Operation October - week one

[sooty]

Operation October - week one

Hi Lil, how you doing? No cross posting - you're losing your touch!
Lav on the subject of language (earlier post to and from Dill) what exactly does go figure mean? Does it mean what do you think of that - or work it out. I'm trying to think of a British expression that would mean the same thing so if you would enlighten me I'd be most grateful :thanks:
See you all tomorrow, off out tonight
Sooty

[choppersmom]

Operation October - week one

Good morning October Friends. Hope everyone is doing great! I am really grateful for this thread, as October is proving challenging for me, and we are only a week in. I am proud to be AF though!!!

Lav, enjoy your grandson. I miss my little guy so much. I do get to see him for Halloween and buy him his costume. I am so excited!

Dill, how are you? Please let us know how the maiden voyage goes. Yes, I am still at my dad's. He has been a God send getting me through my math class. However, I am spending more and more time with my new guy My son is doing really well, and the grandson is well also. Grandson got a raving report at his first dental appointment. All in all, things are really good for me right now. Did your son get all moved? Catch me up on you!!!

Lil, vegging out sounds really nice right now. I cherish those days. How goes the treadmill?

Sooty, I do hope you are feeling better.

LBH, I agree with Lav, the feeling is mutual about being fond of all here.

Hello to Pamina, Peanut, Red, Jackie, and all others that drop in. I apologize if I have forgotten anyone. Have a happy, AF Hump Day!!! :l

[Peanut]

Operation October - week one

Hey gang!
I quick pit-stop in my busy day at work here, just to say hello to everybody! Note - I changed my avatar to a tiny little picture of me running in a red dress. Bet you can hardly make me out!!!! I was wearing fishnet stockings too!!

Managed no wine last night and for the first time, wore the mouth guard which was made for me several months ago. My teeth hurt all the time and I think I clench them in my sleep and grind them during the day, so I finally decided to give the darn thing a try. You know - I woke in the night and was quite comfortable with it AND my teeth are actually feeling better today. Not quite as sore!!! This is very good. My suspisions that I grind or clench during the night must be true! Plus I went and purchased some GABA to try, just to see if it will help me in the relaxation department! Any of you use GABA??? As for the Amoryn - I think it can only be purchased on line, and I may still go for it, but I think I will just wait until I get some AF time under my belt and see how I am feeling.

Interesting, this term "lurgy". Sounds like it would be based on the work Allergy, which would have the snuffly sneezy symptoms.

Hey Red - at 48, I have already had a hell of alot of "senior moments" too - yours was a pretty good one!!

It is evil windy out there today and is supposed to go down to -8C tonight. Yuck. Must get winter jacket out. I got out for a 5mile run last night - thank dog!!! I don't think I would want to do that today!!!!

Later! Have a wonderful wednesday all!!

xoxoxo peanut

[Emmy]

Operation October - week one

Just a quick hello to everyone , I'm dropping by for my daily dose of MWO . God Bless all of you:h Em

[Emmy]

Operation October - week one

Lavande;730365 wrote: Good evening October friends,

Had a good day here, it's 10 pm & I need to call it a day soon
My grandson spent the afternoon with me while his Mom was in class & Dad at work so yes - I'm tired!!

Dill, I have no resentment about not drinking - I really couldn't care less about that, believe it or not! It wasn't good for me & I knew that all along.
My resentment has everything to do with Mr Lav & his lifelong inability - well - to be honest & truthful. His choices, decisions & actions over the past 36 have always been in his best interest, not necessarily mine! I know this probably sounds kind of vague but I can tell you that anyone else would have packed up & left years ago. I chose to stay because I don't believe in breaking vows & promises & I worked too hard making this family. He is a good person but also can be very cold, self-centered. I've felt manipulated over the years.......thus my resentment. I always thought I was doing the right thing - now I wonder...... and I resent that too, especially at this age! Are you sorry you asked or what, ha ha!! I made my choice to stick around all these years, now I need to find better ways to deal with my feelings. When my healthier coping mechanisms were no longer effective I turned to a bottle of wine - well, I can't do that anymore! That's why I am trying to practice Gratitude & trying to forget what I feel I've missed out on. OK, that's enough about me.......
Dill, I'm glad your evening went smoother than you had anticipated.

