taking valium and drinking?

[startingover]

taking valium and drinking?

Stop feeling sorry for yourself Karl, that won't help.
C.mon buddy, you are made of strong stuff, don't let this shit beat you!!!!

[A Work in Progress]

taking valium and drinking?

"Sad case... " bull. Hey. You really must NOT allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself. Or to blame others for taking advantage of you. If you want to change your life, the only direction is FORWARD and that means deal with YOU and how to change your own behavior and thinking patterns. And that is very, very do-able. Get started right now. Make a plan. Tell us what your plan will be, or what you think it ought to be, and we will help you. Ask questions, and we will give our best shot at helpful answers. OK?

wip

[A Work in Progress]

taking valium and drinking?

Ha! StartingOver, we are cross-posting again. Great minds. Karl, look at this, you have two GREAT minds working for you, here!!!

wip

[Karl1981]

taking valium and drinking?

i know starting over. its just hard..

[Karl1981]

taking valium and drinking?

hehe i know you both are so lovely. and im so happy to meet both of you..

Plan hey, well im not really sure after my job ended, ive been out quoting and i will try to start to work for myself again.
Its the Love thing i have no plan on. i still love my ex. and she calls me all of the time.
i really dont want to loose her completely. it was my longest relationship. and well i love her with all my heart. nad her family for that matter. so i guess thats the main reason why i failed on staying AF. i just didnt see the point of being sober.

im saving for my first house. but over here even that is becoming out of reach nearly..
I dont really have a plan. just to be happy with myself, and try to forget everything that has happened. to stop the constant thinking of my girl Sophie. even typing her name makes me cry.

and to moderate drinking but maybe thats not an option for me.. who knows...

[Karl1981]

taking valium and drinking?

what you have to understand about me is that i do things for others. to make them happy. and thats what ill always be. maybe its becasue of my father being a dick head when i was younger i dont know. but i like helping people and putting them first..

[A Work in Progress]

taking valium and drinking?

OK, sorry, I meant get a plan about the alcohol. That has to be your main priority, WAY ahead of your love life, for now. Until you get yourself really straightened out. Have you read the MWO book? Do you have thoughts about what you can do differently on a daily basis that will help you stop the drinking? Are you completely determined to stop feeling this way? If so, get your butt in gear, OK???

Go for it! If you want to see some changes you have to MAKE some changes!!! If you just want to complain... well, this is not going to help you at all, and people will soon stop responding very much to you... OK??

wip

[A Work in Progress]

taking valium and drinking?

Come back tomorrow and read all this. Then post some more. Not now, OK?

[lil.michelle]

taking valium and drinking?

Hi hun,

Yep, it's a VERY VERY bad idea. I have no idea how you are able to function at all by doing that. You are meant to leave at 24/48 hours AFTER taking valium to drink. Please try and stop, it will really damage your health.
We're all here for you! Be strong and do one or the other NOT both! :l Good luck.
LOADS AND LOADS AND LOADS OF HUGS FROM ME TO YOU!
:l:l:l:l:l

[Karl1981]

taking valium and drinking?

OK. i understand.

yeah i have thought about what i can do differently on a daily basis. i just have to fight the urge to go upstairs and grab a bottle. and start drinking Strawberry milk again. hopefully i can put on some weight too hehehe..

I promise to try my best and go to this dr's appointment and see what he/she can do for me.. and get some of this shit out in the open.

didnt mean to complain. just venting...

thank you for your harsh yet kind words Wip.
Ill try my best...

[lil.michelle]

taking valium and drinking?

Oh, just one more thing, Startingover and a work in progress are completely right and they are amazing people. Please listen to them and take there advice!

[Karl1981]

taking valium and drinking?

thank you lil michelle: Ill do my best

WIP hehehe yeah i know it will be embarising...

[startingover]

taking valium and drinking?

You will feel so much better once you have taken the first step.
You can do it and you will do it.
Keep saying that Karl, over and over
OK?????????

[KBCE]

taking valium and drinking?

Karl - you have lots of cheerleaders here - YOU CAN DO IT ! YOU CAN DO IT!

You just need to convince yourself. Re-read the posts and let it sink in. Believe you can do this. As Lil Michele said, these people are amazing. Listen to them and get yourself help. It may be embarrassing at first, but it will be well worth it. Guaranteed.

[Karl1981]

taking valium and drinking?

Hey all just a little update. yes i was sober last night YAY and will be trying to do the 30 days again. Im scared Starting over is chasing me and man im a smoker and im puffed out. hahahahaha

thank you all for your advice. im working on it. and well i WILL succeed.

Thankyou all yet again, you are all like my family now.
Big family, hope i dont have to buy u all christmas presents boy that will be expensive. lol

LOVE YOU ALL..