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    NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

    Thought it might help to have an AF thread.............stay strong peeps. We'll all feel so much better tomorrow without the hangover, guilt and misery of the empty promise of alcohol!:l

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    NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

    Great idea Unwasted

    Please believe me any Newbies out there that although the beginning is a scary place its only because we are scared of the unknown.
    We stay in abusive relationships because we dont know what else to do, thats how it is with AL. The evil familiarity can keep us bound in chains even when we are at our most miserable. Once we break that chain and start to take a few wobbly steps on our own the feeling of freedom is wonderful.

    Whats even more wonderful is the people here to help you along on these wobbly steps until you are strong enough to stand on your own. Lets say goodbye to our fears in 2012 and be bold enough to stand together against this wicked addiction.

    If you have stubbled onto this site :welcome: its a Godsend. Know you are not alone and there is always someone here to help.

    Chill
    "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
    AF - JAN 1st 2010
    NF - May 1996

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      #3
      NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

      Chillgirl,

      Thanks for stopping by with some words of wisdom from someone who is coming up on two years sober! Very admirable and something I aspire to achieve! It's very helpful for those of us just starting out to hear about the upside to an AF life!

      :l:l

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        NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

        Thanks for starting this thread, Unwasted. Today is an extra hard day to stay AF, but I'm committed to doing it. I have spent most of 2011 trying to shake free from this addiction. I've made great strides, and drink much less overall, but can't seem yet to quit completely like I want to. So, if I don't drink today, or after today, I will have officially Kicked the Drink in 2011! That's a lot of incentive to help me through the day.

        Chill, I think a lot of us will be looking at your quit date today with a lot of admiration for what you've achieved. Congratulations to you. I hope there will be a small army of us following in your footsteps.
        ~ The chief cause of failure is trading what you want most for what you want now ~
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        Goal #1 - 7 days AF -

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          NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

          Today is an extra hard day to stay AF, but I'm committed to doing it
          Irie, we're so programmed to think this should be a big party day. But, as Byrdie and Lav remind us, it's just another day. Let's say no to the brainwashing and yes to our health and well-being.

          Hoping you can stay strong!:l

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            NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

            Irie - its a bastard of an addiction and I battled for years trying to moderate with no sucess. NEVER never never give up!

            I just want to say that this is the only New Year's resolution I ever kept :H
            "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
            AF - JAN 1st 2010
            NF - May 1996

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              #7
              NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

              Brilliant idea, Unwasted.

              Not only is it New Year's Day tomorrow and it's SHOUT OUT SUNDAY. Just think how great we'll all feel tomorrow morning shouting it loud and shouting it proud that we've woken up with out a hangover.

              And of course it'll be party time for Chill's 2nd AF anniversary.

              J x
              :l
              It could be worse, I could be filing.
              AF since 7/7/2009

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                #8
                NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

                Thanks for jumping in here girls - love hearing from the veterans.:l

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                  #9
                  NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

                  Great Idea Unwasted!!
                  I will be AF...and you are right....it is just another day
                  BRAVO Chilly!!
                  I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                  Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                    #10
                    NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

                    Good morning everyone on just another day & no reason to drink AL :H :H

                    Here's a tip newbies to get thru tonight AF.........
                    Turn off the deprivation thinking & rev up your gratitiude thinking
                    Think about how happy, healthy, unhung, strong, proud & guilt free you will feel waking up tomorrow morning! What better way to start the brand new year??

                    I am proud & grateful to be starting another brand new year without the AL monkey on my back

                    Happy New Year to all of us!!!!!

                    Lav
                    AF since 03/26/09
                    NF since 05/19/09
                    Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                      #11
                      NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

                      Amen Lav!!
                      I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                      Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                        #12
                        NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

                        WOW, such sage wisdom in a post, and how true.


                        Its just another 24 hours to get through without letting the beast convince our AL brain that it needs a fix. Nothing much worse than waking up in the am, only to have let yourself down, for the small amount of satisfaction(if any) of putting poison in our bodies

                        We need to publish the MWO chronicles and all spit the royalties..........LMAO


                        Truly blessed to have found this site, and all its members.....contributing a whole lot, or just a little bit. I firmly believe ANYONE newb or seasoned veteran has something to add.
                        Living on Planet Sober since 05/02/11




                        DAREDEVIL COOKIE MONSTER

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                          #13
                          NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

                          SAGE = OLD Nelz.......
                          Are you calling me old????? :H :H :H :H
                          OK, I am over 29!!!!!
                          AF since 03/26/09
                          NF since 05/19/09
                          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                            #14
                            NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

                            me too!!! just barely!!
                            I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                            Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                              #15
                              NEW YEAR'S EVE AF THREAD FOR NEWBIES

                              Thanks Unwasted for starting a wonderful thread. I am soooo looking forward to approaching 2012 sober and I hope to remain AF for all of 2012 and I can't wait to get it started. Let's do this thing! Together we are so much stronger than if we are alone. I am so excited for everyone. What are your goals for 2012? Mine is to be at peace with my mind and myself once and for all. Live simple and grow good vegetables.

                              From Nelz -- We need to publish the MWO chronicles and all spit the royalties..........LMAO
                              I have often thought this would be a wonderful book!! The number "29" would have to be in the title. What would the title be???? There are so many good ideas here and they just keep coming. We are truly amazing.

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