ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

[savon19]

I Really need to make this Day 1.

I got 2 dozen roses from bf BEFORE he broke up w/me... Guess he's regretting that expenditure now??... OH welllll.

The hardest part of this breakup has been the No Calls, No Getting Calls part. Almost like another addiction. We used to spend a Lot of time on phone every day for the last 2 months... Yesterday was the first day with NO calls. Guess I had become emotionally dependent.

Just have to move on! And, after drinking almost every day last week (and probably one of the causes for him to drop me!)..., I think I am ready to see what my Real, Sober emotions are.

Hope you all have a Happy Valentine's Day!

[aprilmoon]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

Savon,

I'm sorry your bf couldn't stick with you and try to help you with your drinking issues. He didn't, so move on for you. Sober emotions can lead to drinking. Try to keep sober to see how you really feel about the situation. I wish you the best!!

[savon19]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

Thanks, Aprilmoon. One thing you said reminded me of what he had said several times to me, "I'm still here, aren't I?" Guess he just couldn't say that anymore...

I'll get over it, with time.

[Seacailin]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

I have been hiding out because I have been struggling. I just get so worn down worrying about my unemployment and my bills. I look for relief in AL. It is so not worth it. Here I am on Day 3, back in AA meetings, and hopefully learning something. An old drinking buddy wants to come over today. He has offerred to do some repairs around the house for me, but I know that he will want to drink, and I just can't. Hang in there Savvy. It is so hard for me to deal with negative emotions sober too, but we both know that it is better in the long run. Happy Valentines' Day to all:l

[matthen]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

Good Morning all -- Savon, sorry for your sadness. I hope that you achieve your AF goals because it is part of your wonderful life ahead. Thinking of you and here to cheer you on. God bless.

[greeneyes]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

ODATERS!!!

Big change in Valentines Day plans for me. Raining......... So much for yard stuff and the doggie park. That's OK. Plenty to do indoors. I can sit and watch my tulips open up :H

Savvy, fill that phone time with something that makes you feel good about yourself. It sort of snowballs.

Hey sea, keep your hopes up. I know it's hard. I had a nightmare about employment last night. Uncovered some of my deep dark fears and insecurities. Gahhhhh! Something good will happen. Keep positive thoughs active so that you attract positive things.
:l

Morning april & matt & all to come!

Love Day! Love yourself!!!! All Day Long!!!

[sdlovespackers]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

Good Morning ODATers and Happy LOVE Day!!
The ex that wanted to get back together a couple of weeks ago...that I told I could only offer a friendship too started getting really mushy...I loves yous....'our first valentine's day' things on the phone...and so I said...wait a second...I told you I can't do this...I'm working on me right now...a relationship would just be too much for me right now...being honest, right...not leading him on...right...the mature adult thing to do....right....haven't heard from him since...oh well...I think it's for the best...maybe that's what made this week a little harder, more stressful than it needed to be!! Just thinking out loud!! (I wish I could spell this....Say-la-ve) Anyone know what I am trying to say??? Have a GREAT weekend...my son and I have a plane to catch and seashells to find!!! I'll miss talking to you all for a few days...take care!!!

[greeneyes]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

Holy shit sd! That's happening to me too. He announced he wants to win me back. I don't want him to try.

[BecomingMeAtLast]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

savvy, that would be a nice Valentine's Day present for yourself.

Hey april, nice chatting with you last night. You too, matt.

Sea, it's great you're back in the swing of things. I wish you the best.

Hey greenie!

Have a fun and safe trip, sd and I know exactly what you mean.

For all the OSATers and MWO friends, I wish you a Happy Valentines Day and for all of us
to reach and maintain our goals, from 1 day AF to 1000 days AF and everywhere in between!

Love,
Be

[sdlovespackers]

ODAT Saturday - Valentine's Day!!

Greeneyes--
Men--BLLLAAAHHHH!!!!!
(sorry guys...minus the men on here...you guys are awesome...of course
Okay...I HAVE TO STOP CHECKING BACK!!! MUST GET TO THE AIRPORT!!! GOOD BYE FOR REAL THIS TIME!!!! Could I have a new addiction...LOL...dammit...it's always somethings isn't it!!! This would be the healthiest one thus far in my life....yea me!!!!!!!!!!!!! ADIOS!!!!!!!!