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[christyacc]

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OMG Chelle....thank god you weren't killed....I'm not sure if that was the motive, but I am so glad you weren't.

Please, as mentioned earlier, put the charges, courts, etc on the back burner and think about you and getting yourself well. You need to start worrying about you. I know that everything else is worrisome and it's diifficult to take your mind off issues with your fiance, but you have to. You need to make yourself better.

You know I am here for you any time......I am off to bed, but I just want you to know I care and I am so happy you are physically ok.

Love,
Cxoxo

[startingover]

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Chelle, you were the first person I thought of when I woke up this morning. Yesterday I admit, I was so shocked by what you said I didn't really know how to respond.
I am praying that you ask for some personal help, you know face to face professional help. I wouldnt even know where to direct you but maybe if it was me I would start with the Samaritans? I know you have other problems as well as alchohol and right now you must be completely overwhelmed. I wish I could take some of this burden from you. But you know that I am here for you if ever you want to talk. Dont be alone Chelle, we all love you here and want you well.

[bloggy]

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Chelle I also thought of you when I woke.

I do hope you are feeling better today, I guess it is today you have your appointment?

The best of luck, will be thinking of you. Please let us know how you get on.

[Chelle12]

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My appointmnt is at 4.30 this afternoon.
you're right with comments that AL isnt my only problem. I have a very jealous and suspicious streak due to two previous failed relationship.
I find reltionships almost imposible to handle.. but Im trying.

Yes alcohol was making the situation a lot worse and intensifying the depression.

I've always said "things happen for a reason".. and Ive let the "wall" down from my fiance and we're closer than ever. I also havent had a drink since monday morning and have no desire to drink at all.

I want to get better. Im hoping the interview will give me some good starters and i may even look into "Relate" where both my fiance and I can work things out.

Thanks for all your replies, it means so much to me to know people care.
Thank you
:l

[Guest]

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we all care Chelle and we really , really want you to get the help you need to get better , and please if you feel like that again ring one of us ...we are here for you Chelle , im going to pm you my mobile number.

[Dolly Sunshine]

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Hi Chelle,
I just want to say good luck to you. I also am very jealous and untrusting due to a painful past. I know the havoc it can wreak on your emotional well being. I will say this. Not drinking has helped immensely. It's amazing what our minds can do to us especially when fueled by alcohol. You get worked up,you drink to calm down bingo instant place you were at. I'm glad you are ok and just for yourself continue to seek help and the rest will improve for your loved ones.

[petpeeve]

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Chelle, I've been thinking and praying for you as well, had no words to say yesterday after reading you post, just glad to hear you are "ok", I too am a firm believer that 'everything happens for a reason' and there is a reason you are here with us still, thank goodness. And there is a reason that you continue to work toward a goal of a happy life, as hard as it is.......best of luck to you in your appointment today, keep your head up and remember we all care!!! :groupluv:

[startingover]

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Thinking of you Chelle and its wonderful to hear that you are going to get some help

[BecomingMeAtLast]

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Chelle,
Was away yesterday and am so sad to read your post. I hope the appointment goes well today and my thoughts are with you. Even through all that you made soup! You are a very caring and giving person and deserve better than this for yourself. Take care. :l
:flower:
:armsaround:
Be

[DeeBee]

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Chelle, I haven't been able to get on-line for the last two days but you have been constantly in my thoughts.

I am so pleased that you are getting all the help you need, here, at home and professionally.

Love
Dee

[bloggy]

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Chelle

I am so glad you are feeling a bit better.

I have also had problems with jealousy in the past- I think it comes from a feeling from not being wanted as a child rather than the past relationships (in my case anyway) it is then a pattern I repeat in my relationships, which stems from a deep insecurity.

Anyway councillors and therapists are used to that sort of thing, so hopefully someone will finally be able to help you.

Hope you have a good day today.
:l

[Jas56]

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Hello everyone. My very first post. I have a lot of reading to do and a lot of things to buy to start this program but don't know where to begin.

I have not had anything to drink for 3 days. I really plan to go without any forthe next 2 weeks. I have become a person that I totally despise. Need help - thanks!

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Hiya Jas. Welcome to you! May I suggest that you start a new thread in either General or Just Starting Out? You will get many more responses that way whereas in here, your post may get "lost"
It sounds like you have made a great start and the support here is fantastic. Looking forward to hearing more!