I'll try to keep this short - last summer my oldest brother died at 52 for the same reason I'm going to if I don't quit, and I'm only 41. Other than the drinking, I'm in good shape, built well, look good to others but not in the mirror. Most relationships I've had have been lost because of my drinking so I'm alone again, including my most recent back in October. I got laid-off a few days before Christmas and started drinking hard (again) after about five weeks of the not so successful job search.
I've been sinking back into the heavy consumption after quitting for a week. It started slowly, but has been getting worse.
When this started to get relly bad a friend of mine took me to the hospital where I thought they would probably lock me up until I got better - not so - even though my BAC was .50!!! I don't want to go through the withdrawles again - it was horrible! Ihave been drinking again though. I know this is a genetic thing for me, not like other addictions, even though I do have an addictive personality. I guess that's what always keeps me faithful to one girl. That's one of the few things I can feel good about.
I have a lot going for me but I feel so destroyed emotionally and from a self esteem & self respect standpoint, I'm not moving forward very well. Hence, the alcohol has come back into the picture.
I've had tears in my eyes again for the past few days when I think about what a mess I've made of myself and what I've lost. I spent years building a race car that I'm going to be forced to sell since I'm out of work, and will probably end up selling another. I was doing so well, and now I'm close to having nothing - I'm crushed.
I'm eating well, and taking vitamines, Ensure shakes, Pediasure, Spirulina, & B1 on top of it to make sure I have that going for me, but my mind doesn't stop. I worry too much and have this house with no one here, and no girl to go see. This is a bad thing for me so here I am.
I live in St. Louis and would like to hear from someone local. I've been working on PC's to make some extra money so I get a little tired of being on a keyboard - a live voice would be nice once in a while. I'm really asking anyone to have some patience since my response may not be there right away.
I guess that wasn't so short, but thank you for reading. Evereyone on this site will be in my prayers.:thanks:
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