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    Read the My Way Out Book!

    Hi My Way Outers new and old. My own sober journey started right here at My Way Out. I started by downloading the My Way Out book from the Health Store and got busy reading right away. I ordered the "starter kit" from the health store including the abstinence oriented hypnosis CD's. I even ordered Topomax from an off shore pharmacy.

    As soon as my starter kit arrived I started taking the supplements, following the diet and exercise recommendations, listening to the hypnosis CD's, and NOT DRINKING. I also became very active in the followship that this support forum provides. I ultimately ended up deciding not to start the Topomax, but I followed all the other guidelines in the book to the letter. That got me my first 60 days of sobriety.

    My journey has been filled with ups and downs. I have customized my personal sobriety plan with the addition of AA - I find the face to face fellowship helpful as well as the Steps which have helped me deal with baggage from my past and establish a more honest way of living than when I was drinking. But that's just me - don't be afraid to try things and find your own way!

    Over the last year I have strayed away from the diet recommendations in the My Way Out book. I have also changed some of my supplements and gotten away from the amino acids that are included in "All One." With sugar back in my picture, my sugar cravings have returned with a vengeance. The science behind the My Way Out program suggests that sugar and alcohol cravings are strongly connected. I don't want my current sugar cravings to lead me back to AL. I think my brain chemistry needs some healing again, so I'm taking stock and going back to some MWO basics.

    This is my long way of suggesting READ THE BOOK. Consider ALL of the recommendations and how they can help. Will power alone does not stop my cravings. I need more. The support on this forum is a very critical component of my sobriety plan. But there is more to it and I am just making my job of staying sober that much harder if I ignore the other tools available to me.

    Julia Ross has written two books - The Mood Cure and The Diet Cure which I believe are very consistent with the My Way Out recommendations - I'm assuming based on much of the same research. I've dragged these books out of my closet too. I realized she has some video clips on Youtube which you might find helpful sorting out your own cravings, and helping you decide to DOWNLOAD THE MY WAY OUT BOOK and read it to understand the full My Way Out program. Here is one of Julia's videos - that are more if you like this one. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEOkeCJXUbk[/video]]YouTube - Julia Ross on Brain Chemistry and Addiction Treatment

    If getting sober were easy, there wouldn't be a need for My Way Out, AA, Rational Recovery, SMART Recovery, Alan Carr's Easy Way to Stop Drinking, and all the other things out there. Don't be afraid to look under every rock for more help until you find what works for you.

    It's back to the basics for me.

    Strength and hope to you,

    DG
    Sobriety Date = 5/22/08
    Nicotine Free Date = 2/27/07


    One day at a time.

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    Read the My Way Out Book!

    Great advice!
    I too have strayed from the MWO programme this last year (to my embarrassment) and need to get a plan together -- will dig out my book, dust it off and give it a solid read to help me formulate my plan of action.
    "The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it"

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      #3
      Read the My Way Out Book!

      Me too. I think I'm going to order the Starter Kit again. I'm also going to re-read the Rational Recovery book. I combined these two programs with great success a couple years ago, but lost focus and stupidly got conned by The Beast and thought I could have "just one"......what a fucking joke! I've been drinking 12-15 beers a day and smoking. I have to start all over.

      DG, you know how much I care for you. I'm so glad you are recognizing the cravings and are being proactive....that's where I failed. Be strong, girl, I don't ever want you to have to start over.


      Don

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        #4
        Read the My Way Out Book!

        I have a copy of the book and the 2 cd's if anyone would like me to pass them on, just pm me your address.
        "It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"

        AF 10th May 2010
        NF 12th May 2010

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          #5
          Read the My Way Out Book!

          CHIEF!!!! :yougo::yougo::yougo: So good to see you!! Get your ass back on the wagon!!! :l (saying that in the most loving possible way! :h)

          Oney, very good of you to offer sending someone the materials. Share the love. Hope someone takes you up on that!

          Dee Bee, good for you making a plan. If I let myself get willy nilly, things start to fall apart. That is what happened with me on the diet front.

          DG
          Sobriety Date = 5/22/08
          Nicotine Free Date = 2/27/07


          One day at a time.

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            #6
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            DG - You amaze me in so many ways - generosity with your time, your clear thinking, always knowing the right thing to say in response to a post..... I could go on. Just a formal thank you for being such a giving person so willing to help others along their way.

            I also have a MWO book I would be happy to send it to someone. They can PM me their address.

            Choochie

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              #7
              Read the My Way Out Book!

              For me, reading the MWO Book was the beginning of my journey to sobriety. After many years of swearing to stop, "trying to ither moderate or stop", the book and the support here at MWO was what finally made the difference. After reading the book and designing my plan and ordering the supplements, I began my journey! I had decided to "learn to moderate" the MWO way, minus the topamax, as I did not want to have to rely on a drug in order to drink. Just me, no offense to anyone that takes the drugs. After 28 days AF, I decided that I felt so good and that I had come so far, that I could definitely moderate. That night I ended up drinking one bottle of wine and almost a second bottle. Arggghhhh! I learned a valuable lesso, I CANNOT MODERATE. I am happy now that I learned that lesson. That I did not decide to make up my "Own definition or Rules"for modding in order to continue drinking. Instead, I decided to stop drinking for good! I also read "Rational Recovery" and Allan Carr's book. They too were very helpful!

              The MWO message boards are great! Chat is very helpful to chat with others and to gain support and the wisdom of others. But, none of this takes the place of doing our research, setting our plan and making our comittment!

              Best Wishes to All Who are on this Journey!
              Kate

              PS...Great seeing you Chief! I wrote you a welcome back note on the Rational Recovery Thread!
              A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes~Cinderella

              AF 12/6/2007

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                #8
                Read the My Way Out Book!

                Hi DG and all! Thanks so much for the inspiration. I have also read the book and thought "she is describing me" when she talked about her journey with AL. Sadly, mods did not work for me, so I am now going the abstinent route. The book is a wonderful example of needing a plan and a goal with some flexibility to make a positive change in our lives. Thanks for the reminder and thanks for the other suggestions. I have not looked at "rational recovery" and it sounds very interesting. I will definitely look this up too!

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                  #9
                  Read the My Way Out Book!

                  Wow, DG, great thread. Learning new strategies that work for you, sticking with those strategies, then recognizing when we need to tweek and add or change is such an important part of growing and not staying stuck in the same routine. Whatever program works for one does not necessarily mean it will work the very same for another. Recogition and knowing ourselves is sooooooooo important so that we can continue on our road to recovery. As for me, the last 3/12 months in AA has been a huge part of my continuous sobriety. I'm working the steps, learning, questioning, and learning more. It's working so much for now, but I know in the future, I may need to adapt my program to fit my needs or supplement with other strategies. For now, it's all new and lots of info. to take in.

                  Just wanna say hi to old friends Deebee and Chief!
                  Sometimes what you're most afraid of doing is the very thing that will set you free.

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                    Read the My Way Out Book!

                    I cannot agree more. There is definitely a connection with sugar and cravings.

                    Diet and exercise is so essential in this battle.

                    The book is really good. It isn't a hard read either. I suggest for those who don't have it to get it.

                    DG, you are the best. Good for you for recognizing what is going on with you and being proactive about it. xo

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