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[mario]

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My honest thinking is that people who really want a partner will never be single for long... I am still single but that's because I believe I need a bit of time to myself...____hidden gem______________


That be my thinking on it as well,take your time we are out there :-) :-)

[Flip Top]

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mario;876972 wrote: My honest thinking is that people who really want a partner will never be single for long... I am still single but that's because I believe I need a bit of time to myself...____hidden gem______________


That be my thinking on it as well,take your time we are out there :-) :-)

Soul Searching is what you call that I think....

The thing is with me I know what is best for me and what I want but I dont try harder enough to get it and get aggravated and start beating myself up...

[K9Lover]

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Thanks Flip
Yes I agree that those looking for a partner are never single for too long. I guess I haven't "actively" been looking much. I also admit that I never venture too far out, no new places. I guess I'm going to need to put myself out there when I feel the time is right. And here I thought I could just sit at home and Mr. Right would knock on my front door. LOL

K9

[Chillgirl]

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I have been single by choice for 2 years now and Im now prepared to consider dating but he will have to pretty damn perfect :H

[Flip Top]

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K9Lover;876984 wrote: Thanks Flip
Yes I agree that those looking for a partner are never single for too long. I guess I haven't "actively" been looking much. I also admit that I never venture too far out, no new places. I guess I'm going to need to put myself out there when I feel the time is right. And here I thought I could just sit at home and Mr. Right would knock on my front door. LOL

K9

My GF that I have been with for 6 years and I have put through hell, ended up moving in as a house mate. She did actually see how much I drank when we first started going out, I just never really grew up.

[mario]

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I am also now back in a relationship with my former partner who has supported and helped me even after all I put her through. We are taking it slow as this is my first relationship in my life where I am not drinking


This is part of my story, I posted this in july 09 and since then our realtionship has got more open & stronger with each other,but it takes time to build & get back the trust.

[OverIt2007]

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I have been pretty actively looking for a boyfriend for a pretty long time, but I do go in phases with it. I have actively internet dated, but I have theories as to why internet dating NEVER works. Its a theory of mine that perhaps I will share sometime.

Internet dating is really my only option, as I am a busy working fulltime single Mom. Its not like I would get a babysitter to go try to find guys! I have to already have made a date to arrange for a babysitter, that is how the internet dating comes in handy.


Dating is not really as fun as I thought it would be, and with internet dating, its a good surprise or a miserable surprise when you meet that person face to face! Last date was a REAL hottie though!!!

[wannachange]

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Just fresh out of a marriage here myself, had a rebound since but that did not go very well obviously... not looking, not wanting anyone ms right or not for a long long time to come, gonna take a few years to get back on the right and proper and then maybe then I will put the thumb out.

If girls here are looking for advice on meeting mr right I will give one little word of advice, take your time, slow slow as imaginably possible, get to know the guy very very well first before committing to anything and as for dates, it does not have to be a restaurant, I feel I can never talk and be myself with other people 2 baby steps away from us, take a walk along the beach or something.

That's all from wannabeagirl's corner for today.

[Chillgirl]

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ok... i might have a date but Im scared already....
He said it would be nice to go out for dinner have some fish and share good bottle of wine!!!!
What the hell do I say? Why do I not drink? Should I tell him before we go out? Shit!
What if Im tempted to drink just to look normal? Maybe Im not ready for dating afterall :upset:

[Rusty]

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Chill,

Just say you don't drink anymore....you did for a few years but just say it wasn't fun anymore. If it bothers you that he drinks, tell him. If it doesn't, then say so.

[Chillgirl]

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Thanks Rusty - Im sure it will be fine when it actually happens if it does, I just panic at the thought of being with someone new as he reaches for the wine list and I have to say I dont drink!

[Guitarista]

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Chilly, any decent guy won't worry whether you drink or not. He'll be experiencing the real you, and won't that be exciting for both of you?!

Best wishes, G.

[Chillgirl]

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Thanks Guitarista - you are absolutely right and I need to hold that thought!

[Rusty]

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Chill,

G. is right. If he's decent, he won't care....if he does, RUN THE OTHER WAY. YOU DON'T WANT HIM. You deserve much better....we all know that :-)

[OverIt2007]

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Oh ABSOLUTLY, If he is a Good Guy, he will not care if you do not drink.


I think the loser guys want the girls to drink, so they get drunk, so the guy can maybe screw them!!!

True guys???