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hi all, incuding missed post girl
sk8 i think oneys post was bang on in response to your question. it's right that when we see a little of the person inside we find attraction. i would never have been attracted to my hubby until we got chatting one night and i discovered he made me laugh and is really clever, we just clicked.
someone can be beautiful on the outside and ugly as sin on the inside, so its the personality that counts. funny when you notice someone has a great personality, they appear more attractive on the outside all of a sudden. does that make sense?
also, i think when we are like we are, with no self confidence, we kind of give off this vibe that says STAY AWAY! like a defense barrier. fancy yourself a little more, lift your chin, the chicks who love your look and your personality will come flocking, whether you like it or not!:lThe mind will intellectualize it, the heart will emotionalize it, yet the gut never lies.
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Hey Girly I know what you mean about people being more attractive once you know them. I've seen it the other way as well. Someone I once concidered beautiful now isn't so much since I know them. Yeah my self esteem is coming up a bit. I'm trying to hold my head high cause I'm proud of who I am.
Today I'm getting very odd looks from people. All I have on is jeans, duane peters sneakers, a weird grren strip button down and m blue glasses. Here I was thinking I looked normal. LOL. I've learned that people stare cause sometimes they envy the freedom you seem to represent. I'm used to it. Like I said I still get a kick out of it.
Ok here's another question what is it you ladies looked for in a guy?Sober since 4/8/10 -OVER 150 DAYS AND GOING AF!!!!
Get busy livin or get busy dyin-Duane Peters
No more bad future-Skull Skates
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Ok for me...
Hairy Chest..canot help it, go weak at the knees.
Dark eyes
Well built...
Someone who can make me laugh
Someone I can chat to for hours and hours about any subject under the sun
Someone who I can be silent with and not feel awkward..
Someone who I can dance and be stupid with..
Someone I can have a good arguement with
Someone who can be tough and tender
I think i will be a long time looking for someone like that...lol"It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"
AF 10th May 2010
NF 12th May 2010
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Yeah that's exactly what I meant. That's what I'm looking for too well except for the hairy chest LOL. And eye color doesn't matter to me.
Funny story. My eyes are very dark brown. Almost black. Back in grade school we were doing that experiment to watch peoples pupils change in different light. Well the girl that got teamed up with me just kept looking and finally yelled out. Teacher he doesn't have any pupils. Now this was 2nd or 3rd grade. And so began my wonderful track record with girls.....Sober since 4/8/10 -OVER 150 DAYS AND GOING AF!!!!
Get busy livin or get busy dyin-Duane Peters
No more bad future-Skull Skates
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sk8punk;899794 wrote: Yeah that's exactly what I meant. That's what I'm looking for too well except for the hairy chest LOL. And eye color doesn't matter to me.
Funny story. My eyes are very dark brown. Almost black. Back in grade school we were doing that experiment to watch peoples pupils change in different light. Well the girl that got teamed up with me just kept looking and finally yelled out. Teacher he doesn't have any pupils. Now this was 2nd or 3rd grade. And so began my wonderful track record with girls....."It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"
AF 10th May 2010
NF 12th May 2010
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someone who has the same daft sense of humour as me.
someone i can spout my girly rubbish to. (he just laughs!)
i like a man with a bit of a belly and working mans shoulders.
someone who can fix things.
someone who tells me i'm wrong when i'm wrong and keeps me on my toes.
someone who likes to cop a cheeky feel to make me feel sexy.
someone to take care of me and is proud to call me his wife.
a good dad.
someone who can make mistakes as much as the next person.
i like that my hubby wears glasses, they make him look sexy.
someone with intelligence and has his own mind.
a person with decent moral values and deserves respect.
someone who has the patience of a saint to put up with my ass.
my hubby, in my eyes = all of the above:h:hThe mind will intellectualize it, the heart will emotionalize it, yet the gut never lies.
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Um the one with the tea pot.....no I'm kidding now that's a look I still like. I would comment more but I'm not sure of your age there.LOL. if I was in that class I would've had a secret crush on you. Although I tend to talk to people once I'm in a situation like that. Where we differ in that pic is I would've been in the back somewhere and probably making a obscene gesture.Sober since 4/8/10 -OVER 150 DAYS AND GOING AF!!!!
Get busy livin or get busy dyin-Duane Peters
No more bad future-Skull Skates
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