I am brand spanking new.
I am here after 27 years of boozing, and I'm scared as hell.
I'm sick of drinking everyday, and when I go out, writing myself off and embarrasing myself, cause I dont know what Ive said or who Ive upset - (mostly myself). I, like Roberta have married a man who likes to drink as much, if not more than me. Is there anyone out there that is in the same situation and how did you handle it (he will not stop drinking, so I need to take the first step) He will ask why I have stopped. How do I explain?
A lot of things in our marriage are based upon drinking, so this will be a major life shift for me, and a lot is going to change - that's why I'm so scared, but I have to do it, I cant keep going on with the shame anymore. He doesnt think we have a problem!!
Please advise:thanks:
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