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    #6901
    Newbies Nest

    Afternoon. Thought I would check in early this afternoon. My step-dragon, ooops step daughter is coming for dinner tonight and she never knows when to leave so wont be able to get back on here later.

    Yes Spam. I am alot happier. I have spoken often of not having a voice but I am turning that around now. And the taking back of Hippy Chick involved explaining to the stalker why this is my sacred space. It took effort but I did it. It felt so empowering, and now I am trying to speak up when I need to. Just not drinking isnt working for me. I was told at the start that if all you change is the contents of your glass, you will struggle. And that is so true. Lav also told me when I started that I am an adult now, not a child and that has finally sunk too. If I dont do it for ME, who will?

    Pap - well done to you too for speaking up and saying no to AL.

    Tantangra - Wednesday is my only day I get the house to myself too and I love it. I loved your story about your mum. It is amazing when fate steps in and alters our lives and what seems like the worst thing at the time, actually turns out to be a blessing.

    Hi Tranq - hope everything is going well with you know who!

    Look forward to catching up with you all tomorrow. Stay strong and focused.

    Hipster - choosing to unbooze.
    I finally got it!
    "All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become" Buddah

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      #6902
      Newbies Nest

      Everyone sounds pretty chipper tonight.

      Thanks for the well wishes. I go to see the specialist at 10.30am tomorrow. I had a scare a few years back but it turned out to be nothing to worry about. I found this out after 3 months of worrying and thinking what would happen to my young kids if I die, etc. I wrote poetry and short stories about cancer, and thought about doing a video for my kids to watch after I died. When I turned up for the appointment, the specialist was surprised that I'd brought my husband. He sent the results to my GP who said I had "Breast Mice" (the common term, obviously). They are cysts that grab onto muscle tissue and turn up anywhere they please. After all that angst I found out I had mice in my tits! :H
      Hoping that it's something similar this time, as I can't find anything for the life of me.

      Love the picture Mama. I'm not brave enough to share mine as I would be instantly recognisable in my town. Thanks for the offer to cry on your shoulder if I need to. I'll definitely be taking that up.

      Welcome to the newbies. Stay safe on your twigs all.

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        #6903
        Newbies Nest

        Hi Nesters!

        Well had a good day at work and then went shopping to get stuff organised for my yougest chick's 3rd birthday!

        Am sipping diet coke & hubby is making pizza..as it is afterall PIZZA NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        Dancing-I will be thinking of you and sending lots of positive vibes your way tomorrow!
        Hippy - you definately sound like the 'flow' is back! Hooray for you..I am another who needs to find her 'voice'!
        Tant-your story about your folks was really moving and I have seen similar situations myself!Thanks for sharing!
        Pap-well done on the 'unbooze'-I like that catch-word too!
        Lav- hope you are keeping your chin up!
        Tranq- you are tops!
        Spam,Katie,Mama,K9,Litre,Roaming,Nora,Coco,1Adam,E mcee,Sunni & all others who roost in the nest tonight...have a lovely rest!
        Chook

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          #6904
          Newbies Nest

          Chook3

          Home-made pizza is just the best!

          How many children have you got? And how old? I keep thinking you have three - two school age and one little and all girlies?

          I have one 10 year old (male) pest.

          Spam xx

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            #6905
            Newbies Nest

            BRAVO paps.....you have passed the "fancies" test a few times lately...hope your dinner was lovely
            Hippy...is that you...have you joined the trend of real faces? if so...you look great!!!!
            Mama Lav...hope you are still strong....I think of you daily
            Welcome Sister Litre...we're gonna get you through this
            1Adam12...did you dump the vodka??? I hope so
            Ringin..I agree with pap on her comments........we love you sober!!
            Chook...you are a goof.
            Hey Coco...love you silly girl
            Katie...I will see you in the pool....and don't bring F*tard
            Tranqanova...how was your evening
            Sunni, Nora, Runningwind, Panno, Mazzie, Meech (where is she).....see you all later today

            oh yeah....I have PM'd Twitch twice to no avail......
            I love my family more than alcohol.:h
            Live in the Solution....not the problem

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              #6906
              Newbies Nest

              boo he he
              Don't Let The Bastards Grind You Down - Eat Them Alive

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                #6907
                Newbies Nest

                Flip,

                You made it. Welcome!

                Mostly, we just talk about anything and everything here - you know - as women do.

                Just chime in with anything.

                Spam xx

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                  #6908
                  Newbies Nest

                  Good morning Nesters,

                  Still busy around here, that's great!!

                  Tant, thank you for sharing the story about your parents. I have no desire to end my marriage but it will end if Mr Lav cannot pull his S--t together. He is stuck in his child-like self centered thinking! He's very negative even when nothing is wrong. His parents were crappy people, did a lot of damage to him & his siblings. They've all been in therapy at one time or another. I will fight tooth & nail to keep from being dragged into his negativity cave again...........it was way too unhealthy for me.

                  Tranq, thanks for keeping an eye on the nestlings

                  HC, so glad you found the strength to exercise your adult voice!!! Now if I can get Mr Lav to put away his wounded child ego - we'll all be happy!

                  Dancingon, best of luck to you! Fibrocystic breast diease is a pain in the butt to live with but not fatal. I know I've been called back several times to have extra films done - wracks your nerves!

                  Hello to Sunni, Chool, MB & absolutely everyone in the Nest today - have a good one
                  Lav
                  AF since 03/26/09
                  NF since 05/19/09
                  Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                    #6909
                    Newbies Nest

                    Spam;844682 wrote: Flip,

                    You made it. Welcome!

                    Mostly, we just talk about anything and everything here - you know - as women do.

                    Just chime in with anything.

                    Spam xx
                    But im a MAN lol I think
                    Don't Let The Bastards Grind You Down - Eat Them Alive

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                      #6910
                      Newbies Nest

                      Oh Flip......We'll let you be here anyway!:H:H:H

                      Seriously though.......you are not the only man.
                      "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                      ..........
                      AF - 7-27-15

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                        #6911
                        Newbies Nest

                        Kitties are growing

                        "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                        ..........
                        AF - 7-27-15

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                          #6912
                          Newbies Nest

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                          "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                          ..........
                          AF - 7-27-15

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                            #6913
                            Newbies Nest

                            Good-morning everyone,

                            Had a rough day yesterday but made it through.
                            Today is the start of day-8 AF and that feels good.
                            I decided instead of given in to the AL...that I would get the focus off of me and reach out to others.
                            I know there will be more bad days ahead but I am not going to worry about that now. Today is starting out great and that is what counts at this moment.
                            Wishing everyone a great day!

                            runningwind
                            The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes of mind. William James (1842-1910)

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                              #6914
                              Newbies Nest

                              Too CUTE... NoraC!!!
                              The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes of mind. William James (1842-1910)

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                                #6915
                                Newbies Nest

                                Nora.....adorable......we should name it Tigger
                                Hey Runningwind....I am SO FREAKING proud of you...I really am....
                                Dancing.....keep us posted......breast mice......hmmmmmmmm...gotta hunt for some visuals on that one!!
                                Lavande...you are my hero.......you are so strong and I thank heaven every day you are here for us!!
                                FlipTop....oh goody.....a boy with cooties we can pick on.....
                                I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                                Live in the Solution....not the problem

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