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[Seacailin]

This guy that I used to date started texting me and calling me, and yeah, could not resist. Drank way more than I set out to, so starting all over. It is always a Man thing that takes me out. Why can't I be Gay.lol.

[SpiritGirl]

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Hi Sea,

Here I go again too - Day1 AGAIN. Why am I so damn weak? I almost didn't want to come back to MWO. I just feel like such a hipocrit. I learned that I cannot go out on the town with friends yet and stay AF.

[hippie37]

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Even if you WERE gay Sea you would still get shat on if your thinking negatively about things and yourself.

Some of my drinking days were done around pubs and I had a tendency to attract losers and drunks and waifs and strays etc. I used to think I had an invisible beacon attached to me head that only other drunks could see!!

Don't be too hard on yourself though. It's a big learning process and one that we will not get first time or even second or third time round for some (he says having had his 3rd slip a month back!!). We can only look back at our mistakes and learn from them.

Best of luck sea

Love and Happiness
Hippie
xx

[Peanut]

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Hey Girls - better to come back and have another Day1, than to not return at all!!! You are not a hypocrite!
Back on your wagons - chin up - today is a new day!!! Tally forth - ODAT!!!
Peanut

[brittzak]

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Where'd you meet this guy? Maybe the problem is where you are finding dates? I am not saying pick someone up at church, but sometimes we gotta leave people from the past just there, in the past. MANY have struggled leaving old ties behind. But, if someone is not going to be positive in your life, leave it in the past!

[Evie.Lou]

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As long as you keep on trying there is no such thing as failure.i think that the on....off...process is just part of the road to recovery.It was that way for me and I felt disappointed in myself over and over.The people on this site would not let me wollow in self pitty , so I picked myself up and brushed myself off and tried,tried again.Finally it WORKED....It can work for you tooooo !!!! EVIE

[Seacailin]

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You guys are Awesome

Thank u for your encouraging words. I will try and go in to live chat for a while. That seems to help. It is not the fault of this man. He has no idea. I haven't seen him in a long time. He had many issues before, now has cleared the slate and wants to see me. I need to change my playpals.

[Doggygirl]

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Peanut;342443 wrote: Hey Girls - better to come back and have another Day1, than to not return at all!!! You are not a hypocrite!
Back on your wagons - chin up - today is a new day!!! Tally forth - ODAT!!!
Peanut

A-M-E-N I applaud you both for getting right back in the saddle. I would have a lot more AF days under my belt over all if I hadn't stayed away for long periods when I fell. I wish I had been smart like you coming right back. Keep workin' it!! WE CAN.

DG
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[greeneyes]

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Some of my drinking days were done around pubs and I had a tendency to attract losers and drunks and waifs and strays etc. I used to think I had an invisible beacon attached to me head that only other drunks could see!!


ROFLMArseO Hippie.... falling out of my chair. Law of attraction, hun. Change the attraction mode.

[FloridaBoy]

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Seacailin;342424 wrote: This guy that I used to date started texting me and calling me, and yeah, could not resist. Drank way more than I set out to, so starting all over. It is always a Man thing that takes me out. Why can't I be Gay.lol.

Allow me to be of assistance. just one date with me :alf: :eeew: is all it would take for you to forgo men and AL. Offer valid for a limited time and void where prohibited. :H :H

[Seacailin]

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Day one Again

Feeling lousy, of course, but have to go to work. Ha ha ha Floriday Boy. Hope everyone has a Great Day