hi everyone

[dlw]

:new:
I sure could use some support. I hit rock bottom this week- so Today I am AF, and Monday I am going to my first AA meeting. I am a bit scared, coming out and admiting my failures with the bottle. WHat should I expect at the meeting?

[tlrgs]

hi everyone

:hello2::colorwelcome::wave::groupluv: and if your first AA MEETING JUST GO AND LISTEN you dont have to share only if you feel you should.. you can learn alot and meet deferent people there .. good luck .. stay strong and think positive

[startingover]

hi everyone

Hi DLW, I am not sure what to expect at an AA meeting, but well done on admitting your problem here. That is your first step. I found that one very tough. You are beginning your journey.
Welcome to you.

[Waiting for his way out]

hi everyone

dlw, nice meeting you in the chat room.. good luck at the meeting.

[gyco]

hi everyone

hi,just got off work,bottom out,ouch,tht is not good,as T said listen,ive been IN and out of AA since 1999,it is not for all,if you dont have a BIG BOOK,you can go to online AA,TO AA BOOK,and you will find some help there,this place is a very good start,lots of knowledge here,little more open minded then AA,by the way im not knocking AA,if you read the 1st 164 pages of the book,or online,it will give you an idea,also online has the 4 editions,hope this hel[ps,want to no more send me an email via,gyco,all be happyto help,b4 you go to your 1st meeting,gyco

[A Work in Progress]

hi everyone

Welcome, DLW! Meetings differ a lot from one group to the next... but you can expect that people will be very friendly, and that you are likely to feel at home fairly easily. You won't be pressured to say anything more than what you feel ready to say. They will probably tell you a lot about themselves, and about the program, and offer to be available to let you call them if you need more help or have more questions.

best wishes,

wip

[akgirl]

hi everyone

Sending support all the way from the frozen far north!!!!

Can't help with the meeting, never been. Wish you lots of luck :l

[gettingthere]

hi everyone

Hi DLW and welcome!!:welcome:

Sounds like you and I both hit rock bottoms this week! I am trying to keep my head up but having a really hard time today. If you are here, that's a good thing becuase you will get more support than you could ever imagine! I have never been to AA, but will consider it just to see if it is for me.
I am currently on Antabuse (AB) and plan on staying on it until Christmas. It will be my longest Alcohol Free (AF) time other that when I was pregnant. If you have any other questions, just holler!

Best of luck!!:yougo:

[GoodAsGold]

hi everyone

So glad you've found us - we need you!!!

AA has been an invaluable part of my recovery. Not for me on a regular basis i decided, but i still use what i learned there daily. I would suggest you just keep an open mind. Soak up the support & understanding. The meetings vary in atmosphere but everyone there will understand you. I listened more than i shared & that was ok. There is no judgement there, only love

Be gentle on yourself right now. Try to concentrate on what will get you well, not on alcohol. Drink lots of water. Eat as much as you can, it really helps level out the blood sugar & keep cravings at bay.

Keep close to us, ask us anything at all! We're with you in spirit, right beside you
Look forward to hearing how the AA meeting goes

Big hug - Gold xxx

[vera-b]

hi everyone

Welcome DLW,

Don't know about AA - others here have more info. I'd also recommend you get RJ's book and read up on her story. It will also give you a good idea of the scope of the MWO program. And come here often - the more, the merrier. We all hold each other up.

Vera-b

[time2change]

hi everyone

Welcome
Sorry to hear that you have hit rock bottom. I can't give any advice on AA but I can tell you that you will receive alot of support on this site. I'm sure many members can tell you about AA and others will be here to help in many other ways. Good Luck.

[Johno]

hi everyone

welcome dlp, I have been to a few AA meetings.You will find them friendly and it is good to listen to the various speakers about their battles with AL and how they have overcome their addiction.You wont be pressured to say anything and the knowledge you will gain will help you on your journey. I personally have found MWO a wonderful supportive group of people.So good luck.Keep posting us and let us know how you are getting on.:welcome:

[dlw]

hi everyone

I made it everyone, AF the whole weekend, !
My worst enemy is myself, so instead of grabbing a bottle, I am jumping on line for all of your support. What helped me the most this weekend is that my family has not abanded me- My daugther should be furious with me, but instead came by for a visit with her new baby (my new grandson) And to hear back from all of you well wishers has brought tears to my eyes
I have the book ordered, and I am going to my AA meeting today, I see that there are a lot of mixed reviews from you, but I have taken so many big steps in the past 72 hours, that I am going to keep moving forward, but NOT on my own- I see what support is and I feel so much better that you are all cheering for me one day at a time.
I am lucky for the fact that I go in spurts with my drinking. I dont have to drink for any specific period of time- then something triggers me- stress, excitement- I need to figure that out- cause then the first thing I want to do is grab a drink
Its like the devil is sitting right behind me, waiting for something to spark my urge- and I need to overcome that mountain., :thanks:
I am grateful to all of you!

[DeeBee]

hi everyone

Well done Dlw!! Going AF on a weekend is really tough, so give yourself a pat on the back.

[dlw]

hi everyone

I made it to my first AA meeting today. I did it I was afraid, but all I found was friendly faces with no judgement in their eyes.
I Think I can do this, with MWO and AA, the battle seems a bit more do-able! One of the members today said take only one day at a time, but if that doesnt work, break it down to 4 hours, and if that doesnt work, break it down to 2 hours THanks everyone my hours are looking brighter!