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    #46
    Tell us a little bit about yourself..

    I don't post here often, but this is a wonderful idea and thread. It's a wonderful thing to know as much about each other as one feels comfortable to share. It makes things more real.
    I found this lifesaving site 2 years ago. I'm a 58 y/o wife, mother of 2 adult children, and 7 grandchildren. I have always been lucky in my life that things came easily, but I'm thinking these days maybe a bit more struggle would have made me stronger. It took me a long time to realize my looks were getting me further than my qualifications. (No brag, just fact) I married my highschool sweetheart in 1970, and we're still together.
    My life has been one part The Waltons, 1 part floundering, trying to find my real place. I didn't start drinking in earnest until my mid, late 30's. After that began, and we do have a strong history of AL in my family, my family life was rife with struggles, relating to AL, finances, maintaining the facade bred into me by the accepted norm of the good, Southern baptist wife and mother.
    My parents died young (68 & 69), and my life took a nosedive. I had 2 DUI arrests, and a stay in rehab. It helped, but I was soon back to my old behavior. It was only when I found MWO, and for the first time had people who understood, really supported, helped, that I began to pull out of my descent. Without this place, I don't know where I'd be. I'd lost the respect of my family, and less important, the respect of my community.
    My grandchildren are at all different stages in their lives, from 4 to 16. They've always turned to me when they really need support. I let them down for a long time in their early life, and now regret that more than any thing else. We've rebuilt our relationship, and I'm again the rock in their lives (also the circus coming to town!! :H).
    Sorry I talked too much about me, but, after all, I've lived longer!!
    It's so good to see all the new names (to me) and have everyone participating here. Life is good now, for the most part, but extremely crazy and stressful sometimes. I welcome retirement, and rest, soon. All of you, keep posting, even if you mess up. I'm proof you CAN teach an old dog new tricks.
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      #47
      Tell us a little bit about yourself..

      Hi Ruby,

      It's great to know more about you. What a beautiful family you have! Your grandchildren are lucky to have a wonderful grandmother like you.

      I am sending you a PM, too.

      xoxox

      Rusty

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        #48
        Tell us a little bit about yourself..

        Hi!
        I am 37 years old, I have one beautiful 12 year old daughter who is the love of my life :h
        I am the Office Manager for the Parks & Recreation Department in my City
        I love cooking, working out, reading and ALL animals (I feel like I'm writing a personals ad...LOL)
        I am single, and have been for 4+ years, and I'm OK with it!!
        I have 99 days sober!!!
        :heart:I love my daughter more than alcohol:heart:

        Believe in yourself. You are stronger than you think.

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          #49
          Tell us a little bit about yourself..

          Oh Goody! I get to follow my favorite girl K-9!

          Im 42, but dont feel or hopefully look like it, Im a single Mom to a 6 year old little boy, a Boston Terrier named Milo, and a cat named Misha.

          I live in Clearwater, Florida very close to the beach! I love this area very much, but miss my dear family who all live in Michigan. I feel blessed that I have a very loving family, we all get along great.

          I dont really care for my job, but it pays my bills somewhat, so I am grateful for that at least.

          I would love to go back to school to do something else. Perhaps now that I am sober, the sky can be the limit for me reaching some new goals.
          I LOVE MY SEROTONIN AND BOOZE SCREWS IT UP!!!!!

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            #50
            Tell us a little bit about yourself..

            Personal ad hahaha. I like long walks on the beach.... I never could do that. Just me I believe in seeing the person before agreeing to a date. Am I the only single person here who hates being single?
            Sober since 4/8/10 -OVER 150 DAYS AND GOING AF!!!!

            Get busy livin or get busy dyin-Duane Peters
            No more bad future-Skull Skates

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              #51
              Tell us a little bit about yourself..

              Great idea Katie! Thank you all for sharing. Hippie I think your post is bang on! I have been called "an enigma wrapped up in an anomaly". I will put that forward for now.

              Meaning:
              A puzzle - difficult to solve.
              Origin:
              A form of Winston Churchill's quotation, made in a radio broadcast in October 1939:
              "I cannot forecast to you the action of Russia. It is a riddle, wrapped in a mystery, inside an enigma; but perhaps there is a key. That key is Russian national interest."

              I am 50. Divorced. In my reproductive years I practiced serial monogamy. I have 3 estranged children who were alienated from me 10 years ago by their father because I needed to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship/marriage of 17 years.

              I have had my own natural health store business for 15 years, which is struggling under the pressure of multiple factors.
              I am a life long learner who some days enjoys life to the max, some days quietly reflects and some days just says FTW.

              That's all for now. Oh and I will post my pic again for a couple of days. I really do like having a face matched up with words.

              Start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible and suddenly you are doing the impossible.


