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    Me-12 The Beast-0

    Hey, everyone! Sounds like we are doing great.
    Greeneyes--4 AM on the couch and sober--great!
    Bridge--loved the store story--our drugstores sell beer, wine AND spirits--hard to get by that aisle!
    Witchy--25 days is great, congratulations!
    Savon, Sea, 1more, Becoming--I agree. keeping busy, exercising, moderation if you can. Way to go.
    Uni--I can relate to being sick--my head is ready to explode! Has been off and on for over a week and in full force since last night.

    Okay, I promised the update on how I made it through the wedding
    . DID NOT TAKE EVEN A SIP OF CHAMPAGNE!!!! I am actually pretty proud of myself. I had already talked to several of my friends about not drinking, so they were supportive. I followed everyone's MWO advice--the bride wouldn't know, the wedding would not be affected, the champagne is probably cheap and warm. I did as instructed and ate a lot and danced almost every dance. Gulped tons of water, table hopped, socialized, and stayed away from the bar--God, who doesn't love an open bar?

    Only one tough moment--an acquainance brought me a big glass of wine and came to our table to visit. I just hopped up and said let's dance, I love this song. So I managed to avoid any questions. Before I knew it, the wedding was over and we said our good-byes. Wouldn't you know it?


    :damn:
    ---as soon as I put my coat on, my head stuffed up again, my eyes watered, I started sneezing and coughing. I have been in bed all day, sick as a dog and miserable. Cold meds aren't cutting it and I feel like crap--physically. Emotionally I feel great---I actually did it! In the last ten days four major social events, stress, depression....

    I thank you all for your support and encouragement. I love you guys for helping me so much.:h

    #2
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    I have been following your story and just want to say that you did a great job. Asked for suggestions, made a plan and stuck to it. I will do the same in the upcoming week. I am so sick and tired of losing control of my drinking and feeling like a failure. Thanks for taking the time to post.
    Redhibiscus
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      #3
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      Upnorth, that is absolutely fantastic! That was a good decision on your part and you should be SO very proud! I'm proud for you! You rock!!
      sigpic
      Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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        #4
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        upnorthgirl!

        I'm so proud of you! Thanks for checking in, I greatly appreciate it as I was thinking of you.

        :wave:

        Love, :h
        Be
        "Action is...the enemy of thought." :l Joseph Conrad

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          #5
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          Hey Girl! You did it! So proud of you! Big hug!
          Bridget

          " little by little, we travel far "
          - Tolkein

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            #6
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            outstanding!
            nosce te ipsum
            (Know Thyself)

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              #7
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              You did really well, especially avoiding that open bar all night. Feeling proud and happy in yourself is so much better than feeling hungover the next day.

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                #8
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                hay UpNorth, I'm doing a little victory dance for you right now at my keyboard, that is so awesome,
                keep it up. isnt it just the best feeling when you can come home proud of yourself,
                XX
                *Witchy*
                Progress, not perfection!!!
                A craving wont kill me, but drinking could!!!

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                  #9
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                  upnorthgirl....wow! VERY VERY COOL!
                  I must suppress the beast within so I can find my way out of the darkness.
                  sober since 2/4/12

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                    #10
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                    Sounds like the perfect day! Hope you are feeling better.
                    "I've done it. I don't need to drink anymore. I'm free!"-Jason Vale

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                      #11
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                      Very proud of you, upnorthgirl......

                      Well done.

                      Don

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                        #12
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                        Way to go, Upnorthgirl! You deserve to feel happy and proud and we all are for you! I think only people on this site can really appreciate how you're feeling. :l

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                          #13
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                          I'm so happy for you and proud of you upnorth. Glad you enjoyed yourself. Hope you feel better!
                          :lilheart: "Love is large, love defies limits. People talk about the sanctity of love...love is by definition sacred. Not some love between some people but all love between all people"
                          ~Jennifer Beals~:huggy

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