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    ODAT - Sunday

    Morning all. Glorious day here in the east of the UK. Well it will be when it gets light! We're having some of those fantastic autumnal settled periods with cool mornings and evenings and sunny days. Heavenly! I'm off to ride this morning and walk dogs and do as much outside as I can.

    Shame that the spa trip seems so far away now.....:upset: The food was fantastic and healthy - ate so much but never felt bloated and I don't think I put on any weight. The spa area was amazing, the whole place oozed well being and relaxation without being at all stuffy. You could get in your robe in hour one, day one and only take it off to swim or go to bed or have a treatment. Despite the posh dining room no-one batted an eyelid if you went to dinner in your robe! (I didn't cos it felt a bit odd) Rooms were lovely, staff were great and the facilities were top class. Tried a bit of Hatha Yoga (you want me to do WHAT with my legs??!! :H) which isn't for me but I did Pilates and it reminded me why I used to go years ago - more my sort of exercise and really good for riding. Exercise classes in the pool were just pant wettingly hysterical!

    We went to a brilliant talk one evening on auras and did a bit of levitation!!! I'm pretty cynical about stuff like that and thought some of it was bollocks but watching 4 women pick up an 11 stone lady with just their finger tips was quite impressive! :H

    No desire to drink Al at all, even though it was readily available and lots of people were drinking around me. I think that reinforced my thoughts about why I drink - to help me relax (I was already super-relaxed), to celebrate (nothing to celebrate - already having a good time) and to kind of take me away from my work load/surroundings (no need). So I am going to put in place some little rewards and relaxing ideas and time away from work/surroundings to help me manage al better. And I'm going to book in to the spa for next year!!! YAY!

    Anyway, that's enough. If you're in the UK and you want to know which one I went to PM me. It was seriously good value for money.

    Have a great Sunday all.

    Bessie xx

    Uni - you take care of that rib now. What are you like?! :H

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    ODAT - Sunday

    Bessie great on the no desire thing thats what we all want !!!!!!! Im back on the topa is helping me with that feeling but its no panacea ODAT is the way. Bess hope you are well as all odaters be well the best is comming to those that come and sit and wait we are the ones that recieve gifts one day at a time . Now Ill keep dancing to keep you happy wanna see the cap do the rap anything for you bessie
    Love always cap

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      #3
      ODAT - Sunday

      Morning Bessie & Captn & all to come. I, for one, want to see cap do the rap! :H

      Bessie, the spa visit sounds heavenly! Once every couple of months would be great, wouldn't it? Great observation on the alcohol and reward replacement. Mine is peppermint ice cream.

      Dinner last night was very good. Mama Mia was a romantic musical and I ended up feeling sort of sad and still do. What happened to the man I loved? Sometimes I look at him and he is a stranger. I think he looks at himself sometimes and feels the same way. Perhaps today I need to see an adventure movie.

      I do have the brunch today. It was rearranged to a resto and I got reservations on the patio. No AL will be easy. The person hosting couldn't do it for very good reason so we will have another one at her house next weekend. My sister gave me a good recipe for an appetizer called crab meltaways that are frozen in advance.

      Have a good day and meet your goals!
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      Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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        #4
        ODAT - Sunday

        Good morning Bessie, Greenie, and Capt.
        Our weather is exactly like yours Bessie. I love it!! The Freedom Rally was great!! Great music, food and merchandise. Most likely Massachusetts will decriminalize by November. Not so for New Hampshire unfortunately. Our Governor see fit to waste taxpayer dollars on locking people up for smoking a little marijuana. Ridiculous!! Anyway, I won't get started. I would love to see the Capt. dance. Just take off the Bunny suit, love.lol. Have my doggie with me today My former MIL's wake is today, so I am doggie sitting. I sent some lovely flowers from my children. For me, it's all about football and baseball today. Day 7 today and I will NOT drink. Hope everyone has a Great Day and a Big Hello to those who follow.
        "Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)

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          #5
          ODAT - Sunday

          Morning/Afternoon people
          Hope everyone is well today and enjoying their sunday.
          ?I am playing all the right notes... But not necessarily in the right order.....?

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            #6
            ODAT - Sunday

            Hi guys,

            Bess, the spa sounds wonderful......I soooo want to go!

            Cap - yes, do the dance! Sea - great on day 7! Greenie, enjoy your brunch, sorry the musical made you a little sad - you're doing great.

            The rib is sore today which we knew it would be but considering that I played ball yesterday it is actually feeling a bit better. I did have a couple of beers yesterday so I wrecked my 7 day streak (which ticks me off) but I have no one to blame for that but myself.

            However today is a new day - ODAT. And today I will not drink.

            Hope everyone has a great day!
            Every day is a day to start over and remember that I am powerless over my addiction. I will no longer give the BEAST any power over me - he can go straight to hell.
            :h

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              #7
              ODAT - Sunday

              Ugh! Day 2 here, and I couldn't type earlier because of shakes. Took my pills and they've kicked in now. Got through last night ok, and working up my plan to fill today with activities that I enjoy. I did 7 days AF as recently as 2 weeks ago, so I know what to expect. The next few days won't be pleasant but I'm focused on getting through them and not slipping after that.

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                #8
                ODAT - Sunday

                Good for you Boss!
                Stay focused

                Day 1 here (how many day 1's is a gal to have???) and am waiting for me antabuse to arrive.. cos then Mr Al will REALLY have his a**e kicked!!
                ?I am playing all the right notes... But not necessarily in the right order.....?

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                  #9
                  ODAT - Sunday

                  Happy Sunday all,

                  Bessie, not only does the spa sound tailor made for you, but your reflections on your drinking triggers was very revealing. It never ceases to amaze me how aware and insightful we become when our minds are not so cluttered with where the last bottle was hidden or how can I fool someone into thinking I'm not more plastered than I am?

                  I'm doing fine. Hubby left for a weeklong business trip this AM. My daughter in college called last night to tell me a friend who was involved in the drama dept. with her in high school was killed in New York this past weekend. He graduated with her and was a sophomore in college there. I learned in church this morning that he was drunk and tried to cross a highway. He was hit by several cars and did not survive. I have been feeling terrible for his family, but also terrible as someone who has stuggled for many years with AL. Nothing good comes from being drunk. It's one of those times that I feel very badly that AL is so front and center in our lives. There but for the grace of God go I . . . .

                  Vera-b

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