November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

[redhibiscus]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Hey all,
Lilmean, sorry the weather is getting to you. Take care of yourself, you deserve it.

MM, It is very emotional to give up alcohol, you are going through the grieving process. If you feel like cryng, cry. You are going through a loss and it will bring up all kinds of feelings. Anger, depression, confusion, you name it.

Finding myself, thanks for the encouragement regarding work. My boss came to me today to address some of my concerns. He is a nice guy, but not very effective with change.

Lodestar, you crack me up. All your lovely AF drinks. What an great idea. And I love your potty mouth. Alcohol is obcene so fighting back with obcenities makes sense. I don't really feel that bitch is that bad of a word. I have been known to have a foul mouth at times myself. Whatever it takes.

Lavande, your attitude is an inspiration to all of us. Thanks.

[lilmea]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Warning, Warning, Will Robinson (who remembers the name of that show?? It had that robot with the arms waving around and around)...anyway, marathon post alert

Yep loved Lost in Space as well. Had a big crush on the guy who played the father. He was also a cousin to the Cartwright's on Bonanza. How old does that make me!! :egad:

SD-I've been meaning to ask, are you still lovin the new house? Everything unpacked and organized?

Dill-My Midwest neighbor. Are we considered the Midwest? I know both our states sure have a lot of corn. How is your day going? Getting geared up for the week end?

Lav-I've had a busy day myself. You right the arthritis OTC seem to help some. I also use those icy/hot sticky patch thingys when it's real bad. They help too.

MM-Had those weepy days too. Just all those nasty toxins leaving your body and mind. My first week end af, I had about as many days as you do. I can remember on the Sunday afternoon, stomping my feet and having a regular temper tantrum just like a 2 year old. Then I ate some ding dongs. So now you have Lav-a-tude, swearing like a sailor and 2 year old temper tantrums. Plus lots of support.

Lodster-The sun was out today for the first time in a long time. So I did get my walk in this afternoon. What is 'hooping'? Were you playing basketball?

Finding-My HB is actually starting to be impressed by my weather forecasting abilities. So you are also 3 hrs behind me as well (EST) I just thought you were a night owl!

Sooty-Our friend across the ocean. You are probably ready to rap things up and call it a night. Another day "done and dusted"

I have volunteered to drive for Meals on Wheels. Today was my second time and first time alone. I didn't get lost. And all the food worked out right, nothing short or left over! They only have you drive 1 day a week. So I've volunteered to be a sub driver as well and am looking into some other things to do this winter. Busy hands and all that.

[lilmea]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Red-cross post!! How was your day?? Good I hope.

[mighty mouse]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Lavitude, swearing like a sailor , 2year old temper tantrums and support...what else could a girl ask for!!!

Thanks Lil, feeling positive, MM

[lodestar]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

EHL-OH-EHL! Temper tantrums, feet stomping and ding dongs -- I LOVE it! Lil, that is just a great image...whatever you look like :H Oh, and "hooping" is hula hooping. I couldn't play basketball if my life depended on it.

Red, glad you're on board with the obscenities. This is much less obscene than getting hammered and doing whatever it is we all did, I agree. (Truth be told, I've got a lot worse than "bitch" in my arsenal )

MM -- you're sounding strong! You go girl. Can't wait to hear how your weekend is turning out when you have time to pop in.

I'll be off to Shirley Temple & vampire fantasy world soon. Will check in later, but many will be sleeping by that time...sooooo sweet dreams to you all. Don't forget to notice how great your covers feel when you slip in bed tonight AF!

:l

[mighty mouse]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Hi Lodestar, Hope you enjoy the new vamp movie. Having a nice night AF. Not as bad as I thought. Got out of the house a little earlier and now tv and MWO and mineral water!
Looking forward to morning and sat AF.

night to all and thanks, MM

[Lavande]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

November Navigators OR Weekend Warriors?????????????

You guys are cracking me up
By all means - use all the tools you need to get through the weekend unscathed!!
The Lavan-itude is free for the taking - use all you want! It took me a lifetime to develop my 'tude', it's a true self defense mechanism. I'm actually never agressive but I will defend myself & anyone else who needs defending...........I guess I'm a real Under Dog

Wishing everyone a fun, relaxing AF weekend!
Unfortunately I'm dog sitting the 'Insanity Twins' this weekend (my son's 2 retarded golden retrievers).
Pray for me

Lav

[mighty mouse]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Hi Lav, Thought I'd check in one more time before bed...Have fun with those dogs. Thats pretty nice of you to do that.. Are they really retarded? Stupid question probably but are they? I have no pets because of allergies, wish I could.

night again, MM

[Lavande]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

MM,

I know it's not nice to refer to someone or something as retarded...........but honestly these dogs are!
I say this because I have raised 2 goldens myself & they were nothing like this, honestly
I think the breeders aren't paying close enough attention to blood lines these days..........