Greetings to LBH, Sooty, Chops, Lil and Cyntree too

Have a great evening everyone!
Lav

Lav.. I think we're married to the same man , i could of written the exact post , I'm even from PA .and we're married 36 yrs scary :l:l Em

[Pamina]

Operation October - week one

Thanks guys. :l I got thru the day ok and even had a nice dinner with new people at work. But you're right, Dill, the grief is just on the edge of the conscious mind. Its time will come soon.
Peanut, I have to get a magnifying glass for I WILL take a peek at your red dress!
LBH, I loved your Paris description. It's another favourite city. My dad spent a lot of time there and instilled a francophilia in me. Let me know when you're coming over!
Hope the under the weather crowd are feeling better today. I've got to crash. Speak later.

[ladybirdheart]

Operation October - week one

Welcome Emmy, you will find that Lav understands all sorts of things, glad you are here. Hey Pea, there you are in your little red dress! We too do all sorts of funny events for charity and/or awareness. We have one where the men run in heels. Hi Chops, a new man and a math class, I feel younger just being on the same thread with you. Sooty, thank you for the new words, learn a new word, have a new thought I always say. Thanks also for the Olbas, Amazon has it and I am including it in an order I am putting together. Cyn, the sleep medicine I ordered from the Amoryn folks is called Mellodyn; nothing has been delivered yet but I also ordered the third product that they make as well, Seredyn developed for acute anxiety. Our chemistry is so individual, I thought I would see which might weave its way best with mine. I hope you are all having a great day and in your case, Pam, have a sweet and healing sleep. Thank you for being here and staying with us Red, Finding, and Cyn, it is treat to get to know you. Hello dear Lav, Dill, JC, and Lil. I am off now to do some creative packing. My mother instilled in me at an early age that any woman worth her salt must be able to pack for three days or three months in a single small suitcase (she would have loved the carry on rules). This nearly killed me as a teenager but whether due to genetics or her training/intimidation I am a packing genius. This trip is a bit of challenge as there are two formal city events and also hiking in the woods! ?No problem? Ladybird said while stuffing sparkly dresses and pearls into her boots. Much safer to do this sober. Love, Ladybird.

[dill]

Operation October - week one

Miss Sooty, you are a fount of good information! I had to look up Covonia, too. Sounds like a regular cough mixture like we would find here under a different name.
Covonia - For coughs, sore throats, colds and flu - FAQ's - Mentholated Cough Mixture

We haven’t actually had a real maiden voyage for the new boat yet. I guess I exaggerated. Today was sort of a maiden voyage, as it was Mr. Dill and son’s first time out to see what the mechanic had to say about the boat and engine. He did give a good review though!

Lil, thanks for the comments about cravings. I think I agree…in the beginning they are physical. But after a few days, they are more the emotional/habit. I guess the physical is easier to defeat than the emotional/habit, eh?

Chops, I am so happy your Dad has been able to be there for you. I know I would hope to do the same for my kids. And, I guess I have! My son and his wife stayed here with us for a month until they could get themselves settled in a rental nearby. My son is working two jobs right now and will be starting school under the GI bill in the winter. My grandson has started preschool and loves it. You have a “new guy”? Good for you!

Peanut, I wish that pic was bigger, but, I got my magnifying glass out and checked it out. HILARIOUS! I have tried GABA and it was very good. It was very calming, for me.

Hi Emmy! Welcome. Very nice to see you here!

LBH, will you be able to post whilst on your vacation? I am hoping so. Here’s why:

“No problem” Ladybird said while stuffing sparkly dresses and pearls into her boots. Much safer to do this sober.