              St. Francis of Assisi

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                #52
                Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                I am a 46 y/o male. I’m separated from my wife. I have a 14 y/o daughter. I live in Connecticut and work in Manhattan. Currently, I work for a very large technology company. I manage their IT mergers and acquisition department, both domestic and international business.

                I suffer from PTSD and abused alcohol for years as a way to self medicate. In treatment now I have found my stride. I am alcohol free 55 days, and my meds are finally working. The dark cloud has lifted for now, and I realize that it’s within me to keep it so. I have been blessed by the support, advice, and friendships that this program has afforded me.

                The positive changes I see already are many. One in particular is that I’m training to compete in triathlons again. My last was 5430 long course in Boulder, CO in August ’01. I do feel the 10 years and the alcohol damage, but I’m coming back. I will be competing in the Nautica in Malibu, CA on September 11th. Will try and get some video footage to share with you all. With luck you won’t see paramedics jumping up and down on my chest.

                Of most importance to me is my relationship with my daughter. It has been strained enormously. While my addiction has played a major role in her behavior toward me, there are other factors in the mix. My wife has repeatedly denigrated me in front of my daughter. This occurred while visiting friends, family, and in our own home when issues could have easily been tabled. I am seeking help with this issue.

                I also like movies, cuddling, and long walks on the beach
                Outside of a dog a book is mans best friend. Inside of a dog its too dark to read

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                  #53
                  Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                  Techie..that is awesome...keep us posted on your progress and no paramedics PLEASE!!!
                  I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                  Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                    #54
                    Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                    OMG! I do know you, Flip Top!!!

                    Just kidding.

                    I am a 38 year old mother to two girls. Alison who is 16 and Hailey who is 5.
                    I have always been in the 'business' field until a year ago when i decided my passion is health care. I work at the hospital, in my city. I am a nursing assistant.

                    I wanted to become a nurse. But I can't deal with they dying very well to be honest. So I just started schooling to become a social worker. I want to help people either with addictions or youth and children.

                    I have been more sober than not the last two years. I have had about 5 binges (my binge never lasts more than three or four days - not getting totally drunk either).(which is great for this hardcore - use to drink a bottle of vodka daily! except when I was preggers).

                    My goal is to become completely abstinent.

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                      #55
                      Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                      Accountable for Me;907236 wrote: OMG! I do know you, Flip Top!!!

                      Just kidding.

                      I am a 38 year old mother to two girls. Alison who is 16 and Hailey who is 5.
                      I have always been in the 'business' field until a year ago when i decided my passion is health care. I work at the hospital, in my city. I am a nursing assistant.

                      I wanted to become a nurse. But I can't deal with they dying very well to be honest. So I just started schooling to become a social worker. I want to help people either with addictions or youth and children.

                      I have been more sober than not the last two years. I have had about 5 binges (my binge never lasts more than three or four days - not getting totally drunk either).(which is great for this hardcore - use to drink a bottle of vodka daily! except when I was preggers).

                      My goal is to become completely abstinent.
                      You might have seen me if you were in Milton Ontario a few weeks back :H
                      Don't Let The Bastards Grind You Down - Eat Them Alive

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                        #56
                        Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                        Techie

                        That's ace - I should have entered triathalons when I was in my early 20s when I was a competitive athlete but I just didn't have the confidence.

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                          #57
                          Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                          Ukblonde;907265 wrote: Techie

                          That's ace - I should have entered triathalons when I was in my early 20s when I was a competitive athlete but I just didn't have the confidence.
                          It's never too late UK!
                          Outside of a dog a book is mans best friend. Inside of a dog its too dark to read

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                            #58
                            Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                            will the real alcoholics please stand up....

                            yeah iam 26.... single....ive been drinking since i was 18....now i cut down my whiskey intake n started going to the gym to feel better...hope it will work....by the way i was listening to eminem recently(iam not a rap person though) this song called "not afraid" was so good n positive...this album "recovery" he made after he went through a destructive phase for 5 years with drug n alcohol addiction....almost few hours away from death....he turned around....so does not matter what age or what taste u have try this song even the album its good...nothing much to share about me so i thought of sharing what i feel right now....

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                              #59
                              Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                              Love this thread?..
                              I?m a 51 year old woman?.married 32 years. Husband is disabled due to a brain hemorrhage about 12 years ago and also neck/back pain. I?ve worked in the same company for 32 years ? Office Manager/IT Manager/Personnel Manager/Anything that needs to be done Manager. :H
                              We have a wonderful 23 year old son.
                              "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
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                              AF - 7-27-15

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                                #60
                                Tell us a little bit about yourself..

                                Ringing Cedars;907177 wrote:

                                That's all for now. Oh and I will post my pic again for a couple of days. I really do like having a face matched up with words.Day8July12010041.jpg picture by nananeubie - Photobucket
                                Thanks ....... Its lovely to put a face to a name ........... xxx
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