I am going to be a winner
Hey Ronnie - just wanted to add my two cents worth as well. This of course, is my own opinion but I wanted to say how things look from here. You have to concentrate on your sobriety. That is first and foremost. Yes, you have to take care of your children and your home, but please make sure you take very good care of yourself as well. Ignore the negative vibes from your husband. He doesn't understand how hard it is because he's never had a problem with AL. So, since you know you won't get anywhere with him, as far as affections and such go, don't go seeking them. It will only make you feel rejected and give him the chance to say something belittling. That part of your life is what it is and it doesn't look like you will be seeing any positive change from your husband's side. Accept it and move forward. That's the best thing you can do for YOU. Don't let things you can't change pull you down. Make a plan, as Lavande said and stick close to the boards when you're struggling. In fact, other members often say that checking in to MWO every day is one of the things that helps them stay sober. As I've said before, there is always someone here to lend and ear and support when you need them.
Best of luck, Ronnie.
And I'm looking forward to see KTAB pole dance....
Hey Ronnie - just wanted to add my two cents worth as well. This of course, is my own opinion but I wanted to say how things look from here. You have to concentrate on your sobriety. That is first and foremost. Yes, you have to take care of your children and your home, but please make sure you take very good care of yourself as well. Ignore the negative vibes from your husband. He doesn't understand how hard it is because he's never had a problem with AL. So, since you know you won't get anywhere with him, as far as affections and such go, don't go seeking them. It will only make you feel rejected and give him the chance to say something belittling. That part of your life is what it is and it doesn't look like you will be seeing any positive change from your husband's side. Accept it and move forward. That's the best thing you can do for YOU. Don't let things you can't change pull you down. Make a plan, as Lavande said and stick close to the boards when you're struggling. In fact, other members often say that checking in to MWO every day is one of the things that helps them stay sober. As I've said before, there is always someone here to lend and ear and support when you need them.
Best of luck, Ronnie.
And I'm looking forward to see KTAB pole dance....
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