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[Pan]

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Get rid of your phone number. Go back to that post and left click on the [edit] button. Right hand side bottom of post. Delete the phone number.

[shelley]

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good night, i',m sorry

[Accountable for Me]

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No need to apologize! We are glad you are alone and OK. Lock the doors, pound back a big glass of water and head to bed. It must be 5am there?

Get a good nights sleep and don't let him in if he comes by. Let us know how you get on. xoxo

[cacky]

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Thanks

Thanks Panicked. Its gone. Hopefully I didnt do too much damage

[Accountable for Me]

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WELL, Cacky........ I will be phoning you in the middle of the night EVERY NIGHT from now on. Now that I have your phone number!

Just kidding.

PM's are definitely the way to go for releasing personal information. It was, however, very kind of you to extend yourself to her! xoxo

[shelley]

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i know i'm just waiting for the beating, its too late i let it happen too much, i 'm going to call the police this time and do it properlly ptherwise ill end up dead. iknoiw he'll blame me, say its all my fault , its not its not i don t want it any more LEAVE ME ALONE, i dont wat to be hit agaom ILL HIT HIM BACK im sick of it leave me alone.... L:EAVE ME

[shelley]

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please jusf leave me.....

[shelley]

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for anyone else suffering domestic violence,,,, :besafe:

[shelley]

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hgtf

[Sheepish]

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Shelley
Is there anyone you can call right now?
You can not do this alone. Please call someone.
-Sheep

[aprilmoon]

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Shelley......please do something to stop this....Leave call the police something.

I have been in 2 domestic violence relationships. The first one was my ex husband. I used to think I deserved the beatings. He made me think that I caused him to hit me. That's how dumb I was. Of course he was sorry the next day and all was well and then it would happen over and over and over. He finally left me for another woman. Imagine that. I was devastated that he left me. AL made me feel this way and allow him to hit on me.

2nd relationship of violence. He was so possesive. He accused me of sleeping around, sneeking people in the house etc. He hit me twice and I left him. He begged and cried to come back....bla bla bla bla bla. Nope...I have been through that before and I wasn't going to do it again. He called me once after I broke up and he told me that I was going to get old and be lonely and nobody was going to want me. Well, I told him that I was going to be alone but I wasn't going to be lonely. I was loving being away from him.

I had decided that I would never marry again and I had no desire to date. I was in my late 30's. That was went my husband, who had been a co-worker of mine for years asked for a date. We dated and I found out his wife left him for another man. After months of dating I told him about my past with men. We made a pact.....he would never ever hit me and I would never ever cheat on him. 11 years later and we are still happily married. He has never laid one hand on me. I have not cheated on him. I found the man of my dreams when I wasn't looking. He is not jealous of me. He is not possesive of me. We actually have never had a fight/arguement. We do disagree from time to time, but we do not even argue. I think we know what a bad marriage is like and we are not going back to that.

I wish you the best. This guy you are with is mean/stupid/abusive. There is never a reason a man should hit a woman. Well, I guess if she is trying to hurt him maybe. He is a small minded person. I ain't even gonna call him a man....he's a little boy to think hitting you is a good thing. If you are here to stop your drinking or to seek help for him to stop drinking don't let him stop you. If he does not trust you, I suggest you tell him to get out of your life.

Do not let him ever hit you again. I'm here for you if you want to pm me. Please do not stay in this situation. Please get out of get him out.