I feel helpless because of the media portrayal about these situations with 'fathers for justice'. All the good advice in the past about "keeping her on side etc" has done nothing and I'm fed up of being Mr.Nice (NO not Howard Marks OK?!!). I tried to go about things today the 'right' way. I went to the CAB and was sat there for an hour and a half to be told I could not be seen today as they were closing. I was told I could make an appointment to see someone at 4pm tomorrow. I normally see Jas at 3 though and I'm fucked if I'm not gonna go down there and see her. No doubt there will be 'no one at home' but I'm gonna force this thing.
Let me explain a bit. It was the first week end I've had Jas staying over night with me again. She loves staying with me because I give her ALL my attention. Nothing else matters in that time I spend with her apart from HER happiness. I'm not this hands off dad where I get my kid and let em watch movies all the time she is with me. I need to have interaction with her and I can SO get down to her level and do that. We have the most amazing times together playing 'house' and 'doctors' etc.
Sal phoned me yesterday to ask if I could bring her home early. I asked why. She said that Ritchie is going to work soon and he ants to see her before he goes out. WHY? I asked. HE gets to see her everyday; I don't. So then an argument puprsued about how she will decide what's best for Jas and NOT ME. When I did try to take her back early ANYWAY I was given a frosty response at first. When I questioned her over her comments she basically told me that I'm a fuck'n no good looser and an alcoholic who doesn't deserve ANY rights whatsoever. I don't deny the fact that I have problems but i have NEVER put my daughter is harms way because of my drinking. I'm at a loss myself where this outburst came from. She is 8weeks pregnant with Ritchie's child at the moment and I can only put it down to hormones or the fact that she really doesn't want me to be a part of that 'extended' familly that Evie talked about. Either way I feel at a loss and with what's happening right now with my 'sanity' over other issues I am starting to feel really depressed right now. Thankfully the sun is shining here today.
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