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    #16
    Choices, choices and pain...

    That's great that you talked! I really don't know if you can have a relationship when one person is AF and the other is not. I am dealing with that now w/ my husband! All I know is that I MUST be AF in order to survive. It is just hard when he drinks and has a buzz and I do not. It is a bit annoying!!!

    Good for you Coda for staying AF. Keep taking good care of yourself! In regards to your son, when the dust settles a little bit, your boyfriend and son may end up being friends again. Who knows!

    I remember having some CRAZY blow ups with my ex-mother-in-law and now we are very kind to one another three years later. We exchange magazines, talk on the phone and have really put the past behind us. I hope you sleep well tonight!!!
    "One day at a time. Messy bed, Messy head."
    March 13, 2012

    Goal #1: 7 days 3/19/12 DONE
    Goal #2: 15 days 3/27/12
    Goal #3: 30 days 4/11/12
    Goal #4: 60 days 5/11/12
    Goal #5: 90 days 6/10/12
    Goal #6: 6 months
    Goal #7: 1 year

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      #17
      Choices, choices and pain...

      Coda,

      I think you can do this with or without the boyfriend. Right now your boyfriend just might be more in love with the alcohol than with you. I know how stressful grown son's with anger issues can be but you can handle it sober, you really can :l

      Myheart
      Patience has its limits. Take it too far, and it's cowardice.
      - George Jackson

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        #18
        Choices, choices and pain...

        Coda,
        I read your post on the other post. I hope you are still doing okay. Is it tonight that you are going to the bar and grill for dinner? I hope you check on here before you go so you know you are being supported!!!

        Have you talked to your boyfriend today?
        "One day at a time. Messy bed, Messy head."
        March 13, 2012

        Goal #1: 7 days 3/19/12 DONE
        Goal #2: 15 days 3/27/12
        Goal #3: 30 days 4/11/12
        Goal #4: 60 days 5/11/12
        Goal #5: 90 days 6/10/12
        Goal #6: 6 months
        Goal #7: 1 year

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          #19
          Choices, choices and pain...

          We are in this together !!!

          :hello2::colorwelcome::hello2:
          sigpicEyes on the PRIZE, a SOBER Future !!!

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