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    Today marks the first day of year four since I found MWO and began to change my life. On July 23, 2007 I found this site during a time when I truly needed it. I just wanted to post this thread for anyone who might be just starting out: perhaps contemplating a 30 day AF goal. I would like to lend my voice to tell you, yes you can do it. Because like many others before me have said: "If I can do it, you sure can."

    And, yes it very well may change the direction of your life. I know it has mine.

    I wont rehash what so many here already know nor do I need to tell anybody the benefits of long term sobriety--we all know that. I just wanted to offer these words especially to those who might be starting out tonight.

    I was truly terrified when I logged on here on July 23, 2007 and wrote my first post. My pulse quickened and I had a case of the nerves as I tried to compose a line. But I wanted very desperately to change the direction of my life, my drinking life. I read about a group trying 30 days AF and I dared to join them (three days late, I think). The prospect of 30 days AF scared the hell out of me: what would I do with that time, how would I have fun? You know the thoughts...you have most likely had them, repeatedly. But 30 days AF can lead to more and the more can become years...let it happen it is worth it.

    So as I begin year 4 AF I am better for having found MWO and grateful for the friends I made here when I really needed it. And, especially for the posts of others who gave me motivation. I always like the analogy of the trail or path. Some of us are further along than others, but we are on all the same trail.

    I follow the example of others I met here and I hope I can be of hope to someone who is considering taking that first step tonight. Good luck.

    Join in!

    See you on the trail,

    July

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    we all just started out at one time

    Hi July:

    I am on day 11 of my AF journey and it was very encouraging to read your message. You come across as being at peace with yourself and that is where I want to be, too.

    Thanks for sharing your story. It is a testimony to what can be accomplished with a strong commitment.
    John
    AF since 7/13/2010

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      #3
      we all just started out at one time

      Thats where I want to be July, I'm on day 11 now like Paguy.
      This is the longest I've gone without a drink for as long as I can remember. I'm determinded to get AL out of my life for good, posts like yours are invaluable to those of us just starting out. Thank you July.
      xx
      AF since 19th August 2011

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        #4
        we all just started out at one time

        Yep by me coming here has surely helped me staying alcohol free,i am delighted i have found mwo & the friends i have made here.
        Go for it peeps it can be done.


        :congratulatory: Clean & Sober since 13/01/2009 :congratulatory:

        Until one is committed there is always hesitant thoughts.
        I know enough to know that I don't know enough.

        This signature has been typed in front of a live studio audience.

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          #5
          we all just started out at one time

          i am on day 5,and found your post inspirational. thank you

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            #6
            we all just started out at one time

            Nice Post. Love.

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              #7
              we all just started out at one time

              July, thank you for stopping in and congrats again on completing 3 years of continuous sobriety. If you can, maybe I can too!

              DG
              Sobriety Date = 5/22/08
              Nicotine Free Date = 2/27/07


              One day at a time.

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                #8
                we all just started out at one time

                Thanks July for your inspiring story!
                Outside of a dog a book is mans best friend. Inside of a dog its too dark to read

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                  #9
                  we all just started out at one time

                  Hi July, thanks for your post. It is so good for us all to read motivational posts like yours - it is inspirational. See you on the trail,
                  Hill
                  Sober since Feb 7, 2010.

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                    #10
                    we all just started out at one time

                    Thank you, July.

                    I am grateful you posted and shared.

                    We are all on the same trail.

                    The trail to live life, not destroy it.

                    Love,
                    Cindi
                    AF April 9, 2016

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                      #11
                      we all just started out at one time

                      Thanks, July. It's 2 weeks AF today for me, and I'm in the phase of firsts: this weekend, we're getting together at a lake house with a bunch of other couples that love to drink, for instance. How will I handle it? Knowing you did helps me know I can. I can't emphasize enough how much stories like yours help me.

                      Doggie--I see you're almost at 800 days!
                      AF since July 15, 2010. :applouse:
                      "People who drink to drown their sorrow should be told that sorrow knows how to swim." —Ann Landers

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