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    Hi
    I've found this site two days ago and I'm finding it really supportive. I live in Southend n Sea, England and theres not a lot of "official" support here - its okay if you on drugs and drink - but drink - just forget. So at the moment, I going it alone although I am helping set up a support group on a Wednesday afternoon with a group that supports alcohlics after they become dry.

    So far I'm on DAY 12 and because I haven't mixed with anyone its been fairly easy. The problem comes when I have to go out and mix socially - so I try and avoid that - but its not really a realistic way to live. I keep a daily diary which helps. One thing I have realised, finally, after fighting this battle for over ten years, that I have to change because the drink isn't going and its always going to be there.

    The afters of my last binge were awful becuase as well as withdrawals symptons I also had hallucinations which I never had before. Something I don't want to repeat.

    AA has never worked for me - I find it very depressing and it only makes me want to drink.

    So I'd love to hear from any other members - just for tips and friendship.

    Linda
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    Hi Linda and welcome ! sounds like you going to be a great person to have around ! well done for organising a support group in your area... and also well done on your day 12 AF.
    love cedar

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      Hi Linda

      It is fantastic that you have found us... this is the most wonderful site full of the most amazing and supportive people....

      I found this site when I was struggling and I'm back on track (mostly) and made a heap of friends..

      Looking forward to catching up with you soon..

      Cheers

      Wattle
      Failure is not the falling down... it's the staying down

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        Hi, I just want to comment on how important your coments on how bad your last w/d was. Please write it all down somewhere. The w/d's get worse everytime and if you already had them that bad I'm very concerned what may happen if there is a next time. Write it all down so you can revisit it when you start to feel your problem isn't bad. Welcome!

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          Hi LindaP,
          :welcome:Welcome im glad you found us sounds like you need a shoulder to lean on and there are plenty here.
          Congratulations on you day 12 - stay around there is a heap of support to guide you on your journey.
          Read the posts, asks questions and make some special friends - its sure to help you!!:l
          I am the author of my life.

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            Hi Linda and welcome!!

            I have to say it sounds to me like you are off to a fantastic start with 12 days under your belt!

            I totally can relate about having reservations on mixing in a social environment. My first one was with a group of old college buddies who I did not tell what I was going through. I just filled my own cup with Coke or water and all was good! Starting this support group will be great for you as I have found the more people you let into your AF support "network" the easier and more rewarding the days become.

            As Dolly says write it down perhaps start you own thread and stay strong and good luck with everything! :welcome:
            Is Addiction Really a Disease?
            Watch this and find out....
            http://youtu.be/ekDFv7TTZ4I

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              What does AF mean?

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                #8
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                what does AF mean? I just joined.

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                  Alcohol Free---Welcome to both of you!
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                  NF since June 1, 2008
                  AF since September 28, 2008
                  DrunkFree since June 1, 2008
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                  :wings: In memory of MDbiker aka Bear.
                  5/4/2010 In loving memory of MaryAnne. I pray you've found peace my friend.
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                  The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.ray:

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                    #10
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                    Welcome Linda P!
                    Tiny

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                      Welcome to the group! You will find lots of support here, there are many lovely people all willing to help

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                        #12
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                        Welcome Linda and Mooom, Linda 12 days is great! keep up the good work. take the supps and hopefully it will help you with social situations. Particularly with memorial day coming up and i am hoping i can keep AF through that day as well.

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                          Hi Linda,
                          Well done on your AF days so far.
                          The 'socialising' part is a huge problem for a lot of us, me included, but once you get past the first few awkward moments, like ordering a soda, they tend to get on with their own night.
                          You'll find out who your friends really are.
                          This is a great place.

                          Mooom..
                          Welcome
                          AF means Alcohol Free

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                            #14
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                            Hi Linda

                            I'm waving - can you see me??!!! Just up the coast in Norfolk. Welcome and I hope you find this place as useful as I have done/am doing. If it's any consolation the social side has been the easiest bit for me to deal with but I guess everyone has their different triggers and it depends on your strategy. But that is something that has made a difference - always having a plan/strategy for any situation involving alcohol. Plan ahead.

                            Anyway, it's way too late for me. Off to bed. Stacks to do in the morning and I've been on here too long.

                            Bessie xx

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                              My problem with the social side of things is that I am naturally quite shy, and I always think it takes a drink to be able to talk to people. But it never ends with one and then I say stupid things. At my age, it's scary that I don't know how to make conversation without AL to loosen me up.

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