Don't know what to say
I know it sounds pathetic but try to remember what you do have - it's all too easy to start thinking the glass is half empty and that is a typical way of thinking for a drinker.
I easily fall into the trap of "I don't have anything", I am 33 I have never been married, never had children, had a series of unstable relationships, in love with someone I probably can't ever marry (due to series of physical/technical restrictions), don't own a property (and can't get a mortgage for many years), don't drive (when I did it only took me 11 months to lose my license), don't lead a conventional life etc etc.
BUT hey!
I then remind myself that I got up this morning when I wanted to - went to the gym, worked out, came home, did some work and earned a little money. Now can sit down to some study all without having to see to children or a spouse. In fact my BF has just taken the car to the carwash and bought me some groceries - without having any hassle.
We can't have everything.
I know it sounds pathetic but try to remember what you do have - it's all too easy to start thinking the glass is half empty and that is a typical way of thinking for a drinker.
I easily fall into the trap of "I don't have anything", I am 33 I have never been married, never had children, had a series of unstable relationships, in love with someone I probably can't ever marry (due to series of physical/technical restrictions), don't own a property (and can't get a mortgage for many years), don't drive (when I did it only took me 11 months to lose my license), don't lead a conventional life etc etc.
BUT hey!
I then remind myself that I got up this morning when I wanted to - went to the gym, worked out, came home, did some work and earned a little money. Now can sit down to some study all without having to see to children or a spouse. In fact my BF has just taken the car to the carwash and bought me some groceries - without having any hassle.
We can't have everything.
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