ODAT - Wednesday

[WaitingToExhale]

ODAT - Wednesday

I may need some help tonight guys. I can't seem to get a hold on AF days. So far so good today and it is almost 4:00 PM, but it's another home alone night. The depression is really getting to me and I know the wine is making it worse. Terrified to do any meds, but have been taking the supps.

So anyone is around tonight for chat .. let me know!

[cowgal]

ODAT - Wednesday

greenie

I pm'd greeneyes, no reply, men...........................in my book they suck big time!!! I hope she is alright and I hope I can get out of this situation once I am strong and AF for a long period of time, not right now though, not strong enough....................being held hostage to keep my horses, but may have to give them up eventually .......................:upset::upset:

take care everyone! not doing well in the AF dept either, but hanging in there!

love you!!:l:h

MA

[A Work in Progress]

ODAT - Wednesday

Forgive me, I am a new person, stumbling around on these threads, just wondering what is ODAT?

[CS04]

ODAT - Wednesday

Jez, ODAT is "one day at a time." It's a phrase associated with AA, but many feel that it has its place here as well -- I agree, esp. today.

Never a prob in asking questions. We've all been there! I've been responding to your posts on other thread; hope you have caught them

[greeneyes]

ODAT - Wednesday

Hi all, I'm here. I just had a busy day. Situation w/ hubby is awful.I realized I am very depressed and anxious about it. I don't understand why he is treating me this way. Rhonda said "your husband wants to punish you".... But for what? He never came home again last night. Called at 8 AM. I had no car to get to work, but my friend took me to pick it up as it was finally ready. When I got home late afternoon, no note, no phone message, nothing. He did a no show for a massage appointment. It feels like he's pushing me to a divorce attorney all the while saying he loves me. He's got a funny way of showing it. I'm so upset by all this that I feel like I have nothing positive to contribute to the boards (except I'm not drinking) so I'm sort of quiet. Somehow I've got to make some good out of this.

[Seacailin]

ODAT - Wednesday

Hi Green
Glad to see that u are ok. I am so sorry for all u are going through. You are not drinking though. I truly admire you for that. I can't give any advice on relationships as I totally suck at them. Not that u asked for any. I'm just glad you are ok. Please continue to post and let us know how u r.:l

[mwo2]

ODAT - Wednesday

Greeneyes, I am sooo sorry for what you are going thru. ( I know how you feel, got done to me like that. ) Your not drinking is the best thing you can do for yourself, what strength ! Hope your night goes well. Being quiet can be a good thing.

[mwo2]

ODAT - Wednesday

Bessie, I don't post often, but I too read everyday. Your thread is a great contribution to all newbies and much appreciated. I like the mix of older and newer.

[Luvwins]

ODAT - Wednesday

Bessie, ditto what MWO2 just said. I also live in the most western time zone of the US - you are already well into your day when I start my day with coffee and checking into your thread. I'm keeping my own tally of days, modeled after yours, except mine includes double dog days - you can probably imagine what those are..... I'm not ready to come public with my tally because it ain't that respectable yet.

ANyway - I'm joining in with a thanks for your thread. Good Thursday morning to you!