I am sad to say that my wonderful plan fell flat and I am back to square one. I had been going to spend the week cutting down, and today should have been my first day without a drink. It just didn't work, and I am a bit lost again. The thing is that I was away from home Wed Thurs and Friday, arriving home that afternoon in time for my wedding anniversary party - I was going to be down to 1 bottle only that night, and by today would be free. It's not even got off the ground. I left home full of optimism, was out working that evening when a phonecall from home informed me that my beloved father in law's CT scan that day had revealed extensive cancers and he has only a few weeks to live. Since then we have been trying to get things arranged, my husband and children will be travelling back to the UK to be with him, I will be staying here on my own for a few months to mind the house and do my job. I am so sad. Unfortunately I haven't managed a single sober day though most days I have been able to cut back. Obviously we were in no mood for partying on Friday, and I haven't been able to think about my plan, and giving it up, I am really struggling, feeling really bad and that I've let myself down.
I am also really worried, as I don't know how I am going to manage to give up with all this stress, plus being on my own (which I never have been), but I do really want to. I don't want to use it as a crutch, I really want to stop, but I don't know where to find the strength. I feel so darned low now.
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