You have the best way with words!

PS to all: I never use the word "whilst" in my 3D life. I think I have picked it up from our UK friends.

[Lavande]

Operation October - week one

Good evening friends,

This is one tired but happy Lav
OMG, how can 1 little boy wear a person out like that????? Maybe 6 hrs on babysitting duty is pushing my limit, ha ha, it is fun though!

Sooty, the term 'go figure' is one of those figurative language things...... it means the same as 'it figures'. Actually, I don't know how else to define that phrase.........

Lil, we must be out of sync, no cross posting today!

Chops, math class? Ugh, never my favorite! The grandbaby is wonderful, tiring but wonderful

Pnut, I think I see the red dress in your tiny pic! We have major wind here today too!

Emmy, twin husbands? God help us all

Pam, glad you are ok.....all good things in time, huh?

LBH, you can do my packing anytime! I always try to pack light - but.....

Dill, glad to hear the boat passed it's first test

Time to call it a day!
Have a great night everyone.
Lav

[cyntree]

Operation October - week one

Good night, friends. After a big, heavy (physical) work day, pressed for time, running like crazy to an evening event, feeling 'Hungry, Angry, and Tired'; the thought of checking in with you all and being able to say 'I made it past 6:00 AF" was the one thing that kept me from going off again. You know - 'it's only day 3, you can start again tomorrow, you're so tired, you deserve it....blah blah blah'. But at least I heard that it was only the Cravy Voices, and so I made it! Thanks to you all - hope you have well-deserved rest and a wonderful day tomorrow. You're the best!

[Pamina]

Operation October - week one

Well done, Cyn! There's no point listening to the Cravy Voices, they have their own agenda. The longer you ignore them, the weaker they get. Today is day 4 - halfway through the first week. By next week you'll be into double digits and the voices will be fading. Just hang in there!
I'm also packing, though no pearls are going into my boots... alas. I have to nip back to sign the probate paperwork next Monday. I'm very nervous about meeting the manager of my sister's finances lest he insist on a speedy division of the estate. That would mean a lot of disruption to my London routines in the next few months as well as sole responsibility for the expenses of my dad's house (and a mortgage). It's a project I'd prefer to defer til next summer and have a breather before planning. We'll see.
It's a lovely sunny day again in London - sending rays to all your corners of the world, have a great Thursday!

[Lavande]

Operation October - week one

Good morning October friends,

Cyn, so glad to hear you are resisting those 'crazy voices'. I always think of them as the junkie that lives somewhere deep down inside & attempts to rear it's ugly head from time to time Just keep ignoring them, they will go away!

Pam, I certainly hope you are able to postpone any major changes to your routine. You really do need a bit of time to catch your breath! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you

I have nothing big planned for the day. I see the sun coming out so I think I'll find something to do outside
Have a great day one & all!
Lav

[dill]

Operation October - week one

I'm getting a late check in today. I got up early but had some work that needed to be done and I needed my computer to do it. It took up my whole morning!

Anyway, I am just jumping on here on my lunch hour for a quick check in. It's a stolen bit of 'quiet time' for me. Very much needed, as my stress levels seem kind of high today. (deep breath)

I hope all are doing well. I am going to get up from this computer and go for a walk. That will help.

Later!

[one2many]

Operation October - week one

Hi guys...

Just checking in to say hello and to compliment you all on a bloody good thread!!
Great that such a big group are there for each other!! Nice one !xx

[sooty]

Operation October - week one

Hello gang and Oney lovely to see you - do call in and visit anytime - you are right we are a big bunch and we're lovely as well.
I had a good day today, feeling so much better (except for sore red nose) and got out in the autumn sunshine for a walk on the cliffs .... oh there are times when I wish I was a poet .... but it was stunning.
Hope everyone is having a pleasant day. Catch you all later
Sooty