Inappropriate behaviour at work

[Change]

I know i shouldn't be saying this or posting about this, but i will say, a client whom i work with today came up and began to give me a massage. I was sitting down at a table, so he massaged my shoulders. God, it felt so good as i've had a lot of tension lately, but it was 'inappropriate' in terms of boundaries, so i had to call it quits. What a conflicting moment when you want the person to continue, and for professional and ethical reasons, you can't :egad:

Through all this though, i've decided that i need to hire a professional.

How do i get over the fact that i actually enjoyed a semi-massage from this person (and i'm not allowed to touch him, and vice versa). Sorry about the weird post, but not everything fits into a neat little box!

[gyco]

Inappropriate behaviour at work

hi change good post,it all comes down to Choice, not much different then saying no too Al,have a wonderful weekend gyco

[Guitarista]

Inappropriate behaviour at work

Hi Change,

Funny you should mention that. A colleague was suggesting in a round about, but obvious way, that i massage her shoulders at work the other arvo. I didn't go there, and just played dumb, as i didn't know her that well, and it was a bit weird also, and there were just the 2 of us there. I wouldn't bat an eyelid normally, but i wasn't comfortable with it, so it didn't happen. So no drama. But with your scenario....well, finish the job outside the workplace! ,

[mollyka]

Inappropriate behaviour at work

I would have thought that those feelings were fairly commonplace? I remember many moons ago when I was engaged to hubs there was a chap I worked with - he was newly married and there was definite flirtation and attraction between the two of us, it was the forbidden aspect of workplace/partners etc. Nothing happened PTL!!! BUT it was quite exciting at the time! Deffo best not go there tho!!
Molly