Hope I didn't offend anyone - I do love all dogs!

[lodestar]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Hey one & all!

Back from the vamp movie and let me just say...some bad acting in that one, for sure, but fun nonetheless. People were hooting and hollering in the theatre at the action and the laughing at the bad acting. Glad I read the books first.

MM - Wonderful work, you! Glad it wasn't too bad for ya. Tomorrow morning will be pretty great (and it is almost morning for you now, I'll bet...couple more hours)...AND, since you made it through Friday night, might as well do Saturday night as well proving your ass-kicking power right on through that fear. GREAT JOB! CONGRATS on Friday!!

Lav - I've heard "weekend warriors" referred to in another way (as in drinking on the weekends), but love your reframe! YES! Hope you didn't have too much trouble with the doggies.

So, tonight I ordered my mocktails and my friends had 3-4 drinks each at dinner. I met someone new and was slightly embarrassed for my second shirley temple order when we got a round, but hey, that's the way I roll. On my second one, she said "I think it's really cool that you're ordering shirley temples...I love those." Yay!

We walked to the movie and no one seemed buzzed to me...certainly not like I would have gotten. I realized part way through the show that, had I been drinking, I would have likely not gone out at all and just stayed home with my drinks and also, if I went out and had drinks, I wouldn't likely have wanted to stop to leave for the show. Food for thought. As it stands, I had a great time and will remember it for a long time to come. Right now, I can't think of a situation where drinking would add something to an evening out, in or otherwise...and I CANNOT BELIEVE I'M SAYING THAT. Truly. Alcohol was routine for so long. Taking this time has been a real eye-opener for me.

Sorry for rambling on (again), but it seems important to document this for myself and share it with all of you. Wonder where this journey is leading me...

BTW, turns out the friend of a friend at dinner quit smoking about 3 months ago using the Easy Way to Quit Smoking book. She said she'll give me her copy. Anyone know of it? I'm not gonna try it right now, but I thought I'd give the book a read. Never know!

Hoping all are safe and blissfully in dreamland. I'm off to do that myself!

[redhibiscus]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Good Early Morning,
MM, I am so happy for you. It is great to get AF Fridays and the accompanying not hungover Saturdays. I noticed that although you said you did not have a plan, you made sure to get out of the house, mineral water, TV, and MWO. You kept busy and distracted yourself. Good job. :goodjob:

I also have to make sure to keep busy and watch out for my triggers, hungry, angry, lonely, tired, and the witching hours of 4-7 p.m. Last Saturday I spent the day at home, became really lonely and BAM, drank. So, today I will make sure to post if I feel the need and ask for support. It is day 7 for me and I will be AF today.

Last night was so much fun, It was warm out, high 40s, and there were crowds of people for this small town. I sampled all kinds of holiday foods and had apple cider and peppermint cappacino. My stomach kind of hurt after the third cookie, but it was worth it. Lots of Christmas trees to look at....so beautiful and fun. Bought a mix for pumpkin spice mix to flavor cream cheese to put on bagels for Thanksgiving morning. Something different. Otherwise, I have so much Christmas stuff...but it is fun to look.:h:h

[redhibiscus]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Lodestar,
Just wanted to comment on your AF social evening. Sound like you had a much better time AF without the obsession of thinking of more alcohol. I can really relate. It is like once you have that first drink, your mind starts thinking of the next one. Then the only thing important is to keep feeding your body more alcohol. We have missed out on so much throughout the years. :upset:I am so happy you will remember your evening with friends and the movie. You did not ramble and helped me to realize how great my AF evening was also.:thanks:

I too like Shirley Temples but was thinking that it might be fun to find more types of AF drinks. I will go online today and see what I can find. Anyone's imput will be greatly appreciated.

[dill]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Hello, Navies,

I love reading these posts! Mine will be short this morning though. I have much to do with company on the way, beds to make, rooms to clean, food to buy and to prepare....

My brother (who does not drink) will be here today along with his wife and 4 kids. I am really looking forward to this visit. We don't live close, so visits are rare, and often limited to weddings and funerals. They are making a holiday trip to see his wife's family as well as some of his. Well, AL will not be an issue, so that is good.

Tomorrow is the start of week 4. I hope one of you will get it started as I may be either too busy, or sleeping!

[lilmea]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Goooood Saturday Morning/Afternoon/Evening Mates!

You know how I love music 'therapy' So I found us a power song to help us through the week end. Oh yes, and ding dongs all around.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmExAiCcaPk[/video]]YouTube - Helen Reddy I Am Woman LIVE Midnight Special 1975

This is an old 70's song for the womens movement but I think it suits us all just as well.

Have a great af Saturday everyone.

[lilmea]

November Navigators ~ AF -Week 3

Dill-cross post. Have a great visit with your brother!! We will miss you but you will be in our thouths! :l