So I went a week or so, drinking every day, forgetting my diet and exercise plan I was trying to commit to as well. Well, my BF surprised me one night and came home - found me with a beer in hand and 8- 16oz more ready for me to drink. I had promised him for the umpteenth time that "this was it", about a month ago.
So yesterday I went through that irritable, grumpy, unpeaceful, scared, tired,bloated and miserable day of Day 1 AF. On top of it all, I had a full day of shopping and a musem with 4kids under 10 (only 2 are mine!). But I made it, sober, and slept like a baby last night. Funny how sober sleep (for me anyway) is sooooo much better than sleep with any alcohol in my system. I woke up this morning feeling good, like myself. I feel calm, no regret (about yesterday anyway- I do about so many other days) and I feel like myself again. Hungover-no matter how mild or rough- mornings are miserable. I don't look forward to the day, I'm at war with my thoughts, I find no beauty in anything. Now I remember how I love mornings.
I'm ready for a day, accomplishing tasks, being with my children and my mother, doing good and right things for my life and my family. WHY...do I forget how "right" this feels and succumb to that awful alcoholic lifestyle of shame and regret and unhealthy feeling- physically and mentally?
Today (no work- yeah!) I'm committed to taking my supps, eating healthy, taking an long walk, and being with my children, really "being" with them, not the buzzed or drunk being with them. I want to prove that I can be AF for 60 days. There. I said it. It scares the life out of me. But I know it's the only way. I need to get this AL out of my system, out of mind, out of my routine, and start living my life and being me again. I don't think I've been AF for more than a week in 7 years, since I was pregnant. I need to prove it to myself.
Thank you for reading. I love MWO, I know it will work for me. I have to let it and follow it. I love to hear of all the success on this board and am once again looking forward to sharing in it............
:thanks:
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