Before I start - I'm the one who started a thread recently about how GREAT it is to be sober! And I have been for well over a month... What do you do with that?
Today started out ok. Then started reading emails I saved from my DEAD boyfriend - smiling about him. Realized I'm in love with a dead man...
Then called about a potential job, and the guy was "almost" rude at end, saying he had to call other people. I've been out of work for over a year and... it's bleak.
I've tried so hard to be optimistic, hopeful. And I lost that this morning! Decided to buy booze. Bought a really small bottle. Not enuff to get drunk!
But it's symbolic of how I feel. Hopeless. I've been Trying SO hard to get my life together after my boyfriend died in June. I've felt good, stopping drinking. Today I thought how I wish he could have seen me as a Sober person... But now he can't.
Perhaps this is just a pity party. I haven't allowed myself that for a long time.
I know that I'm not going back to drinking - as a lifestyle (if you can call it that!).
OK - I have to start all over again. I crumbled. I'm human.
I remember once reading someone saying (after sadness or whatever): Why ME? The answer was: Why NOT me??
Why does an innocent child get cancer? There is so much I don't understand and have to accept (!!) that I never will. At least in this lifetime...
After all this dismalness! - I wish you all a great day.
I'll be better...
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