Thank you, Hill. It has been a very hard couple of days. My husband is an alcoholic also and we had wine in the house. Unfortunately, my madness occurred again this weekend. I feel so down on my self this morning. I told my husband last night that THIS needs to stop! On my end and his end. I, like you Hill, cannot do moderation. It simply does NOT work for me. I have to STOP it.. AL.. COMPLETELY!!! Thank the Lord that there is no more AL in the house. I made sure of that this morning by pouring everything that was left out. So, as I have said before, I am scared... BUT, today June 20, 2011 is MY DATE TO BECOME SOBER. Thank you all for your help and support. You are all very encouraging to me!
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Thank you, Hill. It has been a very hard couple of days. My husband is an alcoholic also and we had wine in the house. Unfortunately, my madness occurred again this weekend. I feel so down on my self this morning. I told my husband last night that THIS needs to stop! On my end and his end. I, like you Hill, cannot do moderation. It simply does NOT work for me. I have to STOP it.. AL.. COMPLETELY!!! Thank the Lord that there is no more AL in the house. I made sure of that this morning by pouring everything that was left out. So, as I have said before, I am scared... BUT, today June 20, 2011 is MY DATE TO BECOME SOBER. Thank you all for your help and support. You are all very encouraging to me!
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Brand new here so not even sure if I am doing this right. I really need some support from anybody. I drink a bottle of vodka a day and over the last year things are progressing very quicky. Liver enzymes are 3 times normal level, black out every night and I'm really scared. I'm the sole provider for my wife and 3 kids but not sure how long I can continue the double life of being a professional every day and absolute drunk every night. Most people have family encouraging them to quit but unfortunately my wife will get upset with because she doesn't want to quit her 2 bottle of wine a day habit. I dont know where to turn but something has to change.
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DJL;1134972 wrote: . Most people have family encouraging them to quit but unfortunately my wife will get upset with because she doesn't want to quit her 2 bottle of wine a day habit. I dont know where to turn but something has to change.
I'm day 13 and except for Father's Day when we usually would have had a nice bottle with our grilled steaks, I have not been missing my big bottle of wine every night--at all. My first day without alcohol my husband drank--though not as much as normal and I was a bit miffed--but got over it quickly, after all I need to be responsible for me and not him--but as the days have gone by he's drinking less and less, and hasn't had anything for the last few days. I think if your drinking buddy stops drinking, your own alcohol abuse starts getting harder and harder to over look.
You might tell your wife you need to quit and would she mind cutting back or not drinking for a few days to help you started AF? Or say, "you don't have to stop, but I do, your support would be appreciated whether you keep drinking or not". If she doesn't want to stop herself, not much you can do, but stop drinking for your sake. You'll feel so much better, no black out guilt--been there--and you may lead your wife by example.
My brother went AF and his wife didn't stop drinking. He remarked that it probably made it harder for him to stay on track, but he knew he was drinking his life away and had to stop to save his own life. His wife drinks much less than she did now. My brother has been AF for nine years and looks fabulous for someone his age--healthy weight, awake looking, no longer bloated. I'm losing weight too and looking foward to losing all the wine weight I've put on.
Stay strong, you came here because you know you need to stop drinking. Take that first step and do it. (((hugs)))
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DJL;1135574 wrote: Made it 24 hours! Really didn't know what to do with myself last night. Went to bed at 9 and slept about an hour all night. This site helps but not sure what's next.
Hang in there--looking foward to seeing your day two post. I'll be two weeks tomorrow and friends are starting to comment on how good I look and ask what I've been doing.
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DJL;1135696 wrote: Jordan, thanks again for your support and congratulations on your 2 weeks!! Keep up the great work. Today is harder than the first but I am clinging to this site for help.
Best of luck,
beautifullife
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I just wanted to pop in and say hi and best of luck to everyone. DJL....I too have a hard time knowing what to do with myself when I'm not drinking. For me, sometimes it is best to just turn in for the night.....it's better than drinking. I slept terrible last night and had some bad dreams...not sure if it's AL related or not. Hang in there...there is so much support here!
Beautifullife - My Husband drinks too and I think he has a bit of a problem but he is able to keep his under control.....I can't. It sounds to me like you are done! I am only on day 5 so I'm right here with you....we are lucky to have found this site!
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WineSucks - I love your post name! Thank you for your support and I am right here with you, also! Though my husband is being supportive of me, I felt like I was alone and couldn't talk to anyone for so long about my problem...I used to sit up in the wee hours of the night/morning after consuming 1,2,.. bottles of wine (just me, and the equal portion for my husband), be completely disgusted with myself and google anything and everything about AL abuse/addiction. I never found anything to completely change my mind and support my need, want, desire to quit until now-- WE ARE very lucky to have found this site!
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