An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

[sk8punk]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

I do love the responses here! I agree with them all. Also makes me think about my own situation. Though not the same but similar. While I've done everything to open communication I've been met with nothing but silence. Sometimes silence can be as cutting as hurtful words. Do like we all said and move on. Believe in yourself and know that you do deserve better. Personally I wouldn't seek out acts of vengence but that's just me.

[Lavande]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

Jewels,

I'm sorry you have to deal with such a loser!!!!

Do yourself a huge favor, take a look at this: Building Self Esteem

There are tons of self-help books out there & lots of info on the internet on building your self esteem.
You should never accept abuse from another like that!

Be kind to yourself

[Rusty]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

Jewels,

I agree with Lav, and I checked on that link she sent you....it's wonderful!

Over, you're a wonderful goofball, talking about his p*ckage. heh, hef. But...you're probably right. Napoleonic syndrome going on here, probably

[clare]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

Jewels i know its very hard but who needs to have someone like that around them,There have been some good advice posted above,its time to move on and get a good life for yourself, your worth it.stay close to the boards here there great. x

[Pride before Fall]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

I don't condone vengeance either, Sk8, but in this case, the occasional fantasy of such could be medicinal! : ) Congratulations on 100 AF days!

[sk8punk]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

Hahaha I know all about that type of revenge and yes it can help.

[clare]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

Jewals your better than all that revenge crap, your priority is to look after yourself and move on away from him, that will kill him more than any man hating stuff, which in my opinion would only play in to the likes of him.

[one2many]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

What a complete and utter small packaged, ignorant, sad little wankstain.

Anyone who spews forth such verbal diarrhea is seriously not happy with himself....add the fact of him being the owner of an incredibly small penis does not help matters..

Move on...leave dickweed in the dirt, he has no respect for you and even less for himself as a man to write such a disgusting mail.


Sad, little poxfecker......he aint good enough to lick yer boots.

[clare]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

one2many;916243 wrote: What a complete and utter small packaged, ignorant, sad little wankstain.

Anyone who spews forth such verbal diarrhea is seriously not happy with himself....add the fact of him being the owner of an incredibly small penis does not help matters..

Move on...leave dickweed in the dirt, he has no respect for you and even less for himself as a man to write such a disgusting mail.


Sad, little poxfecker......he aint good enough to lick yer boots.

:H Well said one2many thats it in good old Irish for ya

[Ringing Cedars]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

I wholeheartedly agree with everyone that this poor excuse for a human bean should be left at the curb and not picked up ever again.

I will guess he has taken some of what are your personal insecurities and beat you with them instead of helping you over them like a good partner would do.

If this has been going on for awhile, you may be experiencing what is known as trauma bonding which can make it incredibly hard to remove yourself from. I hope that is not the case, but I get a feeling there may be a bit of this going on between you. There is a good book called The Betrayal Bond that I highly recommend if this is in fact the case.

Look after yourself and prove to yourself and this wanker that you deserve much better than that.:l

[OverIt2007]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

LOL!!!! ONE2MANY!!! Kudos to that response!!!!

[sk8punk]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

Me and Flip were the only guys to reply to this post. I agree with all you ladies this guy is a douchebag. To use someones problems as a weapon against them is low. I also agree with your assement of this guy. He's a small dicked insecure asshole who gets his rocks off putting people down because its the only way he. Knows how to make himself feel like more of a man. Wouldn't be surprised if he creamed his jeans writing the email then kicked the dog on his way to clean up.
I've dealt with his type in the past while skating. Lovely bunch these types are and unforunatly they are everywhere. And another thing I've noticed is these guys always have girls. Can you all please explain that one to me?

[clare]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

sk8punk;916326 wrote: Me and Flip were the only guys to reply to this post. I agree with all you ladies this guy is a douchebag. To use someones problems as a weapon against them is low. I also agree with your assement of this guy. He's a small dicked insecure asshole who gets his rocks off putting people down because its the only way he. Knows how to make himself feel like more of a man. Wouldn't be surprised if he creamed his jeans writing the email then kicked the dog on his way to clean up.
I've dealt with his type in the past while skating. Lovely bunch these types are and unforunatly they are everywhere. And another thing I've noticed is these guys always have girls. Can you all please explain that one to me?

All of us women are looking for security, love and effection and hopefully mr right(unless your gay)I think jewals suffers from very low esteam and this thing used that to control & weaken her,I am sure there is a lot more to this and its just what i am going on posted here

[sk8punk]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

I would say you're right Clare. I've been in that same situation due to my self esteem being low. I want the same things you want and I would put up with a lot just to be with someone I percieved as giving that to me.

[clare]

An email from my ex (very recent) boyfriend

sk8punk;916334 wrote: I would say you're right Clare. I've been in that same situation due to my self esteem being low. I want the same things you want and I would put up with a lot just to be with someone I percieved as giving that to me.

Thats it sk8punk we are all looking for the same thing and we also have this horrible drinking addiction which does nothing for us, so hopefully this will be a turning point in jewals life,she can do it with the love & support from here.ps well done on your journey so far your doing great:goodjob: