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    #1

    ODAT-Wednesday

    Hmmm...second day of Seacailin starting us off. Are we all sleeping in? lol
    I don't mind at all folks. It is actually an honor.
    Well, it is only by the Grace of God and you fine folks here that I did not drink myself stupid last night. I was so happy to start my new job yesterday and I am setting up the Home visits to do on the side with the Agency. I am an RN for those who do not know.
    I was so happy to call my mortgage co. and tell them of my 2 new jobs. My mortgage is in default. I submitted the hardship package that they asked for in July and kept in touch with them, and they just kept saying, "We will get to it. We are overwhelmed". Overwhelmed taking away peoples' homes!! The woman on the phone said, Oh, yeah, the foreclosure sale on your property will be on Thursday. Blew me away!!! WTF???? I got no notice whatsoever. They were supposed to be working with me. We have no place to go. I am going to call everyone that I can think of today to try and stop this. My kids have no idea. I was getting dressed to go to the liquor store and decided to post as I cried my eyes out. I received such love and support. I did not drink. Hell, I am crying right now. I am so grateful that you are all a part of my life. Sorry, so long today. I am just freaking out. Oh yeah Day 10 today, double digits.lol
    "Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)
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    #2
    ODAT-Wednesday

    Sea, you are a rock star!!! Double digits - you go girl!

    Oh, I'm a real estate agent on the side (I've never sold or care to, just thought I'd smarten myself up too when hubby went - lol!). Most states have a redemption period after the foreclosure sale, such as 30 days, 60 days. In MN here it can be up to six months. So please keep in mind foreclosures may not be forever, you probably have a large window of time to work with - i do hope so.:h
    P.S. Thanks for being in chat last night - today is definitely better
    You, as much as anyone in the universe, deserve your love and respect. ~ Buddha

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      #3
      ODAT-Wednesday

      awesome sea wish you the best
      :beach: life does change as long as you are willing to change yourself ..
      best thing about the future it comes one day at a time..

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        #4
        ODAT-Wednesday

        Hi Sea and all ODATers

        Glad you did you not drink Sea, you are obviously a very strong woman and there will be a way out of all of this. Well done on day 10!

        Day 3 for me today.

        Hope all are doing ok
        There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning.

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          #5
          ODAT-Wednesday

          Wow Sea! You are one tough cookie! Chin up, keep coming here and keep adding to that ever increasing number of AF days! May not be here often these days but I am right behind you when I am!

          Bessie xx

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            #6
            ODAT-Wednesday

            I DID sleep in!! I woke up at 5 AM and thought it was over but the kitty, who I think has finally forgiven me for taking in little stray doggie and started sleeping with me again, snuggled and purred and I fell back out. So much better than AL "sleep".

            Sea, that is horrendous news! Congrats on 10 days and TRIPLE congrats on not drinking yesterday. It would not have made things any better. Very smart move! Maybe you could try the BAR association and see if you can get a pro bono lawyer or just some advice on where to turn for help. Good luck, I'll be thinking of you.

            Morning, Roger & all to come. Have a good one!
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            Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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              #7
              ODAT-Wednesday

              Wow Sea!
              You did great! I heard yesterday on the radio that repossessions in the UK are up by loads.... hopefully it will not come to that for you now you have a job- surely that counts for loads?
              Well I've just taken antabuse as willpower is not working for me at the mo, just need a few days break from the 'option' of drinking. Not really sure why I'm not making it as the desire to recover is definitely there, I guess when I'm very depressed I find it harder.
              Anyway on a more positive note I can't remember whether I said my little sis had her baby last week. He is lovely and they are both doing very well!
              Take care all and hope the day is successful
              Eviexx:h
              Jesus said"Come unto me, all you who labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
              Take My yoke upon you and learn from me for I am gentle and lowly in heart and you will find rest for your souls.
              For my yolk is easy and My burden is light              "

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                #8
                ODAT-Wednesday

                Hi guys,

                Sea, sorry about the challenges you are going through but congrats on 10days! That is where I should be right now as well but unfortunatly the last couple of days I caved. Although last night I only had 2 glasses of wine and it was strictly because there was a half bottle of wine left over from the night before. So I'm not hungover today and now there is nothing to tempt me.........

                Today I WILL not drink. Today is the start of another string of AF days for me.
                And that's all I'm going to say about that......hope everyone has a good one.

                Love and hugs,
                Uni
                Every day is a day to start over and remember that I am powerless over my addiction. I will no longer give the BEAST any power over me - he can go straight to hell.
                :h

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                  #9
                  ODAT-Wednesday

                  Well I guess it just goes to show how a bad day can go to s@&t in a heartbeat. Sea, I hope everything works out for you.
                  I might not be posting for awhile, seems with all my book and music downloading lately I'm almost over my bandwidth limit. If I go over they will punish me by making my computer so slow I won't wan tot use it!
                  But I'll be here............still caring!
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                  NF since June 1, 2008
                  AF since September 28, 2008
                  DrunkFree since June 1, 2008
                  _____________
                  :wings: In memory of MDbiker aka Bear.
                  5/4/2010 In loving memory of MaryAnne. I pray you've found peace my friend.
                  _______________
                  The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.ray:

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                    #10
                    ODAT-Wednesday

                    Afternoon everyone!!!

                    Sea, you ROCK!!!!! You did not crack under one of the most difficult challenges any would every face. My hat goes off to you.....and congrats on Day10. I wonder if I will ever get there? I certainly hope so. I know that I felt dynamite waking up with a clear head and not a heavy heart.......

                    Day2 for me....not looking forward to Day4...always a difficult one for me......I will have to keep my self occupied though shouldn't be difficult as my mom is having her hip replaced tomorrow and I will be looking after her and her handicapped husband......WOW! A nurse I am not, but it's my mom.
                    AF July 6 2014

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                      #11
                      ODAT-Wednesday

                      Congrats, sea, on both the job and the 10 AF! I'm on day 2 AF and am job stressed to the max but am determined to make it to day 3. I'm in the 7 day thread so I have motivation there, too.

                      Take care all, have a good one :l
                      "Action is...the enemy of thought." :l Joseph Conrad

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                        #12
                        ODAT-Wednesday

                        OK, Sea - you're going to be my inspiration for today. That you didn't drink under such stress is Super!!

                        I was going to post that it will be tough today because I have an interview (YAY!), but it's been my habit to drink afterwards, whether I did good or bad!! (Celebrating or Crying - hey! I'm flexible!! lol)

                        But you made it through... so I will do my Best!

                        Good luck w/the mortgage thing.

                        PS - Today is Day 4.
                        Sometimes you have to take the leap and build your wings on the way down... Anais Nin

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                          #13
                          ODAT-Wednesday

                          Day 4. Only 10 million more to go.

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                            #14
                            ODAT-Wednesday

                            SEA! You are amazing! Congrats on 10 days AF and the 2 jobs. Wonderwoman! So sorry to hear that you are buried in this foreclosure mess. Amazing that you kept your will. ABSO-FRIGGIN-LUTELY-AMAZING! Yes, you definately rock! Good luck with your home...
                            "It wasn't all I wanted, but all I could stand!":bigwink: Alcohol free since April 8, 2008

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                              #15
                              ODAT-Wednesday

                              Hi All ODATer's
                              Thank u all for your well wishes. I just wanted to give a quick update. I spoke with someone at the mortgage co. today, and she said, Oops, I talked with the foreclosure attorney, and he hasn't set a date for a sale. He is a least a couple of months out. Send me a copy of your first full week's pay stub and we will try and work with you to save your home. Not so sure I trust these people anymore, but i will take it for now. How the F__k do you make a mistake like that and devastate a person's life!! Thank god I didn't cave in and get myself pissed. I would so be regretting it today.
                              "Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)

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