I'm a weekend warrior/binger and the past weekend was the first one AF in a while. I was out with some new friends having fun but felt it necessary to make up a story about why I wasn't partaking. The little white lie made the situation more comfortable to me, but now I'm wondering what kind of story I'll need to invent next time.
My last 30 day AF was the past January - that seemed easier since it was planned around a time in winter when there was not a lot going on and hibernating came naturally. Now in mid-summer activities abound. I'm very conscious of coming off like a moral dish-rag, spoiling the fun or laying an implied guilt trip on the party when everyone else is having a good time. It's kind of tough to skip the ice-cold beers after a round of golf, and to hang-out with friends or meet new ones when I can't participate in the fun.
So, I guess I have two questions: 1) Is honesty best, or is it better to protect my privacy and avoid the "evil eye" you get when you let on that you can't control? 2) Is it best to drop-out of society for a while and avoid the fun-stuff until I become more comfortable with the AF situation?
Tia for any helpful advice. I'm happy to have found such a great group of people to join in this endless challenge.
Enjoy!
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