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[rosy]

Hello everyone,
I came across this site yesterday and I must admit I entered and read the forums with some trepidation. I have been concerned about my drinking habits for some time but have always managed to justify to myself that it was not an issue.
I suppose New Years day was the turning point for me as with many others, although it was not one of the worst hangovers I've had recently. Lying in my bed all day unable to lift my head from the pillow I was filled with self loathing and shame but it suddenly struck me that I was wasting my valuable life time either a) gearing up to get drunk b) getting absolutely wasted and c) recovering from being absolutely wasted!! That by my reckoning writes off two days of my life because of my habit each time I binge like this (which is several times a week). What a waste!
I am still reading around the site and am deciding whether to follow the programme at the moment. My main hesitation is taking the meds as my partner and I are trying for a baby (another obvious reason not to drink, I also stopped smoking 30+ cigarettes a month ago). I must read more but does anyone have any info re taking the suppliments or meds whilst trying to concieve or during pregnancy? Any advice is welcome.
This site is incredibly inspirational and warm and I am looking forward to getting to know people better.
Rosy x

[louie]

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Sorry Rosy,

Can't help you re the meds and I am only 6 days into being AF but without any meds, am taking multi vitamin and milk thistle (just bought today).

But I am sure there are very well informed people who will be able to give you great first hand advice.

Welcome to the forum, they are just fantastic support!!

Louie

[drunkinslayer500]

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Hello rosy and welcome
First let me say its cool that you stopped smoking cigarettes.
I'm a smoker and I'm still battling with that habit.
As for your drinking... If your trying to have a baby then stopping is a must.
The best thing to do is see a doctor before taking any medication.
There are many people who will give you there option BUT its best to see a professional.

This is a great place to start your journey on staying sober because you will find that you are not alone in your history with alcohol.
You will find many story's similar to yours ( we can all relate ).
But the number one thing that you will need is just old fashion will power.
If your goal is to stop and you really want it, then i believe you will and can do it.
But in the meantime look around and read the posts here.
You will find good information and ways on staying sober.
God bless and good luck

[Popeye]

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Hi rosy and welcome.
This is indeed a fantastic site and I'm sure that you will find as much help as you need. I can't help with the supps etc. as I am only getting my head around it myself. However, I'm sure there are others who could steer you in the right direction.
I know what you mean about wasted days. I've had sooooo many, but, as they say, never again.

[rosy]

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Thanks

Thank you for you quick replies and encouraging words, it really makes a difference. Forgot to mention this is now day 3 AF for me and I am feeling strong so far. Not sure if I want to do the moderation or completely stop yet but I suppose I will figure that out along the way.:l

[lorisunshine]

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Welcome Rosy,
I am glad you found us. I cannot advise you as to what meds to take of not. You need medical advise if a baby is at stake. I have done 30 days AF back in July and then fell off the wagon. Just started again and I am on day 3, like you. I did it without meds and supplements the first time and am trying to do it again without. I don't think that poor liver of mine can take much more.
Please come and read and post, it really helps. Don't ask my why it helps, it just does. You will find some wonderfully inspiring, caring and hilariously funny members here. Welcome Rosy.
Lori.

[sammys]

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Hello Rosy, I was in the same boat you were just a short 13 days ago, but you can do it. This site is very good and helpful. I have not tried any of the meds or supplements but I have been told they can help alot with cravings. Read alot and Post alot.

[betty boop]

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Hi Rosy & :welcome:

I Joined in november and untill christmas I had reduced my intake from 3 bottles of red (every day) to only one....

I'm now on my 3rd day AF without any meds so you may be able to go without the meds .............

Take care, Paula :h :l :h

[Accountable for Me]

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Hi

Hi and welcome to the boards! You will find a lot of support here as the others have mentioned.

I would seek professional advice from your physician before starting any program seeing you are trying to conceive a baby.

Maybe you could focus on eliminating the toxins built up in your system so when you do conceive the baby it will have a healthy uterus to grow and develop in instead of thinking about the drink? Maybe focusing on this will provide you with some strength to stay AF?

Having a baby is a wonderful, wonderful thing. I have a daughter who is almost 20 months old. I was sober for two months before she was conceived and stayed sober until after she was born. (a whole nother story, hence why I am here.... to straighten myself up for both mine and her sake.)

3 days AF is a great start!

Also, one thing my doctor said to me is that folic acid is a good thing to take even before conceiving. Maybe start on a multivitamin, which contains the 4mg of folic acid. It will be beneficial to you and your future baby.

All the best and welcome to this site.:welcome:

[rosy]

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Thanks Accountable, the health focus thing is fantastc advice. Thank you for taking the time to write.