Then, I looked up the calorie count for a bottle of white wine, and it's between 500 and 600 calories. So seven bottles a week, and there has been more than that in some weeks, is more than 4200 extra calories!!! 3200 extra calories and you can gain one pound. I know this because I am otherwise a good eater, and I work out. The drinking was to escape the pain that relationship caused me, and I was broken to the core by a liar who was keeping so many secrets. So he is gone now, and I want to stop this unhealthy habit. So I just dumped the "box of wine" and I won't be drinking that over a period of two days! It is down the sink. I am going to start with today and make a goal of one month to start with! The jeans are not the only reason, but it was physical proof of the effects of the wine on my body. Also, as others mentioned with feeling nauseous the next day, etc. I know I will do this! Thanks for listening!
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I want to say hello to everyone, and I am so glad I found this site. I see I am not the only female out here with a "wine issue." Also, I have anxiety (panic disorder). I really was never much of a drinker. I met a guy about 10 years ago, and because I was not having anyone in the house or ever leaving the house, in order to be comfortable enough for him to come over, I would have some wine. We all know that surely will help with anxiety. Now, it is years later. Long story short....I am drinking a bottle of pino grigio almost every night, and some nights it is two bottles. I can't even believe it! There were weeks where I skipped a few days a week, but not to the point where it was just one night a week drinking wine and the rest of the week no wine. What did it for me today is this...I tried on some jeans I hadn't worn since around December, and these were loose at the time. They are so snug, I can barely zip them today. I broke into tears. I worked hard to get into that smaller size, too!
Then, I looked up the calorie count for a bottle of white wine, and it's between 500 and 600 calories. So seven bottles a week, and there has been more than that in some weeks, is more than 4200 extra calories!!! 3200 extra calories and you can gain one pound. I know this because I am otherwise a good eater, and I work out. The drinking was to escape the pain that relationship caused me, and I was broken to the core by a liar who was keeping so many secrets. So he is gone now, and I want to stop this unhealthy habit. So I just dumped the "box of wine" and I won't be drinking that over a period of two days! It is down the sink. I am going to start with today and make a goal of one month to start with! The jeans are not the only reason, but it was physical proof of the effects of the wine on my body. Also, as others mentioned with feeling nauseous the next day, etc. I know I will do this! Thanks for listening!Tags: None
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NoMoreWine,
Love your name - me too!!!!!!
I was a wine head, just like you. But I stopped the madness & you can do it too
If you haven't already, go to the Health store here & download the MWO book,
And be sure to make a good plan for yourself! look in the https://www.mywayout.org/community/f1...box-27556.html for some great ideas.
I medicated myself with wine in attempt to keep myself calm when my husband became seriously depressed & refused to get the proper help. Well we know that didn't work & he left more than a year ago (when I was more than a year sober). Now I'm wishing he had left more than 15 years ago, it could have saved me a lot of trouble
Congrats on dumping the last of the wine, I did that too - made a real ceremony of it so I would never forget that feeling.
Please drop in the Newbies Nest for more support.
Wishing you the best!
LavAF since 03/26/09
NF since 05/19/09
Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:
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:welcome: NoMoreWineThisTime - I too love that name! Sounds like you have some awesome goals and so much more to live for than a daily wine buzz. I think better fitting jeans is a perfectly fine reason to get yourself onto the sober path. There is also no sweeter revenge against a loser X boyfriend than LOOKING FABULOUS.
Looking forward to sharing the journey.
DGSobriety Date = 5/22/08
Nicotine Free Date = 2/27/07
One day at a time.
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Hi No More,
You've reached a point. A point we all have experienced. Dive deep into this website and work on a plan. More? Look for everyone here to support you!Outside of a dog a book is mans best friend. Inside of a dog its too dark to read
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Thanks for your kind words!
Thank you so much. Yes, the horrible man took advantage of me and sucked out every bit of my energy, but when it starts impacting my health, enough is enough.
I am not sure if the trying to just have a glass here and there works, after going a long time without it or not. Right now, it's just more of a nightly ritual. I will go a month, and then I will see what is what. I will also save so much money!!
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Wow, your story sounds exactly like mine. I hate the weight that drinking wine can put on. I constantly worry about it. Like you, I have been dealing with serious issues in my marriage for the last 10 years. I drink to supress the feelings of anger and resentment. I am on day 21 and feeling so much better. Hang in there, the weight loss, good sleep and improved mood will be worth it.Don't worry, be happy!
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