To Gyco and all

[lil.michelle]

i know this sounds silly but you've helped me soooooooo much. I'm sitting here, honestly, wanting to pull my hair out, i'm also on a diet even tho i weigh only 8 stone 10 ponds (size 8 UK) cause i'm MADE to feel fat. I guess i've really just had enough. It's so hard. I'm so hungry, tired and fed up. Like i said to someone else, you know, i just wanted to have 1 bath in peace, no child pulling at my hair, putting her fingers in my mouth, throwing stuff in the bath, screaming to join me... JUst a 10 min bath MAX and the fight with my hubby was unreal. I'm a good person damn it. I'm a good wife, i sit here everyday waiting for hubby to come home, house is clean ect ect My child is sooo amazing, well behaved... why? BECAUSE OF ME yet i'm soo alone. I'm sorry for this crap. I know i go up and down like superman but i just want a cuddle and some love to show me that YES i'm doing an ok job, no, you're not so fat ect ect

[startingover]

To Gyco and all

Hey Michelle...looks like you need to make this a year for you too. I am not surprised you are going up and down if you have to go through all that. Can you tell your hubby how you feel? I assume its him who is telling you you are fat? Which of course you are NOT.

[IAD]

To Gyco and all

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pB53M1kGM3A[/video]]YouTube - Happy Hippo sings I Like Big Butts with Dancing Dog Lil. Mich......I think that a little booty is a good thing.....Ha!Have him listen to this ved. IAD.

[Sue Ellen]

To Gyco and all

Michelle - you don't need to diet at the moment - you are a gorgeous size 8!!! I was trying a low carb diet before I gave up the booze but can't cope with that at the moment and have just scoffed a big bit of cake - still better than a large wine!! xx Don't be too hard on yourself xx

[Mohun]

To Gyco and all

I'm with Sue Ellen on this one. It can be too hard trying to make two major life adjustments at once. Stick to being AF and then concentrate on losing weight. :goodjob:

[Evie.Lou]

To Gyco and all

Dear Michelle, I remember those days of feeling fat and having kids wanting more of me then there was to go around...I DID pull my hair out LITERALLY ???I think ???Now I miss my kids and grandkids.
I know it seems so overwhelming to you, right now and if I could spend the day with you, we could have some GIRL time.Since I can't physically be there, let me be the voice of YES, from a distance.Yes you CAN do, be. feel anyway you allow yourself to.Goggle Abraham Hicks on You Tube and listen to some of their YES you can videos.Read Louise Hay's books...She has a YES YOU CAN conferences all over the US and she is in her 80s.That's inspiring to us older woman, for sure.
Anyway my point is that time passes kids grow up and ultimately we have to face the fact that it is up to us to find our own happiness...It takes work but it is work sooo worth doing.Blessings to you.PM me if I can help you.

[IAD]

To Gyco and all

LiL M. Is he crazy !!! My wife has'nt been a 8 for a hell of a long time Q ! Three kids later.....come on dude......[ Look at Momma How big is she !! Ha! Unless she been on a Bolimic life style, come on, IAD. ) Do you want someone like this !!! Maybe I should put this another way ! Ha!

[lil.michelle]

To Gyco and all

Well, who wouldn't a woman like that?!?!

[Guitarista]

To Gyco and all

That woman in IAD's picture, is far to thin in my opinion, and not attractive at all. Though i'm sure she's a nice person.

[Guest]

To Gyco and all

Ha ha MR. G, YOUR SO FUNNY, as my bro says , whats personality got to do with it!! Would you really kick her out of bed for farting??

Now all this reminds me of a great Tina Turner song...

Little Michelle, you sound like you need a little help, can your mum not take the kids for an hour or two, if you were near me Id help you , I would , hell one mores not gong to make a difference! And size 8 is tini tiny, im a size 12...curves, ya know....men love em!Lol!

[IAD]

To Gyco and all

Michelle, Are you kidding me, Ha! That skinny woman......... I'ld feel like I was laying down with a wirey ass boy ! Ha! You got to have some meat on those bones ! Ha! IAD.

[New Day]

To Gyco and all

Iad --- nice to hear that not all men want the skinny model types. I'm feeling (and am) overweight. Began piling on the pounds in the last 5 years with all the wine. I used to be able to look good in anything I put on, now it's a struggle to find anything that I feel comfortable in. I've got 20 lbs to lose before I'll feel better about myself. In the meantime, I'll keep what you said in mind and not beat myself up too much. I'm hoping a good side effect of being AF, is that this weight will come off!

Lil.michelle --- I'd give anything to be back to a size 8!

[Boss.man]

To Gyco and all

That's an awful picture. Women are attractive when they have intelligence, character and experience.

[Guest]

To Gyco and all

Ah bossman, your describing all my best qualities, thanks for noticing!

[Cat Belle]

To Gyco and all

lil.michelle, ditto what bossman said! Realize what all the guys on here are saying? Lots of us girls barely remember the days of a size 8 -BE PROUD girl!