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    #76
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    Oh, and Ive just found half a glass of wine behind the ironing basket..
    Dunno when I put that there, but its got 2 dead (or drunk) flies in it.
    ?I am playing all the right notes... But not necessarily in the right order.....?

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      #77
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      Chelle, have a good day today love. You sound nice and positve though...
      How is your woofy?
      Living now and not just existing since 9th July 2008
      Nicotine Free since 6th February 2009

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        #78
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        Hi Starting - yep, doggy is a lot perkier today.. his medicine is working great - although his bark seems more suited to a chihuahua rather than a Sammy though.

        BTW.. Im sure that glass of wine i mentioned before with the flies in is staring at me
        ?I am playing all the right notes... But not necessarily in the right order.....?

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          #79
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          Bin it hun!!!! NOW )
          Living now and not just existing since 9th July 2008
          Nicotine Free since 6th February 2009

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            #80
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            Chelle12;440822 wrote: Oh, and Ive just found half a glass of wine behind the ironing basket..
            Dunno when I put that there, but its got 2 dead (or drunk) flies in it.
            guess that ironing basket doesnt get pulled out too much!:H

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              #81
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              Delighted to hear about doggie, cannot stand it when they are poorly. I lost my baby in February this year to lymphoma, we tried chemo to help him. It gave him an extra 4 months. My drinking went off the scale at that point.
              Animals have the ability to completely break my heart.
              I am so glad yours is looking better. When you said you would have to carry him to the car I really thought it was not good news.....
              Living now and not just existing since 9th July 2008
              Nicotine Free since 6th February 2009

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                #82
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                I was thinking about the whole Hipps issue with his girlfriend and I know what im about to say will annoy some peeps and they will tell me im a fool but here goes anyway!

                Many , many moons ago I was living with a junkie and he didnt seem to bad , not the rob your granny type (i thought). I got pregnant , stayed with him 4 yrs and as he got worse I finally decided to give up on him and move home.

                He kept in touch with Zak through phone calls , I couldnt let Zak go over there cos of how he was living so I paid for him to come over here about twice a yr and I paid for their outings. Eventually he started getting himself together a bit , has meet a lovely girl who has been over to meet him a few times and he himself is on methadone only now.
                I have never recieved a penny from him towords his upkeep , not even when his dad died and left him 40 ,000.
                Am I a fool , I dont think so , I wanted what was best for Zak and that was it!
                As zak is older and his dad clean(er) now he visits them a few times a year and I pay for that too. It has always been about Zaks emotional well been!
                Kids NEED their dads...whatever the cost (emotional , financial , ect)

                Zak tells me he loves me every day , hes 15 , theres the proof!

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                  #83
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                  I wonder what Hippie's ex is going to tell Jasmine when she asks why she can't go and visit her daddy?

                  I feel really bad for him- it sucks.

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                    #84
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                    I'm loving this thread - thankyou all!

                    Been getting into chat lately but it keeps me up WAY too late & moves a bit too fast, even for me. Also, i know when i do go AF that using the computer after @ 9pm gets me too buzzed up for sleep

                    Like chelle, my plan today is GET BUSY. The house is vaguely respectable, though i'm so looking forward to the next recycling collection day when all those wine bottles will suddenly diappear!

                    It's the paperwork that has me wanting to dive for cover at the moment. Usual strategy - stick it on the pile (then when pile is in danger of falling over, start another one!)

                    Think i'll start just by filing today cos that does make things look better pretty quickly. Not so overwhelming...

                    O2M - so you got your new pooch?
                    chelle - glad your dog's feeling perkier - how's that kitchen coming along? Will check in later to find out...
                    Yeah, hope Hips is doing ok

                    Love to all - Let's do our best with today!
                    :sun:

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                      #85
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                      This whole conversation saddens me so much from a fathers perspective!!!!! We men can be pricks and argumentative just as much as our parteners but because history says a child is best left with the care of the mother the law and world supports that . Hipps I agree with others remain calm and argue your case rationally. There is no greater sadness than a father not being allowed to see and hug and play and kiss with his daughter. For me as for you that would be soul destroying . Dont let it happen. Thinking of you
                      Love cap

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                        #86
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                        My mum and dad had quite a bitter break-up when I was 7- and although my mum had many reasons to, she never ever said a negative word to us about our dad.

                        As a child I was very happy about that- I knew things were not good but it was nice that she never spoke badly of him to us.

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                          #87
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                          AH Gia you are the best have you got a jetty out front of that cabin by the ocean give me the co- ordinates and ill take Pops out and see if his a real captain. HAAA. Spose he wont want to come dont blame him!!!! why would he!!!!! shacked up on a beautiful Island with you and both your beautiful children.

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                            #88
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                            My situation when I broke up with my son's father was so different because he didnt want to see his son.. and now after nearly 5 years and my son is 13 he's never once tried to contact him or get in touch. He'll regret it in time though, I reckon.
                            Sooo ironic, when you think there are tons of doting dads out there who actually WANT to be a part of their children's lives and my ex is just so self-absorbed that he cant be arsed to see his own son.

                            Anyway... binned the wine.. but only cos Ive had a bit of a worry - Im coughing up blood... is that linked with the boozing, does anyone know? I checked to make sure it wasnt coming from the stitches in my mouth and its not.
                            ?I am playing all the right notes... But not necessarily in the right order.....?

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                              #89
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                              Chelle coughing up blood aint good alcohol can reck havoc on the stomach and pancreas when over done please see a Doc or go to a hospital straight away as soon as possible and good on tossing the wine. As for dads that dont want to know there kids the next life will deal with them.Please Chelle see a doctor or go to the hospital straight away
                              Love cap and let us know how you are going sweet heart

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                                #90
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                                chelle - i have to agree, get a medical opinion now.
                                Whatever the cause, it's a clear signal that something is not quite right. You need to get your Sherlock Holmes hat on! I hope you got it wrong & it is ur gums. Good luck

                                Gold
                                :sun:

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