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    What do I do if I've already messed up...?

    It's Friday night....and I am already a disaster....can I save the weekend??:upset:
    AF Since Sept. 20, 2010!!!

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    What do I do if I've already messed up...?

    Ronald,

    Of course you can save the weekend! My advice is to stop drinking now, get some sleep and start AF r in the morning. Get rid of all the AL in the house. Keep posting here. We have all had these moments and we will all be here for you.

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      #3
      What do I do if I've already messed up...?

      You can stop anytime. We are here for you. Just keep talking to us

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        #4
        What do I do if I've already messed up...?

        Ronald, I'm with Choppers. Clear all the alcohol out of the house. Remove temptation and then name today as Day 1 AF and look forward to waking up bright and hangover free.
        Feb 04 2009 80 days AF.
        AF May 23 09 to July 09
        AF December 16, 09 FORWARD.

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          #5
          What do I do if I've already messed up...?

          Ronald, just get up and dust yourself down and start again, that is what I did Friday morning. I messed up on Thursday night oops! but I went out last night all be it only for 1 hour and did not drink and I have got to go out this afternoon but I said to hubby that I will drive which will stop me from drinking which will mean that I have gone 2 days AF which considering it is the weekend is really good for me. just remember that no-one is perfect, we all make the odd mistake sometimes but hopefully our mistakes will get fewer and fewer as we go on.
          :dancin: enguin:
          starting over

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            #6
            What do I do if I've already messed up...?

            I think its up to you. Will ask you my new question,

            'What would be the worst thing that would happen if you didn't drink today??

            Bxx
            Proud to be SLIGHTLY SLOVENLY.:wavin:


            [/COLOR]

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              #7
              What do I do if I've already messed up...?

              hi ronald your rt now, on the top of the list,so i get to write now,hahah,its never to late,easier said then done,stopping to drink,i dont no how many times ive tried,the only time i really want to stop is when i feel,Like you do rt now,i ,I don't know if i did something wrong feeling,or did i do something rt feeling,that's why they,experts call it alcoholism,does not mean your alchoholic,heaven forbid,as far as the throwing out thing,[the AL] unless your broke,or even then you could find a way to get more,that's kind like saying,lets get rid of the rest of the world,we tend to do to much,when we do it,theres no such a thing as failure,unless you dont come back,there are so many delightful people here to help,have patience,you might find theres a better way to life,instead of drowning yourself with the joy juice,i wish you well GYCO

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                #8
                What do I do if I've already messed up...?

                Thank you all for the advice. Ronnie - thanks for the idea of being the driver! I am also going out this afternoon and I think it would be good for me (and for my husband) if I decided to be the DD. Here's to day one AF!!!
                AF Since Sept. 20, 2010!!!

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                  #9
                  What do I do if I've already messed up...?

                  Yep, try, try, again .... Don't give up, you can do this.
                  Growth means change and change involves risk, stepping from the know to the unknown."
                  Author Unknown :h

                  AF - Sept 4, 2012
                  10 days - Sept 13, 2012
                  2 weeks - Sept 17, 2012
                  Slip on the weekend but tried too moderate!
                  AF - Sept 24, 2012 (get back on the headaches not worth it)
                  Slippery slope Oct 1 ..... Trying to not give up!


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                    #10
                    What do I do if I've already messed up...?

                    You can make it over the top..............just put the drink down and get rid of all the booze in the house. Then post on MWO and or find an AA meeting if need be. IAD
                    ?Be who you are and say what you feel because
                    those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.?
                    Dr. Seuss

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                      #11
                      What do I do if I've already messed up...?

                      Sweaty Betty, I love that question. I think I'll use it today.
                      Drinking has been my hobby for several years now. It's time to get a new hobby

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                        #12
                        What do I do if I've already messed up...?

                        Its never to late to start, only to late to stop. That makes sense in my head, hope it does to you.
                        Sober since Jan 17th 09
                        Smoke free since 20th Nov 08 :H

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                          #13
                          What do I do if I've already messed up...?

                          I am starting again today at day one....hopeful that I will make it to day 3 or 4 AF....why on earth is this so difficult?? I have ordered supplements....just waiting for them to come. Hopefully they will help.
                          AF Since Sept. 20, 2010!!!

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                            #14
                            What do I do if I've already messed up...?

                            ronaldolover;582097 wrote: why on earth is this so difficult??
                            Once you make up your mind once and forall you will be amazed what you can and will do!!:h
                            Growth means change and change involves risk, stepping from the know to the unknown."
                            Author Unknown :h

                            AF - Sept 4, 2012
                            10 days - Sept 13, 2012
                            2 weeks - Sept 17, 2012
                            Slip on the weekend but tried too moderate!
                            AF - Sept 24, 2012 (get back on the headaches not worth it)
                            Slippery slope Oct 1 ..... Trying to not give up!


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                              #15
                              What do I do if I've already messed up...?

                              What's that song . . .

                              You can do it . . .
                              You can do it . . .
                              Noone else but you can do it . . .

                              Now look in the mirror and sing . . .
                              I CAN DO IT . . .
                              I CAN DO IT . . .
                              NOONE ELSE BUT I CAN DO IT . . .

                              and remember that it sure is Great to have the Wonderful Support of All of These Great People and then keep coming back again and again . . . for more and more Strength :l!

                              God Bless

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