                                DrunkFree since June 1, 2008
                                _____________
                                :wings: In memory of MDbiker aka Bear.
                                5/4/2010 In loving memory of MaryAnne. I pray you've found peace my friend.
                                _______________
                                The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.ray:

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