I'm just after some advice regarding how or if to tell my friends about my issues with AL and/or depression.. The friends I have now did not know me when I was suicidal and depressed.. as that is quite far behind me now, though my issues with AL are still, I guess concurrent, even though I have improved a great deal.
I told one of my friends recently about my issues with AL and my DUI - I have not heard from this friend since.. she was ok about my depression and suicidal attempts of the past, so I thought she would be ok when I told her about my AL issues.. obviously not.. I thought as I am getting help, and am now older and not depressed, that friends would be able to understand and not judge.. but I was wrong! I just don't know what to do about my other friends.. as my issues with depression, AL and DUI's etc are a huge part of my history, I feel like I am living a lie and not being the true person I am with these friends - so do I go on living a lie, pretending I am "normal" like them or do I tell them about my past, but risk losing the very few friends I have.. any advice will be gratefully welcomed.. thank you!
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