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[Dolly Sunshine]

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boozehag;387221 wrote: Can you see the funny side of that Dolly. You are doing exactly what you are telling them not to do! LOL
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I'm sorry I guess I don't understand.

[tlrgs]

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[Starlight Impress Forever]

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No offence looking, but if as you say, you are "sick of the trolls and drama".......isn`t it rather silly to create even more drama?? (as your thread is obviously going to do just that, no???)

Darling x

[Suzanna]

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One of the great things about this site is it's kindness and tolerance and especially, support. Most of us can choose to ignore or gently correct a minor mistake such as posting about mods on an AF thread. It certainly should not be a cause for a crusade for crissakes. Apologies should be graciously accepted and then we move on to what we are here for.

[lushy]

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I agree with Star. There was no reason to start this thread. If you have an issue with someone PM them. Do not bring the boards down with this stuff. We have had too much of it lately.

[KateH1]

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Everything is cool......sometimes emotions run a bit high and no one here meant any harm. So, can we all move on!

[LookingToGrow]

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You are wrong. Perhaps you did not see the posting on our AF thread...

[SKendall]

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Hell no! It was a mistake, she apologized and deleted the thread. Stop this already!

[LookingToGrow]

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Wish it were that simple for all of us to delete mistakes that easily. Bye...

[SKendall]

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You are so harsh. Bye

[KateH1]

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In the interest of understanding, I would like to say something. We speak a lot about not judging, yet I see much judging going on here. Judging of a new member and newly to being AF. That is a sensitive time indeed. A time when emotions are pretty raw. It is difficult during that time to constantly feel inundated by those that still drink. It seems that many more here still drink and justify it than seriuosly are trying to beat this thing. Whatever, it is an individual choice. But, when a member is obviously hurting why do some feel it is OK to attack that person rather than speak with understanding and kindness? Why do "sides" have to be taken? Why is judgement in these cases OK?

Over the past many weeks, we have had people here on angry rants......ranting for day! Starting thread after thread.....yet, members were quick to erase the slate and start anew.

Alcohol is a very serious problem for many of us. We are passionate about beating it. We may not always agree on what is the correct approach in dealing with others, but lets give everyone the same consideration.
Thanks!

[WildAtHeart]

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KateH1;387284 wrote: In the interest of understanding, I would like to say something. We speak a lot about not judging, yet I see much judging going on here. Judging of a new member and newly to being AF. That is a sensitive time indeed. A time when emotions are pretty raw. It is difficult during that time to constantly feel inundated by those that still drink. It seems that many more here still drink and justify it than seriuosly are trying to beat this thing. Whatever, it is an individual choice. But, when a member is obviously hurting why do some feel it is OK to attack that person rather than speak with understanding and kindness? Why do "sides" have to be taken? Why is judgement in these cases OK?

I truly am sympathetic to all of this and didn't understand the impact my original post would have in an AF thread. I was experiencing my own successes and simply wanted to share them. I just picked the absolute wrong place to post them. I realize this now and will be much more careful in the future. I also don't want to be judged for wanting to approach this program with modding as my goal. I'm not justifying anything (at least at this point I don't think I am), but merely trying to find my own way out. I respect others in their own approach and I truly admire everyone who is here.

[bloggy]

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What a shame this turned into an argument!

Good luck with your goals Wild, it takes time, I am still struggling but as long as we keep trying that is the main thing.

[IAD]

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Looking to grow, "What a f---ing sweetheart you are !! Who pissed in your corn flakes this morning ? Don't like it here ....leave...!

[Sunbeam]

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Looking to Grow,
I will try hard to not respond to your posts. I do not wish to risk being treated like this.